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I am really falling for this guy but he has not left his girlfriend for me yet, should I talk to him about this?

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Question - (26 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2010)
A female Lebanon age 36-40, *eLoveEdward writes:

I Met A Guy 3 month's ago.he was so sweet from the first night.we kissed a lot flirted a lot and had fun for 3 weeks then the sex happened.after sex he asked me if i have a bf and i was surprised so i relied by a SURE NO and asked him back expecting the same answer and he said YES,i was ok cuz it wasn't love i said it will be only for fun,but after that i started to see him almost everyday all the parties we are together he treats me like a princess and he told his friends he likes being with me and he likes me he tells so many sweet words that made me fall in love with him more.he never talked about his gf.he tells everyone i a his gf also.never mentioned the other girl.but he's still with her and didn't break up with her.should i wait ? or should i make him choose between me and her? or should i never open the subject? i was thinking to talk with him and tell him "who am i for u and who is she"?? should i or should i remain silent waiting for a move from him ? cuz from what i am feeling he is loving me more day after day, plz help :)) !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

Look forward to hearing from you again in a year or two.

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A female reader, MeLoveEdward Lebanon +, writes (31 May 2010):

MeLoveEdward is verified as being by the original poster of the question

MeLoveEdward agony auntWell.. He Loves Me .. He's So Fine with me .. He needs me always in anything anytime .. But wishes I Came earlier To His Life .. Now too late .. But still I am With him .. Closer then ever,.. both of Us feelings growing more .. Couldn't leave him . he said Thank You for staying with me even though u know i Have another gf ..

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A female reader, MeLoveEdward Lebanon +, writes (26 May 2010):

MeLoveEdward is verified as being by the original poster of the question

MeLoveEdward agony auntthank you all i will let u know what happens when i talk with him about this subject on friday :)) thank you alllll mwah

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A female reader, LaBellefox United States +, writes (26 May 2010):

LaBellefox agony auntYES talk to im about this directly & clearly. tell him you have feelings for him (dont say I love you!) tell him he has made you like him fromthe things he has done. if you really want him for a bf, firstly i would think twice becos he seems to not care about cheating so i would advice you to find someone else but if you still want him, talk to him about how you feel & see what he says & go from there!

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A female reader, MeLoveEdward Lebanon +, writes (26 May 2010):

MeLoveEdward is verified as being by the original poster of the question

MeLoveEdward agony auntshouldn't i first talk with him about it ? cuz it's not all sex. in 3 months we had only 4 time sex :S talking or getting away without even talking about it?? and thanks all for ur help:))

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (26 May 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntHe's playing you, pure and simple. If you were that special to him then he would have dumped her for you by now. Sorry, but I'm calling this one as I see it.

Best of luck

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