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writes: I travel a lot for business. I was out of town recently and saw afriend's boyfriend with another woman. They didn't see me (it was adark, hotel bar). I doubt the other woman was a businessassociate or casual friend. It was very obvious that they wereintimate; very intimate. Should I tell my friend that I saw herboyfriend cheating on her? Should I just assume what she doesn't knowwon't hurt her? They are getting married in about a month. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): thanks. u really helped me tell my friend but try not to get her to be upset. thanks. 'human"
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reader, harley_quinn +, writes (23 September 2006):
 I believe that honesty is best policy and if you keep this from your friend you may regret it later. I agree with Toria - that you should confront the boyfriend first and he should tell her first but if he refuses then you should go ahead and tell her. If I was being cheated on I would want someone to tell me. Plus, she is suppose to marry this loser - I wouldn't want to marry a cheater, would you? Just go with your gut feeling 'cause really this is your decision. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Definitely u must tell her dear, If I were her I would like to know, be tactful and say it was your impression, warn her to take care if she gets upset do no repent you're helping her
love and good luck
Astrid
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 Talk to her boyfriend, tell him what you saw and if he doesn't tell her you will as I'm sure she will rather have him confess than you tell tales also its the well known saying of shoot the messenger and she may not believe you are want to believe you and therefore this may ruin your friendship.
Good luck :o)
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