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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:There is a married man I know who has been giving me a lot of 'come hither' signals for a few months.He touches me whenever he can, my hand, arm, back, etc.He stares intently and sometimes locks eyes with me and it seems when he does, that he can't break the contact, his eyes kind of glaze over.He compliments me often but not really sexually, just nice anad sincere things, You're really pretty,very clever, etc.He seems to be around me a lot as well.He also has very dilated pupils when looking at me.I am told by my friend that he must have the hots for me.Do these actions sound like he actually wants an fling?I am single and do not want to get involved in anyone's marriage, but would just like to have some input from guys as to wether you think he may have these intentions towards me.
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reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Chigirl is absolutely right, sweetie. You can do much better than some slimy snake whose married already. Just start giving him the freeze-out treatment. So what if he's got the hots for you? He's married, which means he's trying to be a low down dirty dog to another woman, and that's you! Hint: a few posts over there was a girl, in your same age group who was stunned and blown away that the married man she was fooling with wouldn't leave his wife for her, there were several of us trying to help her pick up the pieces of her shattered little heart once she'd found that she had been used, abused and tossed aside. Just don't do it. Ignore the lout. Actually, do you want to get rid of him? Ask to meet his wife saying you'd feel much more comfortable with his making passes at you if you could get her opinion on it. I'm betting you'll have no further questions about his intentions after that! Careful!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Touches, ough... that can be a good signal he wants more.
Use your brains, if you think he is coming on to you he probably is. So just let him know you are off limits and let him find another woman to cheat with.
PS. good thing you don't want to be involved, young pretty girls can do sooo much better than as an old geezer's fun on the side.
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