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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and ...

After a flirting/emotional relationship with someone else, am I finally able to relax in my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I had a flirting/emotional relationship with a committee colleague and his wife found out several months ago. She snooped on his phone and found some incriminating texts he hadn't deleted and he told her it was just a game between us. She rang me ...

To move on or not when we have trust issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - We are having trust issues because he decided to bring a girl home, got touchy feely with her and in his bed. Then he updates her with his new number after swearing he is not going to have anything to do with her again. I went through his phone ...

Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns ...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...

Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...

Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, ...

Married and bi. I want my wife to watch me have m2m relations, how can I convince her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Hey hi im a married male and im bi and i want her to watch me have sex with anouther guy but she says no any ideas how to get her to say yes or should i keep just having m2m sex behind her back?...

I thought she loved me but she got drunk and cheated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a year I thought she loved me but we broke up in november, after she cheated on me when drunk. Unfortunatly we are in the same classes for 17 hours a week, sitting next to each other. We arnt talking at the moment, ...

My hubby said he had an affair to deliberately hurt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I don't know which way to go, stick it out or call it a day. We've been married 3 years, together for nearly 10, and have three young children together. When I was unknowingly suffereing from depression a couple of years ago my husband set out to d...

My married lover left his wife, but now he has cooled off with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been having an affair with a man for around 9 months. At the beginning of the month he left his wife and is getting a divorce. Over the last 5 mths our relationship and become stronger and we've fell in love with each other. He used to make ...

Has he been cheating & should I stay or tell him what I know & get rid of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am with my partner for 5 years and I thought we were very close until recently. He's 52 and I'm 46 and we are both divorced. During the first 2 years together I herad remarks/comments/rumours about him and other women and whe I asked hi...

Hubby wants the cake and to eat it too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My husband, out of the blue (after 14 years of a good marriage and a 10 year old child)started having a secret affair with his married colleague. They managed to hide it for nearly an year during which i accidentally discovered and confronted him ...

Can I Forgive A Cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years. We met in high school and dated for 8 months. At the time, I was still immature and I didn't know what love really meant. He ended up ditching on my prom night. I was so hurt and furious. I broke up ...

My sister sent a naked picture to my boyfriend! Yet I am made to feel the bad guy for finding out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up over 3 months ago. It all started when he lied to me about being out. After that when I had the gut feeling to check up on him I did. First, I found a message to another girl that asked if he could see her before I got to his ...

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my ...

Am I a fool to believe his promises that he won't cheat again? I want this to work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I know everyone is different but do you believe in those sayings 'a leopard never changes its spots' and 'once a cheat always a cheat'? Having read these sort of replies on here many times its now happened to me. My partner has cheated on me an...

She keeps flirting with other guys but says it's harmless, it bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Recently she has started to flirt a lot with other guys, and I don't know what to do. She said they were just good friends of her, but don't all girls say that? She even went to the movies with ...

I am worried about my wife going to a wild hen do with male strippers

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - One of my wife's best friends other girlfriend (not a friend of ours) got engaged then married this past summer. My wife's friend told her (and she then told me) that the bachelorette party was way out of this world. It was held at a private club ...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

I have just found out that he actually has a girlfriend of three years, who he lives with. I am at rock bottom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I feel like a right fool. Me and this guy at work have been flirting for about a year and have kissed a numerous occasions, he only shows an interest now and then which never makes me feel good because I know he is just using me for a quick thri...

I'm in love, he loves me.. But he lives with her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - So I have known this guy Dave* for a little over a year. I don’t know when it happened but somewhere along the line we became attracted to one and other and began some sort of relationship. Slight problem? He lives with his girlfriend. There was a ...

My boyfriend always thinks I'm talking to other guys and thinks I'm tired of him and its p***ing me off so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is the best. He does everything he absolutely can for me. He tells me he loves me everyday. So here's the problem...in his past relationships hes been lied to and cheated on with two of the girls he went out with and they both broke up ...

Seeing him so content with his wife and kids hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do and really need advice.. my life is a mess. I have grown up as an only child and never had a perfect relationship with my parents. When i was 16 i coincidently began speaking to someone id seen around my area, because he used ...

He has a girlfriend but he seems interested in me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - OKay I have recently moved to europe for a year. I went into a popular bar here and I saw someone that worked there. I was immediately captivated by him. so then i couldnt stop thinking about him.. I went in there again and a friend that is from ...

Am I a huge sucker if I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years, I'm 27 and he's 30. We have a good relationship, we communicate with each other and enjoy cooking and exercising together. But it's not perfect,I wouldn't be asking for advice if it were. Problems ...

We sincerely love each other but I don't want to be taken for a mug.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My husband has been texting a woman he's become friendly with. I only found out when he accidentally didn't delete them the other day. Call it 'women's intuition' but something made me look at his phone and there they were!! He is saying they wer...

How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me 3 months ago our relationship has been very hard for us since then. I never once suspected he was cheating on me and one day out of the blue he told me the truth and said that it was eating him alive and hes so sorry. It ...

After reading his emails I worry he's gay and I am his cover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help! im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we ...

Why don't I trust my boyfriend? do I need help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - So, im 18 years old and i started not trusting my boyfriend and getting fishy ever since this: to make a long story short: he gave me his email account/password back in sept to check something. In Dec, i went on his account because i got fi...

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...

I have 5 girlfriends and now it's a problem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I've got five girlfriends and I honestly don't know what to do. Basically, I met a girl three years ago in college. We began a relationship, got serious, then she left for work in the USA. We're still together in the form of a long-distance ...

I do not trust that this girl isn't going to attempt to sabbotage our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I posted a question yesterday about a mutual friend sending my boyfriend love letters and that my boyfriend is still friends with her, and im not, she lied about sending them after i found them, and threatened me to report me to the police when i ...

How can I stop my jealousy, be secure again, be sexy, feel sexy again and get my relationship to a normal healthy state??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - hello, i am 20 and my boyfriend is 41. we have been together almost 2 years. we started our relationship "Long Distance". After 3 1/2- 4 months of being together. I had my school prom and went with my ex. I kissed my ex and danced with him. I know ...

He says he feels trapped, should I give him an untimatum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - six years ago i caught my fella with another woman this wasnt the first time and i threw him out. i took him back on the understanding that we went out as a couple and he could go to the local occasionaly. recently hes been going nightclubbing with ...

She feels that I will never leave my woman so she most likely will stay with her man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I need some advice. I'm currently married but somewhat unhappy with the way things are going right now. However I met a friend awhile back and we became real close. When I say close I mean we had sexual intercourse. We both enjoyed our sess...

She talked about heartbreak with an ex friend, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I've not been on one of these forums before, so apologies in advance if I'm not clear I have a bit of a confusing situation with my current long term girlfriend. I have recently overheard my girlfriend telling one of her frien...

Emotional cheating, should I accept it and move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - If your partner/spouse of over 30 years with whom you had been very happy (most of that time) cheated on you emotionally and got close to someone else to confide in instead of you although declaring how much they love and always have loved you, ...

Do cheating men believe their own lies, it's always the wife's fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Do cheating men who abandon their wives and families feel guilty? Feel anything? Responsibility? Do they really believe thier own lies, that somehow it was the wife's fault? "She drove me to it"?, all the while still sleeping with their wife? If ...

My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus...

I thought we had a loving and trusting relationship but he cheated on me for at least a year, Did he EVER love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I was wondering whether I could have your honest advice. Well there's actually two things I want your opinion on. Firstly, a week ago I found out my boyfriend of nine years had been cheating on me with another girl for at least a ...

I was cheated on and since then I became paranoid and jelous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have a serious jelousy problem and I really need any advice you can give me to stop it. I was cheated on and since then I became paranoic and jelous, I use to be quite laid back about my guys and their time, but since the ex who cheated, I became ...

I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...

I cheated and cheated and ...cheated and feel terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for around 5 years on and off... on and off because of several reasons including me getting involved with other people. There are some serious flaws in our relationship like kids vs. no kids, religious things etc.. but ...

I want to have my cake and eat it too

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I am married and have had a crush om a co worker for the last 7 months. I have been quite good at hiding my feelings from him til recently when we have spent a lot of time together at work. Working one on one. I let it slip about my crush on him ...

I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, d...

My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was ...

She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my f...

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...