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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 August 2014):
 what will his admitting it change?
will it make you leave?
if you know he's cheating why do you stay?
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (14 August 2014):
 To hell with him admitting it! Why won't you leave!?! That's the real question here. I won't go on and on as I know I certainly can and find myself doing a lot with situations like yours but honestly speaking; you've got to show some self respect (even if you've none at least pretend that you do) and leave this person that you're with because you're asking all the wrong questions here when the thing you should be asking yourself is: "is all that's OK in the relationship enough for me to stay with a cheater?". That's it. Full stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2014): You know it's true or you wouldn't be here asking about it. He will never admit it. Cheaters will deny it even if you catch them in bed with someone else. If they were honest they wouldn't be cheaters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2014): Why would he tell a woman stupid enough to stay with him while he's cheating that he is cheating and increase the possibility he'll have to stop?
OP with all due respect what difference will him admitting to it make? Will that make it okay then? Are you hoping you'll be able to grow a pair of ovaries and leave him if he did?
You need to ask yourself why him admitting to it is more important that dumping his ass.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 August 2014):
 Admitting it makes no difference.
Cheating is cheating. And he knows you will still stick around no matter if he fesses up or not.
Why be with someone who doesn't think you are IMPORTANT enough for him to be faithful? and truthful?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2014): If you know he's cheating, why are you still with him? What difference will it make if he admits it; when you're getting the truth from everybody else?
If he admits it, then what?
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reader, MSA +, writes (14 August 2014):
 Well, if you truly believe that he's cheating on you and you cannot accept it then there's only one of two options:
1. Call him out on it and see what he says.
2. Break up with him letting him know that is the reason.
A relationship should always be based on trust, and if you can't trust him gor what ever the reason is, you'll need to seriously consider whether to stay in that relationship or not.
Good luck!
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