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*mylee16610
writes:Hey, bit of a long story but need help!Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the september. Now last time i saw him everything was perfect and i was so happy. But then i text him one night and he said that basicly, his ex girlfriend whom he was still friends with, was staying round his house cause she had no where else to stay. I was really upset but i trusted him, he swore and promsied me nothing would happen. So the next day he text me and was all lovey dovey and said nothing happened. I was therfore happy, but the next morning he text me and was like 'i feel so guilty, the other night she tried to kiss me when she came in drunk, she caught me off guard'. From the way he put it he didnt kiss her back, but then he kept saying he felt so guilty, which made me think something else happened or he kisssed her back. I said i can forget it if you can cause i loved him that much. But then i got a text later in the day when everythin was fine, cause we had both said just forget the kiss, and basicly he asked if i'd kissed this other guy in the summer, whcih i did but i wasnt with him! he wouldnt get it into his head i wernt with him, and kept saying i cheated on him when i honestly didnt. so he dumped me, and it turns out his ex asked this other lad, and the other lad (whos a bullsh***r anyway) told her we had kissed. Now my ex hates me and even called me a cheating whore and such, he said he wouldnt want to be civil with somelike me, when hes the one that cheated on me!! Now he's going out with his ex, so it seems thats all he ever wanted. Im so upset, i lost my virginity to him and everything and now he wont even talk to me when ive done nothing wrong. what should i do?
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reader, KissPEPPER  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 He sounds like a A-hole
You should just forget him
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Sounds like he is a scumbag. He obviously used you for sex and had a relationship with you until someone else popped back into his life. All the BS that is coming out of his mouth are excuses, he simply does not want to be with you. As harsh as it sounds its better to face reality and realize that he was just a waste of time, and move on. I know its hard to move on since you gave him your virginity but he has proven that he is not worthy and you should put him and his memory in the trash where it belongs. He is trash and you shouldn't be bother by trash hold your head high and put it in your head that your to good for him. Him and his loser of a girlfriend belong together.
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reader, Simply Jane2011  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Hmmm,he sounds like a jerk.All i can say is hold your head up high and move on, besides you did nothing wrong!
you have nothing to worry about!
You didnt do cheat on him!!, you may feel bad now but you will feel better with time, and he obviously isnt smart enough to see that his ex is a liar and a manipulator, she got what she wanted.
Just keep positive and move on,youve seen him for who he is, if he belives her over you, then hes better off without you, your still young and have a great life ahead of you dont let one little thing hurt you !
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reader, AskRosie +, writes (29 November 2010):
 He's not worth it! If he's making you feel like this, then forget him. I think this is the best thing to do, you deserve better than that, go out and find yourself someone new and better x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Nothung. He's the cheatting whore xxx
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