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writes:I have a question i love my fiance alot but she cheated on me about 7 months ago and i cant let it go what can i do to move on i love her i want to make it work but i alwasy think about it what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): If u were at the point to get married to this person, u were almost there so therapy is the best.. Its not only for old bickering couples its for any type of relationship they will help get to the base of the problem and hopefully everything will work out. From personal experience everyone makes mistakes but there's a reason for everything in a relationship its like having a dog no offense.. U gotta be attetive and loving and satisfy its needs (sex) and give treats (a romantic date) to remind that person that they're the one for you.. But. U kno what mayb girl isn't ready for marriage either mentally prepared or just plain immature.. These are things that u must ask.. Good luk to ya
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Ahh man, that tough. Unfortunately, that won't easily go away, because betrayal is one of the most devastating things to happen to a relationship. Trust is shattered and many times never ever regained to its former strength. The thought of the woman you love in the arms of another man can make the strongest man insane with rage.
It's good that you want to move forward and get beyond it. One thing maybe would be to end the relationship with your fiance and then "re-start" over from scratch with a whole new courtship, new rules, new activities with each other.
The idea of "starting over" is good to help you two learn a new side of yourself. Maybe, you might want to break off the engagement and re-start the relationship back to the beginning. With the issues you're dealing with now, you can't marry her with these unresolved feelings.
Take heart though - many relationships have survived infidelity and have become even stronger than they were, because people faced the root of the problems, conquered it, and became much closer.
Good luck!
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