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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Is she cheating, or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I need some advice guys. My g/f is working lots of over time at work. She makes an extra effort to look good for work. eg. spends about 2hrs getting ready. She's gone on a diet. She went bowling on works nite out last week. The place shuts at 11pm ...

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) - I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. ...

I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his ...

When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three ...

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another a...

Pregnant with twins and just found out husband is cheating on me, I really need some help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick ...

Does a relationship with a married man ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was in an unhappy marriage,ready to leave.Met this married man and fell in love.Subsequently i drifted out of my marriage.Now am together with the married man,he really loves me and helps me out alot both financially and emotionally.Will it really ...

Check this out for me aunties.. is he in love with this other woman? Was he planning to cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My boyfrend wanted to take a flite back to his hometown to meet up a group of ex collegues who were flying in from another country for work, in particular a girl he used to have strong feelings for when they were working together. they actually ...

I don't love my cheating hubby but my secret relationship with my ex is going nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was blissfully married until last year when i bumped into my ex boyfriend who i had left 20years ago when i went to study abroad. He was my first love and his also married but when we meet we get very intimate. He says we are only friends and that ...

I have mixed feelings about this, will my feelings change if he chooses me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi I am a young 22 yr old single mom. I am very scared because I met a married man who is ten yrs older than I am. I'm not scared because I met him but because when we talked for the first time it was for hours. We have so much in common and he is ...

My friend flirts with a married man,but only to take his job, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading ...

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

I made a mistake by writing him a love letter - I feel awkward as our conversations are tense now! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ok where i work at is a family business which is ran by two brothers who are my bosses one of the brothers has children which 2 of them work in the store as well so they also have authority I've liked one of they're sons for a long time and would ...

What is a reasonable deadline to set for him to file for divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Last year I got involved with a man - a good friend of many of my close friends. I didn't date him for several months after I met him because he is still married. His wife was serving a 3 year jail sentence. Eventually I got to know him more, and we ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi. i really don't know what to do anymore. i've benn fallin for my boyfriends brother harder and harder and now it's reached the point i can't stand the pain. ive been with my bf for a year now and i love him. at least im confortable with him. but ...

Torn between my wife/family loyalties and my new love-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I am in a terrible situation. Ive been married 30 years, 3 kids. The marriage was not good, as my wife has a medical condition that causes severe anger. I was tempted to go many times, but could not leave my kids to her (un)tender mercies. I never ...

I sent a text to another guy and now my boyfriend doesn't want me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with...

My BF has a bad tempter but loves me. I am also dating his buddy who is nice to talk to and definitely my type. Please help me decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear all, I hope to receive some advice on this matter. I've been dating a guy, C, for 3 yrs now. He is nice, sweet and loving to me. However, he tends to say insentitive remarks and is fierce with me due to his bad temper. However, despite...

I want to trust my husband but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did ...

Sex chatting on the internet to chat to men, is this cheating my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - help me..i have a good husband, my problem is i have a high sex drive and i have turned to sex chatting on the internet to chat to men. Is this cheating, what is wrong with me,i feel guilty afterwards, i just so frustrated. Anytime i want sex with...

Was he cheating in the photo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Just seen a photo on bebo of my boyfriend on a nite out with his friends. In the photo he has a girl (his friends friend - to him a stranger) wrapped around his neck - both her arms locked around the back of his neck and his arm around the back of ...

Why does he say he likes me but hes got a girl friend and still meeting up with me without her knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - theres this lad that i went out with in october for about a month he finished with me and it took me 5 months to get over him when i finally did it was with another lad and then they both had a fight because the lad it took me ages to get over said ...

In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone ...

Do men in their 20's often cheat on their partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - Hi Guys, I'm just curious, how common is it for men in their 20s to cheat in long term relationships? If my very outgoing boyfriend who wants to be with me "for a long time" says he'll never cheat, what do you think are the odds he will fall ...

Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "s...

I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...

He's always very concerned about me cheating on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - okayyy so my n my bf have been together for a year but he just recently moved out of state....i am truly in love with him and could really see myself with him for a lllong time... we have plans of moving in together once we've both saved enough m...

He expects me to cheat..but I'm not going to. Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend seems all to ready to break off our relationship. He is fixing to go on a job and he has been cheated on several times in the past. When he goes on a job he is gone for several days or weeks at a time, I think that he is afraid that I ...

Is it possible for her to disconnect from our relationship without her cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and together since highschool for a total of being exclusive to each other for 13 years. We have two gorgeous children, my little girl is 3 and my precious son just turned 1. 7 months or so after my son ...

My fiancee wants me to forgive him and accept his baby with another girl!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are engaged and he is with me everyday, never spent a night away apart from 3 times in the whole 2 years to work. The last time he went away was January and I have just found out he got a girl pregnant. ...

I'm so confused, I've been surpressing my feelings for my co-worker, but since we kissed, my feelings are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I work with the most gorgeous man I have ever known, and I don't just meant physically. He is is just a wonderful person. I get butterflies when he talks to me and when we sit down to lunch together we always just click with eachother. We're good ...

Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...

Is he cheating? Do I confront him? Please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will start from beginning. I have been with my partner coming up to one year. He has never given me reason not to trust him. About 6 months ago, he went away and gave me his email password so I could check it for him. I have never snooped. N...

Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my ...

He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets...

My husband and my brother??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

Why do men lie??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he ...

How do I dump the trouble women while keeping one or two lookers on the side for sex and still stay with me girlfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My love-life has been pretty hectic lately and I need some advice. I've been in a relationship with this truly wonderful, sweet girl for the past seven years. We get along great, do all sorts of fun things together and really care about each other. ...

What do I do about husbands sexy texts to a work collegue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been happily married for 16 years with no cheating thet i know of. My husbadns phone beeped the other day and i lokked at it ( i know bad move!). Was message from a friend of ours all good. I looked in his out box and saw a message sent to ...

Is there a way for me to forget the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - help My current girlfriend has loved me for years. At the beginning she had almost no self esteem and asked me to a fireworks evening with her and a bi female. I turned her down and she went heartbroken with this female. The girl told her she lik...

I don't think I love him anymore, I care about him though and don't want to hurt him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have been together since a young age. I don't feel the same about him, i don't think i love him anymore, i care about him though and don't want to hurt him. He cheated on me after a year of being ...

Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...

I have cheated on my husband...and let down my best friend...by sleeping with guy she likes...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this short, however it is not easy story is quite difficult to descibe in short sentences:) All started when I have first time cheated on my with my colleague. It almost came out, but somewhow I managed to glaze it out and...

Should I have affair with the hot 21 year-old or stay faithfull to my wife who has recently gone off sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - I will make this short and sweet.My wife and i have not had sexx in over three months and all we do is work come home eat and go to bed with some ammenities in between.We work at the same place but we don't see ach other till the end of the day. ...

I think my sister in law wants me and I want her to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My sister in law has become a lot more sentual around me as of late. in ten years never have we even dicussed sex, and yesterday my wife told me that she wanted me to go with her shopping. we went to go get her a new dildo.so my question is should ...

I got drunk and cheated on my long distance partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I've made a huge mistake. I'm in a long distance relationship, haven't seen my bf for a few months now though we talk on the phone quite a lot. Last night I got very drunk and had a one night stand with some guy I met in a club. I didn't actually ...

My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...

I feel so guilty that I betrayed my girlfriend -how can I forgive myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - i am a betrayer.i betrayed my girlfriend somewhat 2 weeks back. Actually, i had a girlfriend in india some 7 years back.i came back to my country(nepal) to continue my college.We couldnot maintain regular communication in middle but got 2-3 letters ...