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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Husband made me stop working , now wants custody of our child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - My husband got a new job, and we moved to this new town and he started his new job. He was telling me how great this was going to be and that I did not need to work anymore. I stayed home and took care of our child, he ended up cheating on me and ...

Cheated on husband with his brother, he left but now is back and we had sex again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - okay 3 years ago my brother in law came to live with my husband and I, well 5 months into him living with us, my bil and I starting having feeling (which we addressed) and then a sexual relationship. my husband at the time was in jail for fdomestic ...

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was ...

Should I tell our spouses about affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have posted a few questions about this problem but here we go again. I'm married and have been having a 'thing' with a married man. After months of flirting, sex, hundreds of texts, I realised I had fallen for this other man. To the point I would ...

She's accusing me of cheating on her and being jealous of her male friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently. However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends. The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along we...

Should I move in with her once her husband leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I met that married woman and had a sex with her the same day. Last June we went to vacation together, she came back pregnant had an abortion while still living with her husband. She has told me, once her husband is out I'll be in. The woman never ...

Do emotional gestures actually mean anything or does it just mean something if your in a relationship?

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30 July 2011 (F) - a friend and i were talking about relationships..he is sort of a player..we were talking about cheating and the reasons why people do it etc..he said it is a horrible thing and from a guy's perspective we sometimes cheat even if we are happy in a ...

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...

He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...

My husband has admitted that he has and is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My husband has admitted that he has or is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend. When I asked him to end the friendship he says I am being unfair and that I don't understand how hard it is for him to make friends (we live in a small town ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

I feel that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work...What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I can't get over the feeling that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work. They have been friends now for a couple of years but she recently got married and is already having marriage problems. My hus...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...

How come it's much harder for a man to to find someone to cheat with?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Statistics show that the number of both attached men and women that cheat on their significant other are about equal. If this is true, how come it's much harder for a man to meet a woman to cheat with than it is for a woman to find a man to do the ...

I don't know why I am with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - My gf had a past. she had her ex for 4 yrs. even after being in relationship with me, she cheated me behind my back.she used to enjoy with another guy who was attractive and was her college mate.I made her realise her mistake on time.Now when she ...

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

Incredibly attracted to a guy and don't know if I can resist him for much longer

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am 35 and have a warm attractive intelligent man working on my house. He has a good body and is tall and athletic. He used to be a lecturer but was made redundant and now runs his own specialist business. I have a loving relationship with my ...

Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...

Is a guy cheating if he comes up with a new position after not having had sex for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - If guy comes up with a brand new position after not having sex for a while with his partner, does it mean that he is cheating and he discovered it with someone else? ...

Fiance made a rather unexpected confession...he slept with an ex in the early stage of our relationship.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - My fiance has made a rather unexpected confession: one of his ex-girlfriends was actually a one night stand AND he slept with her during our early relationship stage (after our 2nd, or 3rd date). I normally wouldn't be upset over this. I do ...

Stick it out? Or end things now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some advice on whether I should stick things out in my current relationship or end things now, because I feel I am starting to fall out of love with my bf. We've been together 10 months, and had both been single for a year before meet...

Do husbands and/or boyfriends ever regret cheating on their spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I would like to hear the mens point of view. How did you feel after you cheated? Do you regret it? Why?...

How do you find a person to love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - How do you find a person to love? That is my question. I'm unhappily, very unhappily married. Never been happy in fact. I just want to love. Is it too much to ask? I love somebody now who's deeply committed to his fiance'. So,there is no c...

I cant stop thinking she is going to cheat or something is going to happen with her ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I just got with a girl (been together for 4 months) and lately i've been feeling really insecure with her. lately i've been going crazy thinking she is going to cheat on me or if she gets back into contact with her ex. She has a child with her ex ...

Who do I choose and how do I handle this situation efficiently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - The commitment phobic guy who will always cheat or the man who might not be able to fully understand me and my issues. Am a somewhat complex individual with a few issues which means only a few people understand me and can handle my mood swings, ...

I found out that the man I was dating is married...now what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - I was dating a man for 3 months and a week ago I found out that he is married. His wife read my message on his phone, contacted me and told me that they've known each other for 11 years, are married, have a 6 year old child and that she's now ...

I was mad and cheated on her, but now her family and friends hate me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My ex and I got into a fight while we were still dating and I was mad and cheated on her. I felt horrible and told her about it the very next day. She was mad and we broke up. A few weeks later we got back together and I cheated again. This all ...

After this, do you think I will hear from him again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) - Me and a guy i knew from school (we're 24 now) used to have a casual thing when we were both single. I'd never done "casual" sex before and after a while i began to have feelings for him. At one point i told him that i didn't think i could be casual ...

When a man takes longer with sex, does that mean he has had sex recently??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have ...

Should I take him back after what he did??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 months. He was in the army during the week, and during most of the weekends he was home. When he was here in the weekend we spended most of our time together. He was so in love with me t...

If your fella cheated and left but still said he cared and looked out for you, what would you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - If your fella cheated on you and then got into a relationship with her, but months later is telling you that he is looking out for you and still cares about you what would you make of it? I do not want him back at all as I believe I deserve better ...

He cheated and will not stop calling. What does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - he cheated Im trying to not think about it but he will not stop calling,and I dont know why. We have a 8 month old together and I know if I answer he will say he is calling in regards to her, but he calls me from morning until night non-stop, at ...

He is back in touch with the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with, what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hi i've been in this relationship for 10 months now and everything was going good at the start but he's changed and started to show his true colours... here is the twist he's been in care for 12 years and has been abused by everyone in his ...

Will I ever meet someone who won't cheat on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up two days ago. Prior to this we were having some problems, but we talked about it and things seemed to get better.Three nights ago was our anniversary,he never gets weekends off from work, but he requested off. At thw ...

I cheated on my girlfriend and told her. What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - Ok so Saturday evening we had a party and everyone got wasted. There were like 7 guys including me and 2 girls, one of which was a girlfriend of one of the guys. The other one is still single. So everyone of the guys tried to get her attentio...

Why was she sitting on his lap? is it all as innocent as he makes out or was he cheating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Last year my husband finally told me the truth about what really happened when he was involved with another girl before we got married. We have been married 4 years, together 10 this year, and about 5 years ago he cheated on me with a coworker.. So ...

Trying to pass off another man's child as my husbands....Is this really such a big deal?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I have been married for 2 months, but pregnant with another man's baby. i dated by husband for 3 years, but he really treated me badly for a while. I fell pregant by him and he "forced", me to abort, which i regreted.I resorted to cheating on him ...

My ex cheated on me with my best friend and now everything has turned upside down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - dear users , this is actually a story can be made like a movie !!! ... i won't say much details but i will tell you the outlines and i want you to help me choosing the right way , 4 years ago i was committed to someone " a guy" we lived a great ...

He is still friends with the girl he cheated on me with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I am seeing someone who has slept with a girl he was sharing a house with when we were together but going through a bad stint. He didn't tell me I found out months later through someone else. She hates me but he has remained friends with her and ...

Is a threesome classed as cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to get with another girl cos he thinks it will be such a turn on. I don't mind I said il do It but is it classed as cheating if he was there? And where can you meet a girl who will wanna do it? ( no escorts or anything...

Broke up with my BF because he was "sexting" this other girl, but now I want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Basically, I've just recently split up with my boyfrienda month ago because he was 'sexting' this girl, we saw eachother a couple times after but now we don't speak at all because I deleted him off facebook and stuff, (I done that cos I thought out ...

Best Friend Slept with my BF. Now What???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - A year ago I found out my boyfriend of one year slept with someone I considered a good friend behind my back multiple times. Obviously I was devastated, but I gave him a second chance and accepted him back into my life. During the past year I have ...

BF is a flirt but did he have a fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - How do I know if I can trust my boyfriend? My bf and I were attending his nephew’s high school’s volleyball games. The nephew was new to the sport, and pretty much sat on the bench every game. At most, he got to serve once or twice. At the...

Guy cant seem to make up his mind - me or his GF. Whats going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

24 July 2011 (?) - This is long i know so if you're not going to read it please don't answer. I need help. Me and a guy friend since school (we're both 24 now) used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stup...

My ex girlfriend cheated on me and I now I'm not sure if I can forgive her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) - I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years. Recently, she suggested that we break up because due to reasons that I would prefer not to disclose. However, I still believed that she was the only person in the whole world for me, ...

Is he a cheater or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - i been with my boyfriend about 5 years now wwe have a son together ... to get to the point isever since i had my son i feel fat which is normal but i miss beeing in my size 5 pants and i hate wearing size 9 my breast got huge i us to be a c now im a ...