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writes:I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his for 3 months. He did start dressing smarter for work prior to him leaving as i remember saying to him, you never dress for me like that. I have asked him and he said there was nobody, but my gut is telling me that something went or and is still going on, i get the feeling he is not being completely strange with me. He deletes all his phone id calls, i dont have access to his passwords on his computer. Should i just ignore my gut feeling....One of his friends cheated on her for 2 years..she found out because this other girl called her. Do you think he is the same..? I hate to be made a fool of. Something is just not quite right........
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reader, LIERIN  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 My gutt feeling is usually right ... and if I feel something is wrong .. something is definetely wrong.
Dont accuse him tho! Try talking to him about it . nicely .. dont bring more stress into the whole relationship problem that you are havng right now guys!
Good luck
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 I would stop accusing him of cheating on you. Let him drop his guard and feel that everything is perfectly fine between you and that you trust him completely.
Then start to snoop and watch him like a hawk. If something is up, you'll find out. Most people do have a suspicion that something isn't quite right and I would advise you to pay close attention to that woman's intuition of yours.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 April 2008):
You have no proof that anything happened other than the fact you aren't able to spy on his computer or his phone.
Talk to him and tell him you have these feelings. How he reacts should tell you a lot. If he blows up and yells then you have to decide if you want to be with someone like that. If he tells you straight that nothing happened you need to give him ways to regain your trust.
Is it possible your feelings of betrayal come from the fact he walked out? Are you still angry with him about that?
Only you can decide whether to trust him or not but you should give the relationship a try as you have no real reason not to at the moment.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, thisisme +, writes (30 April 2008):
put a free spy on the computer,thats what i did to catch my husband years ago
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