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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I do love him a lot but am I a mug?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - This is a long story lol.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years ( 6 Month break between) we have a 2 yr old daughter also. Anyways at first he was perfect but after aa while of him smoking drugs I ended with him an found someone kn...

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average ...

Help!!! I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating. Lately he has been distant, says its more work related. We don't speak as much as we used to. Last week as we were texting he called me "Judy" my name is no where even close to th...

Who does he like more, me or his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey umm I really like this guy... But he has a girlfriend, But everytime he is with me he cheats on his girfriend with me, He flirts with me, He kisses me I think he likes me... I can see the way he looks at me, I dont know who he likes more Me ...

Can someone who's cheated, have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Can someone who has cheated on their partner have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on? Specifically if they never confess that they cheated to their partner? Can they marry that person and have a good, solid marriage, by withhold...

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...

Is it wrong to feel tempted by the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Is it right to get attracted to a member of the opposite sex even though you are in a relationship that is going well? And when this happens...is it wrong to feel tempted? ...

I keep finding texts on my husbands phone, am I flogging a dead horse here or should I try and make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - three weeks ago i found some texts on my husbands phone (he had been out drinking all night with his mates again, and obviously got careless and forgot to delete them) they were not text that i would send to just a friend. "I would give anything to ...

He broke up with me because he thinks he was a bad boyfriend! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was a bad boyfriend and he did everything wrong? erm a couple of months ago our relationship was a little rough because he cheated on me and was texting other girls, i got fed up of it and he got fe...

What have I done to deserve the cold shoulder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 3.5 years and have been living together for 2.5 years everything was going well until out of the blue he told me he didn't love me anymore. When this happened i felt lost i didn't know where our future was going. He then ...

How bad is the occasional kiss when you are married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My situation.... I have been in a committed relationship for four years, married for the past two. I adore my husband - he is everything that I could possibly ask for in a partner, but I cannot seem to keep myself in check when it comes to othe...

My fiance and I have been fighting since day 1!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 2 years. we have been fighting for our relationship from the start. our parents dont approve because of religious differences and my friends thought it was a rebelion against my parents. 3 months into our relationship ...

Why did my married lover walk away from me? There are so many questions left unanswered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm newbie here. Anyways, I just wanted to share my story, a story which I held it for a long time since I don't have no one to talk to..This is gonna be a long one, but i'll try to make it short as much as I can. I hope you guys will understand ...

My wife asked me to let her sleep with other men, but doesn't want to let me sleep with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Ok, So my wife and I have been married for almost 3 years. It's a very good relationship, we are quite open with eachother, we don't hide things and almost never argue. our sex is, I would say, above average... not too much but not too little ...

What do you think that I should do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - 2 years ago, I met a boy and we fell in love with each other immediately. Everyone could see that we felt something for each other. It was like a fairy tale. He was very shy and he kept his eyes only on me. We have never seen eachother anymore ...

Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...

Why doesn't he understand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 7 years and known him for longer than that! We were also business partners and the best of friends suring our relationship. He cheated, I forgave him, then I found out he kept cheating on and off for 3 years! ...

Please tell me... how to break up with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. in the 2nd year of my relationship he told me about his other girlfriend. we called her and he said to her that it was over between them. in the eve she called me back and told that they had sex 3 ...

I'm scared that my boyfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much, that i would do almost anything for him. I love him and i tell him that i love him every night. He says he loves me too but i am convinced he is cheating. Well it started like this... I went on our shared laptop an...

I don't know what to make of someone that could cheat, propose, and marry me without ever telling me that he cheated on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I've been married for less than a year. And I just discovered that my husband cheated on me 4 years into our relationship. I found out he proposed to me a few months after he cheated (sexual and emotional relationship with other woman). I am so ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My partner of 4 and half years wants to end our relationship, he says he doesnt love me. He is still very affectionate and touching and intimate with me. HOw can he be like this if he doesnt love me. We never fight and we get along well, he did ...

How do you get past the hurt after being cheated on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - For all those who have been cheated on, how do you get passed the hurt and get on with life again? I feel so empty and I can't seem to find a way forward. After having been with my husband since I was 19 (now 31), I feel so lost. I don't even ...

I tricked my boyfriend into meeting up by pretending to be someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Found bf of 2 yrs on ashley madison which he then deleted Later found him onb aff and I set up fake I'd and messaged him He finally responded and we shared some detail emails basicallt About sex. After an invitation to meet and very detail of ...

I'm so upset, I lost my virginity to him but now he thinks I've cheated and is back with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hey, bit of a long story but need help! Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the septembe...

I don't love him anymore, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...

I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...

Do women always find out when they're cheated on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - I used to be a pretty positive person but within this past year i've become increasingly negative with regards to relationships and guys. I think the thing that really pushed me over the edge was a guy i liked, who knew i liked him, asked if we...

Should I stay with my husband or destroy everything for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am in a situation that I am married and have been for seven years. I have a boyfriend who I have meet at work and he is in early 20's and I am in my late 20's. We have gotten close to the point I have developed strong feelings for him. I actullay ...

Is unfaithfulness a disease?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Ok so here's my story. I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 9 months. I love him too much, he means the world to me. I even have plans for the future with him. BUT i have some faithfulness issues, for some reason, I ...

It's been nearly two months since he left me and I can't let go. I keep wanting to restore our friendship but I know it's impossible.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I was online friends with a married man more than 20 years my senior (I'm 22, 21 at the time). I knew from the beginning that he was married and we started off mainly as just acquaintances. However, it seemed like he fell for me over time and around ...

Husband doesn't like being with me in Public

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I'm 38 and married to a younger man. He and I have great chemistry at home (awesome, in fact) but he completely withdraws and doesn't want to be with me in public. I love to dance and he will not dance with me in public although he will dance with ...

Need some advice on how to overcome trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd appreciate your advice on how to stop myself becoming the kind of gf I don't want to be, and hope this doesn't sound stupid. I've been with my bf for a few months, both exclusive. He's a great guy-kind, caring, handsome, sexy and clev...

My b/f wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Oh gosh im in love with my boyfriend were both 16 and im bisexual. He wants too try a threesome and im not sure if I should cause it might mess up our relationship. Hes cheated on me before and I know he dont desrve me. Im not sure if I should ...

Married man wants me to move into his house with his wife and kids and his wife is ok with it??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - i am 17 and i and this marrierd man are in love i mean he loved me and was regretig why he had married but i definitely know that this love won't lead to anywhere. he also understands that it won't lead to anywhere but he swear to take me as his ...

How to get over a boyfriend cheating on me with my sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - For November of 2009 to January 2010 I was seeing a guy that was two years younger than me. (I was 18, he was 16). I would this a bit strange to begin with but seemed to be working well. Towards the end he started acting weird towards me, he k...

Why do cheaters feel entitled to lie, sneak and hurt others?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hi all, when I read through questions and answers I read about people cheating on others (my ex did it to me) It literally tore me apart. But my question is; If you are a cheater, Why do you do this? Why can't you get out of a relationship honestly ...

How do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - how do you get over a woman who you cant decide is hurt or just plain malicious and stupid? met this woman on facebook...of all places, and we decided to meet up. She was perfect. couldnt ask for a prettier or more polite lady. from the off I knew ...

She cheated and now I am always comparing myself to the other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - hi. i dated a girl for 4 years and she left for her studies to USA and then we were in touch online. she never wanted to leave me. but she left. in tow years we never met after that. she came back and we married. she went back to continue her ...

Have you cheated on your partner and been able to have a good relationship / marriage afterwards? Share the story!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Does anyone have any stories about cheating on their partner and being able to have a good relationship after? Has anyone here cheated on their partner, NEVER told them, and been able to have a healthy long-term relationship with the person they ...

Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through ...

Do I have to dump my married man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Im inlove with married man,we have been together for some mnths now,judging by his actions i think he loves me,god im so much inlove with him,he dont want to talk much about his marriage,is he using me for sex?do i have to dump him b4 it 2 late?...

How can I seduce a married lady

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - i m a 26 yrs old guy..........i m havng affair with a 34 yr old married lady.....she has thre kids.....her husband is 50 yrs of age..how can i convince her for sex ......or seduce her.........as she doesnt like her husband.just with her for sake of ...

No trust, controlling or lying by ommission

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - I work away from home for long periods of time. Somebody recently told me that my wife cheated, she denies it, but it is plausable. I love my wife and she hasn't really lied to me, the other person has, but i still have doubts. For some reaso...

It feels like we are broken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey I'm 22 year old and I'm daten a younger guy he's 19 years old and since the begging our relationship has Been a lot of lies on both our parts really. Now I'm madly inlove and I change for him I gave a lit away for him cuz I wanted to i did it ...

Why do men start these outside relationships and think that it's okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - My husband of 16+ years is a very loving man not only to me but to his girlfriend as well. I found out 2 years ago that he had been seeing her. Evidently he's been telling her that he is single and raising his 2 daughters alone. He's been flying ...

She had an affair... I am thinking about joining them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years had an affair with her friend. I found out from facebook logs and found text messages. When I confronted her she said it was only a kiss. Then I find sexy texts and confront her and she admitted it went further but didn...

I WANT to believe that he is really making it up to me but our past is stopping me doing so.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure where to start but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but twice during these four years that we broke up because he cheated on me and lied to me. The first time was harder because I never saw it com...

Heart in one place, soul in another, Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - last weekend, for our 3 year anniversary, my partner brought her best friend over and we had a threesome. as my partner is not all that excitable, she went to sleep afterwards, and her friend and i continued to have oral and then had intercourse a ...

The problem is that she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - I am 18 and in love with this girl. She is my best friend. I can tell her anything. We were friends in high school and still are. She loves me too. The problem is that she has a boyfriend. Her and I are very close. We flirt fairly often over the ...

I used her. Now how do I surpass guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I am a happily married woman with 4 adult children. My husband and children are the best thing that has ever happened for me. My husband's my childhood sweet heart, best friend, guardian angel, soulmate and no man or woman will ever be capable of ...