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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend so much, that i would do almost anything for him. I love him and i tell him that i love him every night. He says he loves me too but i am convinced he is cheating. Well it started like this... I went on our shared laptop and i was on a game when suddenly i realized that he was still logged in on his facebook. I was about to log off when a women popped up telling him to meet her in the usual place; she said they were going to have so fun. She also said that she couldnt wait to feel his warm body and that she missed him...I confronted him about it 5 days ago; i asked him if he would ever cheat on me. But it didnt go to well; he lashed at me and told me i was a stupid b*tch for thinking that. I didnt know what to do so i blurted out that i saw his facebook chat; he went storming out the door to the pub...When he came in it was about 10:30 at night; he left for the pub at 3 that afternoon. I was worried about him and when i asked what he had done, he said never to talk to him about it again...Im so confused; what shall i do??Please can somebody help?Thank you to everyone that does help x
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reader, Abella  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Your boyfriend was disrespectful in the way he spoke to you. Verbal abuse is one step away from physical abuse. And he has been cheating on you. Agony Aunt KeighleySky is right on the mark, your bf feels guilty at what he's done to you.And I agree with CaringGuy and DirtBall. You may not want to accept this, but your bf does not deserve you. He hasn't admitted his cheating, he hasn't had the decency to explain himself. He left you alone at home wondering where you and he stood, until late into the night. Mean and selfish and unkind, knowing you would already be upset. He's been abusive in the way hespoke to you. And he hasn't apologised. There are lovely guys out there who would treat you with more care and respect. You don't need second best. You need a guy who will put you first, and cherish and love you and be faithful.
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reader, mylove09 +, writes (29 November 2010):
he is avoiding the conversation, and he has you under control and he knows you wont leave him. he is def cheating on you. for you sake, break up. its hard, but all worth it later. just think of him with that girl and it will give you the strength to end it. don't be those dumb girls.
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reader, sxc_hotie  +, writes (29 November 2010):
His cheating on you better find way to get him in act so its easy for you to reason ..dont waste your time .. your too young to have better one ! good luck
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (29 November 2010):
 if your confused at why he lashed at you... its guilt. he feels guilty for cheating and so lashed out at you. as all the other agonys said id dump him if i were you.
not only is he cheating but he's alled you a b*tch when it wasnt YOU who did anything wrong.
he's definately one for the trash can.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Yup, definitely a cheater. Time to walk away from this looser.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 November 2010):
He is absolutely a cheater. Without even a shred of doubt, he is a cheater. Dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): CHEATER he is...you are young. Drop him now before you get hurt anymore. He isn't going to change. :(
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