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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad? I have been married for over 17 years, I've cheated and my husband has cheated. He has lost two jobs over woman that he cheated with and he talked to several woman on a computer. We have been to church f...

Why did I cheat on my boyfriend when everything is so perfect? What is wrong with me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - First of all let me start by saying that I already am aware of what I have done, I am not looking for comfort or criticism - what I have come here for is help or insight into my behaviour. I cheated on my boyfriend, I met someone through work las...

My partner found me on the street with another man, and now he has broken up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi please can you help me here , I was with the father of my son for 6 years now there was ups and down but we solved them and get back together again, but now He found me on the street with a guy around 9 at night ,he just came and i went to him he ...

Help my girlfriend cheated on me and I need to know what to do I'm so sad!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for 9 months. I am 16 years old. she is 15. i love her so much as she says she loves me just as much. at the beginning of our relationship she would talk to lots of guys and i would get jealous and tell her not to....

Cheated..and relized how much I loved my boyfreind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I've had this problem for about a year but i almost went all the way by cheating on my boyfreind .we got into this huge fight and end up leaving last nite had a man freind come get me down the street my mind was to cheat on him because i have ...

Are his flirty actions serious or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - There is a married man I know who has been giving me a lot of 'come hither' signals for a few months. He touches me whenever he can, my hand, arm, back, etc. He stares intently and sometimes locks eyes with me and it seems when he does, that...

I need to end this relationship with a married woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I have being having a relationship with a married woman for 1.5 years who is a work collegue. Everytime I try to end it I always end up going back.She kind of panics and makes me feel guilty to a extent that I will hurt her. She doesnt want me to ...

Cheating is never the answer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 May 2010 (?) - Don't ever cheat! Cheating is something a lot of people do or consider on doing. Feeling that lust and passion is something most people aren't strong enough to over come. I'm sure most of you have heard the expression "how can something so wro...

I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still wi...

Wife having affairs with my consent, is this wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Why do l get turned on by other men sleeping with my wife? It is now a regular thing for her to have 2 or 3 men who she is seeing . She loves me and we have been married 22 yrs , but wants to have her lovers and me . Is that Wrong ?...

Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the ...

Suspicious that he's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...

Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...

Did I bring her cheating on myself by allowing an open relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - My wife and I have had a semi-open relationship. Several years before we got married, she asked about having other women around - for both of us. She has had more girlfriends than boyfriends (sexually, romantically is inversed). I wa...

Should I tell him why I deleted him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - So there is this guy that I was working with on a project for the past two months. In these two months we became pretty close and somehow we developed a great friendship. In the last two weeks of our working together he told me that he liked me...

Men: How is it that young men are attracted to older women- does he want just 'benefits' with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Need your opinion on this one. I am a woman in my forties. I have a great family:a husband and a 23 years old daughter. I look very young, sometimes people think I am in my mid-thirties. The last few years really young guys started to lik...

Girlfriend is very secretive about things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I have been seeing my girlfriend for over 1 1/2 years, we get on OK but she is very secretive about things. Firstly she keeps her phone on silent whenever she is at home (she says she just forgets after keeping it on silent from work), she ...

My wife is noticing that I'm constantly on the internet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Well ive bin married for five years now and i recently got a computer to keep contact with my friends and fam. But i have found my self in a situation im falling for a girl i met online that lives milles away from were i live. MY question is could ...

He's been cheating online with obese women...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I am engaged and getting married in 5 months...I discovered my fiance's fat fetish online almost a year ago, and I confronted him immediately. He assures me that he is extremely turned on by me and desperately wants to marry me. I am a tall thin ...

Should I just let the liar fly???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business ...

Should I attempt talk to him, even out of curiosity???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Basically, I found out I was the "other woman" in about a two year affair. The kid was older and I kept my virginity, thankfully. He had always had a "mystery" to him - he disappeared for three months without a trace and reappeared wanting me ...

His 'other woman' is a playstation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Hello never thought id go to a website for help...... Well here it goes Ive been married for 5 years, my marriage was going great. Till my husband bought a play-station 3 he is in denial of his lack of interest in our relationship. I ...

I found out my dad's a cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Yesterday i looked at my dad's phone because the last while he's been very moody with me an my mam an other siblings, what i found was heartbreaking he's texting this girl and in the texts she's saying she loves him, i dont know what to do, i cant ...

Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught? What criteria do you think makes for a more likliehood of being caught or not? I've read some statistics sites that state that people who have cheated their partners didn't find out 70 ...

He cheated with her! Should I expect him to completely cut her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I was cheated on last summer (so, about a year ago). Surprise surprise, right? Basically this girl is a complete slut, she had a boyfriend at the time she did this AND she knew about me too! They got close over a summer class, flirted w/ each ...

Please give you take: Is my husband cheating and what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I know my husband is cheating, but I have been too direct with my suspicions,so he is trying to convince me that I'm paranoid and delusional. He has stooped so low that he is pretending that his object of lust is a longtime friend 13 years his ...

He's super jealous! How do I prove to him that I didn't cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Ok i have a boyfriend and today may 27 we were going to be 6 months but he broke up with me 2 days before, What happen was that my friend invited me to the beach but he is a guy and i went with him but my little brother came to, i didn't tell my man ...

I love her, but she cheated! How do I let this go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I have a question i love my fiance alot but she cheated on me about 7 months ago and i cant let it go what can i do to move on i love her i want to make it work but i alwasy think about it what do i do???...

Could this "friends with benefits" thing work? And is this a bad idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Ok so here's my situation. A few months ago my husband and I were going through a really rough time. There was this guy that i worked with and we became good friends. One night he invited me out for coffee and we wound up having sex. This guy had a ...

Sharing a man -- should we live together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My lover's wife and I have become very close. Somehow we have accepted this shared relationship. I told her I want children (I am the younger of the two) and she told me that I should move in. It will be better for the three of us and the ...

Is my husband cheating or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and he has a son from a previous and we have 2 kids together.Im a stay at home mommy looking to go back to school. we met right away got married right away then had our first child right after. ...

His ex's facebook page says they had sex, he denies it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriends cell phone is always going off with phone calls and text messages (mostly work related), on a few occasions he has left the room and it was late at night and it was his ex texting him. I asked him about it and expressed my concerns. He ...

She kissed another guy and I think she told me before someone else did

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Should I be worried?? Ok basically im 18 and so is my gf , we have been together for almost 2 years now. I am her first serious relationship and she is mine. After about 4 months of being together it was a close friends of hers birthday a...

All kinds of cheating questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 3 questions from same poster all about cheating... Would you ever forgive cheating? Lets say it was only touching and not sex, and the person who was "touched" was very drunk and stopped it after a moment and got really upset immediat...

He cheated and thinks I'm blowing it out of proportion

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Need some advice!!! My fiance have been together for almost 10 yrs now,he cheated on me with a lady from a local bar right b4 we were to get married 3yrs ago! I have tried to work past that but he still talks with the woman and just recently I found ...

Infidelity is Bad for Your Health

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Pinkee here~ As some of you may know, I cheated on my husband when I was married. I have learned a lot since then. I am quite clear that I NEVER want to do that again, not to anyone- my partner, my potential “partner in crime”, or myself. Even ...

My husband left for another woman but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi i am a 39yr old women married to a 39yr old man, we have been together 24 years and married 17 together we have 3 children. 5 weeks ago he woke me up to let me know he had met someone else, he met her 2 weeks before they started texting each ...

My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...

I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I just have a horrible feeling now, I'm dating with my boyfriend for a year and after Ive graduated, he helped to get a job and that's the beginning of this messy problem for me,...He called his friend just to help me to get a job in the same ...

My husband won't give affection, so I'm seeking it from elsewhere

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - why do I do what I do? My husband is my world. He is kind, funny, hard working and attractive. But has hard time giving affection. I have been married for nine years and feel "we" will always be. He's been working on affection, but now my mind has ...

He's still married, but I'm in love with him, should I be his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - please no criticism, I'm asking for advice.... this guy and i are coworkers hes 27 I'm 20. my schedule changed to one that is similar to his so i drove him home from work and stuff for a while. last summer, he just randomly started kissing me. we k...

He's trying to break us up.. Is her reaction reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - A guy in my girlfriends last period class is trying to break us up so that he can date her... He gave her a kiss on the cheek and was trying to get her to kiss back, but she wouldn't. He was telling her that I don't treat her right and that he would ...

Caught cheating twice. Should I keep away till they divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi this married man and i have been having affair for nearly four years and we got caught once two years ago and now we got caught again by us calling each other. He told me today his wife wants a divorce, their house is for sale and he says he ...

She loves me but she doesn't want to date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - dear cupid im a 27yr old male and i meet this girl whos 22 we dated twice which i broke up her the first time cause i felt i wasnt ready to date and i think thats because i had just had got a divorce from my ex-wife, we stayed in touch after that...

I've been suspicious of my boyfriend, and now I've found a woman's sock in the laundry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. When we met and started hanging out, I learned instantly that he is a flirtatious drunk. He gets VERY friendly, kissing, grabbing, etc. We spent a few months in the beginning "on a break", ...

Do I confront her with the discovery of her email?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - I recently discovered my long-term partner had been exchanging messages with an ex boyfriend on Facebook. I work away a lot and these exchanges took place while I was away in January. What concerns me is not so much that she contacted this g...

Is my married neighbour interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - hi, i like one married women , she is my neighbor , that women so many time drank with me but ya she all ways with her hubby,, in last party i give her birthday gift and her hubby also give to her but she like my gift much and when i get chanc...

Can you heal after being cheated on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I have just found out that my fiancee cheated on me. We have been together for two years and a few months back he had heard some rumours that I was cheating on him and when I told him it was not true he did not believe me. A few nights later I saw ...

I am back with my boyfriend after I cheated on him, but the other guy doesn't appear to have got the message!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - i was with a guy for nearly a month who i cheated on my current bf with when i went on holiday last year, but yesterday(25/5/10) my current bf just knows the way to my heart and won me back, so i get home, tell the other guy its over in the ...

I am really falling for this guy but he has not left his girlfriend for me yet, should I talk to him about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I Met A Guy 3 month's ago.he was so sweet from the first night.we kissed a lot flirted a lot and had fun for 3 weeks then the sex happened.after sex he asked me if i have a bf and i was surprised so i relied by a SURE NO and asked him back expecting ...