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writes: My bf is away and i went out with some people from work and i got extremly drunk, i barely remember the night. I was very friendly with one of the guys and we went for a walk and he ended up staying at my place, seperate bed no sex! The next morning he said that while we were walking we kissed. I have no recolection of the actual kiss but a horrible feeling that he is telling the truth. The problem is that i want to tell my bf and i know that he will probably forgive me for the kiss but he will never forgive me for having him in the house while he was away and he will never believe that we didnt sleep together.So i dont want to tell him only half the truth and he asked me if anything happened while i was out and because i didnt want to upset him while he's away i swore that nothing did.Im really struggling with do i tell or not and what if he hears from his friend who i work with that the guy stayed over. I know how hurt he is going to be by all of this and i really dont want to lose him because i love him so much. Anyone got a time machine so i can go back and not get wasted?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): I did the same thing last weekend - I was very drunk - now I am stuck with this burden - what to do. I spoke with my father and he said "did you go home with this person? No, then don't worry about it, put it behind you, and move on".
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 I can't tell you what to do only you really know the answer on whats the right thing to do.
You know your boyfriend better than most therefore you should know how to deal with this situation, I would personally tell him the truth that way you can move on from it taking away the fear that someone else might tell him and takes away the guilt you are suffering from.
If you don't want this to happen again don't get in a drunken state where you can't remember the complete night as anyone can tell you that you did anything and really when it comes down to it you might not have done a thing.
Good luck :o)
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