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Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?

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Question - (30 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2006)
A , anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was cybersexing,and what`s more,posting pictures of her most intermate parts to young men in their very early 20`s.Whats more,she has constantly falsely accused me of everything that i havent done over 3 years.Once she actualy punched me in the face very hard whilst i was driving,again through unfounded jealousy.I now know she has also slept with her sister in law.Is it worth the upset?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006):

I think the main issue here is the ages of the guys she was cybering and sending pics to.This could be a mid life crisis and will probably rear its head again in the near future.She has been judging you from her own standards.Get out of this relationship,leave her to it,although,there could be more embarrassment to follow,just wash your hands of it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2006):

was you still in the relationship with your girlfriend when she went to the dating sites or had you split up.if you had split up then she was classed as single an available.

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A female reader, helpmeunderstand +, writes (30 September 2006):

NO,NO and no! it is not worth it! finsh it with her before you get you heart broken!it won't be easy but it will be worth it!move on before she desides to!

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntIn my eyes this sort of behaviour online when in a relationship is cheating of some sort, then there is the cheating on you with the sister in law, she has been deceiving you and making things hard for you by accusing you of things you aren't doing.

So I would say NO it isn't worth the upset, you need to be with someone you can love and trust and have the same respect back.

Good luck :o)

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