A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:helpMy current girlfriend has loved me for years. At the beginning she had almost no self esteem and asked me to a fireworks evening with her and a bi female. I turned her down and she went heartbroken with this female. The girl told her she liked her and although at first she turned away she let her make a move second time..... They saw each other for a week until she realised she was doing the wrong thingI later dated her but I kept having flash backs to her past which ate away at me..... I had no problem with it at the time bit the thought of her kissing the girl (( who I was good mates with)) got to meI thought it was best to leave her as I couldn't forget the past even though I still love her and I miss her deeply. She says she only carried it on with the girl to cover her feelings for me and had no feelings for her. Is that believable?Help! Is there a way for me to forget the past?
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reader, lyd_foster  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 you need to forget about what happend
because no matter what gender she kissed its still kissing
it dosnt make a difference that it was a girl.
And you shoudlnt bring up the past when you are in love. And didnt she kiss the other gitl when you werent going out?
So i would go and say sorry and see if she will take you back
love is rare and i wouldnt throw it away
good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): yes, i think this is definatly the case.. she did not know you were interested at the time which leaves her free to be with who ever she wants... forget the past.. she loves you, hold onto that!
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