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writes: how can i tell if my co-worker wants me to make a move for us to have sex? we both seen pictures of each other naked and a video of me naked.her pictures had use of sex toys.she has a boyfreind and i am married.but we both are starting to e-mail each other when time permits.
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reader, kxxy +, writes (23 September 2006):
kxxy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you again, I new what I should or should not be doing, I am man enough
to admit I made a very stupit and dagerous mistake. I will back off, and I will
remind her that I am married, respectfuly of of course...
In the future I will Think with my head before I act (my brain)..and remember
that someone loves me waiting at home.. I would not like it if the tables where
turned ,If my wife did the same with someone else.
thank you again, really,.... I am not just saying that, I can let you know how it turns out next week If you Like..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): Well, your first mistake was offering to "even up the score" by providing photos of yourself. Doesn't sound too innocent to me.
However, if you really want to get out of this mess, just back off. Don't talk to her any more than is absolutely neccessary, and only on strictly work-related topics.
If she pushes you about why you are being cool toward her, tell her you're married, and you don't think it a good idea to be too friendly with her.
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reader, kxxy +, writes (23 September 2006):
kxxy is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni thank everyone for helping me step back ,and look at what i have, a good marriage, and i want to keep it.
but to give some clarity,on how we both seen each other.
1) I repaired and backed up her computer upon request.
2) I discoverd the pictures of her and her boyfriend.
3) we both agreed to keep it between us.
4) I sugested to even up the score by providing photo's of myself.
5) she has not intiated any advancements toward me except
asking to borrow some money at work today,
we both have not done anything more than veiw each other
so far..
how do i break off this disater i got myself into without
making things any worst than it is, and not to hurt her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): You are married; she has a boyfriend. By looking at pictures of one another naked, and seeing videos, you both have already crossed the line.
And, you work together.
This is a recipe for Trouble with a capital "T" if ever I saw one!
To be blunt, you have no business finding out if she wants to have sex with you, and YOU certainly have no business to even consider betraying your wife with her! Hey, perhaps you could let your boss know you're emailing one another - maybe you could both get yourselves fired.
Sheesh......
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 What and why are you both showing nakid pictures of each other when you both are involved with other people, surely you know and understand this is all very wrong and should be put to an end before it turns into something not only more wrong but that could damage all you both have and love.
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