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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now, we are happy together and things have been going very well. She says she is inlove with me and I feel that I am inlove with her. But there is one major problem that I just cant figure out! I am happy and I really want to stay with her, but recently I have been tempted to cheat on her. We see each other at weekends as its a little bit hard to see each other during the week. Everytime i'm with her I cant figure out why I would want to cheat on her and hurt her cause I love her, but when apart and being round other women it becomes difficult to resist. I have not cheated on her and really dont want to, I just wana figure this out and stop the urge!Please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, harley_quinn +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Guys are just wired differently than women. Men are always on the hunt 'cause I think it's a natural instinct for men to want to conquer what is not theirs. To taste what they have not tasted. You get it. Men seem to want more of the physical aspect of a relationship, while women seem to want the nurturing and caring side. I don't understand 'cause when I love someone all I want is them and no one else. Possibly you just love her but are not IN love with her.....
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Attraction towards the opposite sex is something normal and uncontrollable, what we can control is what we do and how we deal with the attraction, if you love your girlfriend as you say you do you will just ignore the attraction and stay faithful to your girlfriend, some people find temptation harder to ignore and deal with than others, just remind yourself everytime you feel the temptation that you have a girlfriend you love her and not only do you not want to do anything that may lead to losing her but also you don't want to hurt her.
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