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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Slept with my gym instructor even though we are both in relationships...I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i go to gym three times a weak and the aerobics instructor likes me. the next day it became oficially us wen we had sex then he has two kids and a live in partner and i have a 2year boyfreind. what shall i do? i went flirting with him because i ...

Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

30 September 2006 (?) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was ...

I love another married man..do you think it's time I sorted this all out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - i am married and like my husband but not in love with him. i am in love with another who is also married but not in love with his wife but stays for his teenage boys we could carry on as we are for many more years, but i think it is time that we ...

This guy kissed me and the next day, he acted like he regretted it! I'm so confused..what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - This might sound a little stupid I guess, but it's confusing me. While out with friends I realised I was really quite attracted to one of my male friends and then after we had been drinking for a while and were a bit tipsy, before I left to go ...

I feel as though my bf is manipulating me, worse still I fear is he cheating!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship with someone forover 12 months; he moved in with me after only two months (silly, I know!!!). I am feeling so confused; I really feel like he manipulates me (although I have no way of proving if this is definitely the ...

Update! I made that fake account on AdultFriendFinder and she fell for it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - Ok, well, I've posted the last couple days about my g/f that is away at school and is on adultfriendfinder.com. I made a fake account, and she fell for it, and talked to the fake guy "me" for about 2 hours, and how she wants to hook up and she's not ...

I trusted him to look after my girlfriend but he made the moves on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend (she's 17) and I ( I'm 19) have been going out for 10 months, and we're very much in love. Recently, we had a little argument and we decided to just be friends for a bit and see how we go. We're both very keen on motorsport, and ...

How can you move forward after someone has cheated on you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - how do or can you move forward in a relationship when one has cheated is it healthly to move forward ...

My boyfriends been cheating on me, yet I still love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - what do i do after my boyfried of nearly 8 yrs ,has cheated on me with his ex?we have 3 kids under 6.had no problems and a fantastic sex life..and he goes off and has sex with her.the affair was going on for two months when i accidently found very ...

I have a girlfriend that I love and I'm infatuated with another girl...what are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - i've been going out with a girl for nearly 6 months and i really do love her, she seems to be perfect and could picture myself spending the rest of my life with her. However i have always had a wandering eye but i would never act upon, recently i've ...

Convinced my Dad is cheating on my Mum, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I am a teenager living at home with my Mum and Dad who have been married for 20 years. I recently found some texts on my Dads mobile and I am now convinced he is having an affair. Please help me because I can't stand the thought of my family been ...

Dirty text messages found on mobile

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...

Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

Why does my husband put me down when I try to have sex with him? Is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years and, I am lucky if i have sex with him once a week. The times that we do have sex is when I come on to him and, half of the time he says he don't fell good or he's in a bad mood. I don't know ...

I ignored him because he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - iv sort of fallen for a guy at work in a big way and i think he feels the same hes a bit more open with his feelings because im worried. he says he wants to be with me and i ignore him because he has a girlfriend, weve had a thing for a while but ...

I just can't believe how stupid I have been

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I am very unhappy with my partner. Quick rundown: We got together when I was 15, he was 18. We had a baby a year later and now live together. He has no job and I know he cheating on me with numerous people. I know I've been stupid and I want to get ...

I feel second best

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Pleasssssssssssssseeeeeeeee help me! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him and he tells me he loves me all the time. But here is the problem: sometimes I feel like he just tells me that because I ...

Husband is registered on various online dating agencies. Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 2 years. I know I shouldnt but I read his e-mails, I have found out that he has registered for various online dating agencies and is chatting to several different women! Should I confront him?...

I have a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating, or am i insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I have long had a suspicion that my girlfriend is hiding something from me, cheating maybe or at the very least still talking and seeing her ex boyfriend. I can't help but ask her constantly and I know she won't tell me the that she is. She keeps ...

Im married and work over seas, Ive fallen for someone else and am thinking of divorce, but feel pity for my child, what should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I am a married guy working overseas away from my wife and kid. I met a girl who at first was my best friend but we eventually became lovers despite the fact I am already committed (she knows). I am suddenly thinking of divorce but I feel pity to my ...

It was a no strings sex encounter, the fact I slept with someone doesnt make me a cheat right ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Before my boyfriend and I actually got together,we basically started with screwing each other.We both barely knew each other and so forth. From what i had assumed we were just messing. I slept with him and slept over his place 2 nights in a row ...

I would like to offer some help with his cocaine addiction, but he wont answer my calls, why doesnt he want to know me now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I have a strange tale and a question that I wish could be answered. I met a young man at work who first pursued me with friendship and flirting. Within the two months that we saw each other about every day we developed a strong attachment, and ...

Is it considered cheating if my girlfriend is a paying member of adult dating websites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - Is it considered cheating if my girlfriend is a paying memeber (previously an unpaid member) on Adultfriendfinder.com, and has nude pictures of herself on there for other people to see. She is away at school, and we get to see each other like 1-2 ...

Married for 30 years, I find out he has had an affair with a girl 20 years younger.. And everyone knows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My husband of 30 years has just had an affair! He moved out 6 months ago, saying the relationship was not working, and then I found out he was seeing a woman 20 years younger, is living with her, and has been on holiday with her. Everyone we know ...

Is it possible to change somebody's drinkink habits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - How much drink is acceptable in a week. My boyfriend loves beer - he used to drink about 5 or 6 cans in the evening but was able to hold it really well. A few nights he went out clubbing and got very drunk and he cheated on me. We broke up but a ...

I have been cheated on in every relationship. I am now with a new guy, how can I make sure I don't get hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Im 25 and every relationship i have had my partner has cheated on me. I was with someone for 4 years after 2 we got engaged , then something in my stomach kept niggling saying sumthing between us wasnt right. I am ashamed of what i did but i had ...

I want to warn my friend that her bf is cheating on her...but how do I do it without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I have seen my girlfriend's BF out with another woman, getting very intimate in a bar. I did not approach my friend's boyfriend. I feel like I should let her know that he may be cheating on her, yet I don't want her to be hurt. They've been ...

How can I get over my lying ex when we work in the same place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 4yrs and I broke up in Dec 05, he cheated on me once and I couldn't forgive him, he changed, now, he has started working where I am, (he new I would be here). He now tells me he is married, has been since March and they lost a baby ...

I love and want to marry this woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I are talking again fairly frequently. For the past week we have been talking fairly regularly online and having great conversations. Me, a few of my best friends (her friends too), and her hung out last night, drinking and ...

I found sexy text messages on my husbands phone....from another man!!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - I have been married for 10 years now. We have been together for 14 total. Just last week I found text messages on his phone, being the nosey person that I am I read them. Now I wish that I had not, the messages were sex related. I do not know ...

I saw my friend's boyfriend with another woman. Should I tell my friend? It was obvious they were very intimate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw a friend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was a dark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a business associate or casual friend. It was very obvious that...

I apparently kissed someone when I was extremely drunk.Does anyone have a time machine so I can go back and not get wasted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - My bf is away and i went out with some people from work and i got extremly drunk, i barely remember the night. I was very friendly with one of the guys and we went for a walk and he ended up staying at my place, seperate bed no sex! The next morning ...

My bf says its a joke that he is messing with other girls. Are people laughing at me for going out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - hiya peeps keeep sayin my bf is messin rnd wid oder girls but wen i ask him he says he loves me n dat its jst a jk do u fink peeps r laughing at me 4 goin out wid him xx reply quick xx...

I went through my boyfriends phone and found texts from another girl. What do I say to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - hi there! i dont know what to do!! i went into my bf's phone and read his texts which i know i shouldnt have done but his phone has been going off at all times of the day and night and i was interested to know who had been txting him all the time. i ...

How can I tell if my co-worker wants me to initiate sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - how can i tell if my co-worker wants me to make a move for us to have sex? we both seen pictures of each other naked and a video of me naked. her pictures had use of sex toys. she has a boyfreind and i am married. but we both are startin...

Sex with the ex feels so good, even though I am cheating on my boyfriend. Please help me understand it's not right.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Please give me some advise! I am currently involved with this guy we been together for couple of years,but we recently been arguing alot and for little things.I feel that he may be cheating on me. About a month ago was speaking of this with my ...

I cheated on my husband of 14 years with his best friend. He stayed with me but now I have met someone else. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I have a a problem and don't know what to do about it I have been married for 14 years and have children, I fell in love with my husband's heart he is so giving and wanted to take care of me I was not physically attracted to him physically, but he ...

Whilst on holiday, I met a wonderful guy, then had to come back home to my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hiya, Im 19 and I've been in a realtionship now for over 3 years with a guy. He is nice but he has strayed before in the past so im finding it difficult to trust him. He tries to make decisions for me. He does try to control me. I know that he lov...

Married 15 years, he's cheated twice, decided to make a go of it, but whats to stop him doing it again!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Hi I've been married for 15 yrs and husband cheated twice. Once 10yrs ago and now again we've now decided to try and make a go of it.But I feel betrayed and not sure if I still what to stick around I feel I cannot trust him its like I see him as a ...

Cant understand why I suddenly feel like cheating when not with my girl ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, we are happy together and things have been going very well. She says she is inlove with me and I feel that I am inlove with her. But there is one major problem that I just cant figure out! I am ...

I had sex with my best friends boyfriend while she was asleep in the same bed. She seemed ok with it at first, now we hardly talk.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i got really close to one of my co-workers and were like best friends and i considered her almost like a sister i never had. we go out with our other co-workers and my best friends boyfriend. so one night we got really drunk at the club and i ...

I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied ...

Husband is flirting with young college girls-should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Husband has a thing for flirting with the young college girls that work in his office.. that wouldn t bother me so much if he would pay some attention to me and have sex once in awhile. Should I be worried about what he's doing at work? ...

Caught in my unstable relationship and now I fancy a new girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old, and have been in a quite serious relationship with a girl now for over a year. But i cant really see it lasting for much longer, due to us seemingly drifting apart more each and every day. I have recently started at a new...

We broke up but its like we hadnt, but then he was seeing someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - right this is my problem,basically i got with this guy last year in jan and we got on so well i was really startin to like him,i hadnt been with anyone sexually before him,he was my first for everything n i love him so much, but this year has just ...

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...

My bf thinks i cheated on him, but I didn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - my bf thinks i lied and cheated on him, when i didn't i dont know. what i should do? i love him soo much he also will get mad at me if i dont answer him right away. i keep telling him i didnt cheat but he keeps saying i did from an email that he ...

My husband told me that he is bisexual and now wants to explore some of his fantasies together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I’ve been searching the web for advice about having a kinky partner, and happened upon several requests for advice for partners that are chatting. Well, I have no advice, just a similar story – and now a request for advice. My husband and I ha...

He is seeing her again, but I still miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - Hi, So me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off for about the past 2 1/2 years. We are both in college, but 1000 miles apart, and the distance is the reason for the on and off. The reason why we first broke up was because he was cheating...