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He cheated and will not stop calling. What does he want?

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Question - (26 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *ustoverit writes:

he cheated Im trying to not think about it but he will not stop calling,and I dont know why. We have a 8 month old together and I know if I answer he will say he is calling in regards to her, but he calls me from morning until night non-stop, at times when he knows the baby is sleep.I hacked his facebook but he got, everything back in order now so what does he want? Does he want to get stuff off his chest.Help me to understand what is going on I found out he was talking to multiple girls, telling them he wanted thm. Why wont he call them why is he constantly calling me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011):

ignore all his calls and well start preparing for the rest of your life.

you and your baby will be ok. You will have hard days and some good days. but one day at a time.

well he wanted all those women , he had sex wih 1 that u know off, and now he is free to do as he please. BUT DO NOT mope around and wait for him..........go live your life. you are young.....have fun (be responsible though) and enjoy your life as a single woman.

he put u through hell and you deserve better - so much better.

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (26 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntHe's trying to say sorry and get you to take him back. But just keep ignoring his calls because you deserve better.

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A male reader, Roshii United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2011):

Roshii agony aunt"you don't know what you've got till its gone" Springs to mind here.

If you don't want to see him you could always handle his visits with your daughter through a family member, (like your mother or father for example) Were he goes to there house to see her and your family supervise, If you have reason not to trust him taking her out that is.

If you want time to yourself just tell him that and turn your phone off. Tell your family your doing so and present them with another way of contacting you.

You deserve time to absorb everything, and if you can get help off a family member then you should ask for it so you actually get rest and time to sort your head out.

i hope that helps and i hope you get the rest you deserve.

Roshii

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