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writes: My girlfriend (she's 17) and I ( I'm 19) have been going out for 10 months, and we're very much in love. Recently, we had a little argument and we decided to just be friends for a bit and see how we go. We're both very keen on motorsport, and as a result, know some of the racers and so on. One of these guys, he's 23 and he has a girlfriend and a son, I thought was a good mate, I trusted him to look after my girlfriend if I was ever away (I'm in the Army), and most of all I respected him for what he had done within his sport. 2 days after we broke up, my girlfriend went to an event (which I couldn't attend), and slept with this guy in his team truck.I don't know what to think. Our relationship was so perfect, and now everytime I look at her I see them having sex. Since, we've got back together, and everytime I kiss her I can only think of them kissing. It's tearing me apart inside because I thought this realtionship was THE relationship. What can I do and what should I think? Technically we were single, but 2 days? And the worst part is that it was him, someone I trusted, respected and thought was a friend.Please help.
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reader, glassofwater +, writes (29 September 2006):
first off. he's not a friend. 2nd. talk to her. she may have just been really hurting and that may have been the only way she knew to feel better. people are odd like that. does she feel bad about it? if you really love each other it will be really hard but you can work through it. If she doesn't seem to care how you feel, dump her and move on.
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 I would feel cheated on if it was me, even if you broke up for good 2 days is not enough time to get over someone if you really loved them but you just decided to be friends for a while therefore leaving the door open on the relationship to continue therefore I would have thought that its just breathing space and not a real breakup therefore she should have had more respect for you and this other guys girlfriend.
Only you know what you should do and what should come of this with you and her now, I would take the time thinking over what happened how you feel about it and about her and try to come to a decision.
Good luck :o)
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