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writes:I've had this problem for about a year but i almost went all the way by cheating on my boyfreind .we got into this huge fight and end up leaving last nite had a man freind come get me down the street my mind was to cheat on him because i have waited long enough an no effort with him ..anyways he came and got me went to movies and long drive to mountians i ended up giving him a blow job and as we where on or way to the room i backed -off i couldnt do it i coulnt go all the way i was kinda mad at myself in a way that just showed me how much i really loved him but im not happy with out the intimcy and sex i want to feel love i feel lonely alot thts not how im supose to feel whats wrong with me ive tryed every thing and we only argue blaming each other i cry so much he hates it he thinks i cry for nothing im hurting so bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): Yourvintention was to cheat and you did.
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reader, Kama  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Yep, a blow is a cheat in my book as well. I don't believe that sex is not important in a relationship though; rather, I think it is primary. If you're unsatisfied, you'll have to change things; if you really love your husband, you'll also tell him the truth about the BJ. Good luck, it's time for a big change. Own up to your actions and "face the music." You'll be better off in the end. Best to you!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Yeah, you did just cheat on your boyfriend with this "man friend". If your boyfriend isn't doing it for you, don't cheat. Break up and find someone new.
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reader, Red Boy +, writes (31 May 2010):
Well sex isn't love. If you really love him then why would you be giving another guy a blowjob? That's extremely slut-ish. You even had every intention of cheating on hi9m so you don't really love him as much as you think you do if you would even think of cheating. You had another guy's dick in your mouth. That's not love that's being selfish thinking about you only. Sex is not important in a relationship. If you feel in lover with him then you should stay with him for that reason. Sex is just sex. It's great but that's all it is. You will still breathe, eat, sleep without it. I would never be able to forgive my girlfriend for giving some other guy a blowjob. No way I could kiss her know that guy's dick was jsut in her mouth. Sorry to answer like that but I get so tired of women(or men0 and their pathetic excuses to cheat. All a bunch of babies.
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