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writes:Im not gonna lie. I love my mother and shes my everything and we are so close to each other.but something weird is happening. One day she told us that we are going to meet a guy she used to know with his family. He has daughter close to my age and they were very nice. But after afew weeks. I noticed that she was texting him and she send him pic of me. When i get closer to her to see her mobile. She just turn off her phone or act nervous. And yesterday i saw him texting my mom with Kisses smileys and calling her "My love".Is this is called cheating on my dad??How do I react to this? What should I do? I feel disgusted and I started to hate that guy and his daughter and feel disgusted
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2014): This is really a tough thing to suspect of your own mother.
I think you and you mother need to talk and you should pressure a few facts out of her.
She introduced the man to both you and your dad? I think you need a few more facts before jumping to any conclusions; and this is a situation better handled between your parents.
There may be more than meets the eye, and you should ask your mother about what you saw. They may be old friends and introducing each other to their families. Obviously she knew this man from long ago, and he just may be using inappropriate responses; but that doesn't mean your mother is doing the same.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (21 August 2014):
 Does sound odd
I would ask your mum,when its just you two, about the man and his daughter,why you met. Tell her you are worried about what's going on and need to know why she is in contact with him, that you are unhappy
Sending a pic of you is quite worrying, if he's met you he doesn't need a photo - he knows what your like.
You may get the truth off her, you may not. Don't tell your dad, they have to sort it between them, could be he is already suspicious just as you are.
At the end of the day its their marriage and whatever happens you are old enough to cope however bad it gets. You could be wrong too. Although it sounds like somethings not right.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 August 2014):
 Ok no take a deep breath, before you launch yourself into orbit over something negative, try to remain positive. nless you have other 'evidence' than what you have presented. This situation is more than likely VERY innocent. Tere is such a thing as friendship that is everlasting. She and he were probably very close friends back in school and she is simply trying to work it in such a way that he could be part of her friends and family realm again. Don't be so quick to judge. In life many people of the opposite sex are like brother and sister and are 'kissing cousins' without the sexual overtones. Sit back and let life unfold around you without trying to shape it in such a way that you think it outght to be. Mothers can have friends from the past as well as fathers can remain friends with girls they went to school with. It's not all about cheating. Best wishes
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