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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

She gets so drunk, she's always talking to her exes, and I can't help but wonder: Is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6928 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 months has been drinking a lot lately. Whenever she gets drunk she calls all her exes. I work in a remote location for 2 weeks at a time and every night I call she's so drunk. I call and she's always talking to an ex. When I...

I dated my married boss and now he's not coming into work. Do you think he's avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - HI all! Ok i completely screwed up over xmas, temptation got the better of me and i went with someone i shouldnt have, basically because we work together and he's more or less me boss and married. When we got together that night i told him to co...

My married lover feels sorry for his wife and won't leave because of the kids. How do I break off this affair?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for ten years. I was twenty four then, and a student in his torts class. He says he loves his wife, but he loves me more. Because of their two children, he has to stay with her (he also feels sorry ...

My wife tracked down an ex for 15 years, then had an affair! Now she says it's out of her system...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - My wife recently had an affair with a man she has been thinking and fantasizing about for the last 15 years. They were together as teens, never had sex and had a bad break-up that she felt guilty about. She has just told me that she had been ...

I caught my fiance lying and cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 3 years we recently moved I know no one here neither does he but, I just caught him lying and acting different I suspected him cheating I found numbers and I questioned him he finally came out and told ...

Should I tell my best friend I was a webcam-sl*t with the guy she likes? I only did it to get back at her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6905 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy he's my x (lets call him will) i still like him even though it was me who ended it. lately hes been sending really dirty txts to my best mate i act like im not bothered but i rly rly am. i havnt told her. yesterday i got back at her ...

He cheated on me and I got pregnant by someone else...but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - i`ve been dating this guy for about a year until he cheated on me,when i called to confronthim about it he said i should believe what i want,and so i left him.try to get over him i had a fling with my ex(the one befor him).we then made-up and thats ...

Cheating and lying is out of my character... But it keeps happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Well where do i start, my best friend (lets call him James) has been in love with me since we met. I have realised over the past two months that i love him and it's not friendship love its deep love, i have been with my bf Alex for three months. ...

Am I a fool to consider forgiving my wife's infidelity, after she dated 18 other guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 30 years, 25 of them married.Three days ago, by accident, I found out my wife has been registered with 2 ''swinger'' sites in the last 6 months. She has admitted to lunchtime dates with about 18 men and sex with 6 ...

My married guy will be with me... if I wait 16 years for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6934 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - About a month ago I started seeing a guy at work, he's 14 years older than me and married with 2 kids. I've fallen in love with him and he's in love with me, the problem is he keeps telling me he wants me to wait for him for 16 years until his kids ...

My fiancee cheated on me. How do I gain back the trust and intimacy with him again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I just found out that my fiance cheated on me. I don't know how to trust him again and I don't know how to be intimate again. He says that it was her first time but I'm afraid of catching something, I'm not in the best of health. I want to be with ...

There are too many people in my love relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - I am having some relationship trouble. A couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of nine months, as she cheated on me twice. What she doesn't know is that a couple of days before I broke up with her I cheated on her with someone else. ...

She cheated on me...do we stand a chance now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - Hi, About two years ago I was in a lesbian relationship, but we split up because she cheated on me. It was a drunken one night stand that ended up going further because she thought I wouldn't forgive her. We were together for nearly 2 years. ...

I cheated on him four years ago and he can't forget what I did

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - I am 22 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We first started dating when I was going to be a freshmen in college. So we started dating a few weeks before I went away to college. Well,I went and he stayed home but we were ...

She had sex with my ex best friend...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

23 December 2005 (M) - I met my girl friend through my Xbest friend and he told me before hand he had sex with her. I was ok with it and we started a relationship. After 1 1/2 years together my girlfriend she left me for him. during the time he was seeing her It was unkn...

My mom is having an affair... Again. What do I do? Who can I tell?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - When i was about 8 my mum and dad split up for 3 months. At the time they said they just needed a break. They got marrage counciling and got back together. In the years following i slowly learnt by slip ups and evesdropping that the reason for the ...

I've fallen for a guy who is on a "break" from his girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I like this guy who already has a girlfriend but the thing is he's on a break with his girlfriend. We spend a lot of time hangin out with eachother and we kissed after a long while. I don't know what to do, cuz i really like him and i know that ...

Can't deal with the thought that my wife cheated and had unprotected sex with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - My wife had an affair and I am struggling to get the graphic images out of my mind. We have worked through most of the problems in our relationship that lead to an affair and continue to communicate better than in the past. The biggest part tha...

Caught him kissing another girl and I sent him packing...but I miss him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - a couple of days ago i found out my boyfriend was all over and kissing a girl in a night club.ive sent him packing but the thing is this is massively life changing for me.we have been together for 3 years and have a daughter together and i do love ...

Why am I dating my bf of 3 months...but still cheating on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - i am a girl of 17 and ive been going out wit my bf 4 about 3 months even though i dnt lik him, however during this time i have cheated on him many times. the other day i kissed a friend who i work with and told him that i didnt have a bf so now he ...

My gf did some some questionable things and I wonder..can I still trust her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - a year ago my gf of three years had a friend do some sexual stuff for her over a webcam, when i asked about it she said she didn't look and that it hadn't happened before ( i'd read the msn conversation they had becuase i knew he liked her and had a ...

So many little suspicions... I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I was wondering if someone could give me some advice as i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. First of all she won't let me see what she is talking about in msn to one of her friends - girly talk! If I try, then she flips out. Also...

Is there really such a thing as "Love At First Sight"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6942 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - I'm 32 and divorced and in a relationship but.....a guy I met a few weeks into my new relationship keeps popping up in my life. I'm sad to say that I have cheated with this guy twice in the last few months and then we called it off. However in the ...

Is he really cheating on me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6943 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - ive been seeing a guy called stuart, and hes a bouncer. ive been told that hes cheating on me with the barmaid. he says its just his friend. stuarts mate has been known for telling lies, but should a believe stuart or not. i don t know wit a would ...

He cheated on me...how can I trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - i was going out with this guy and things started off not that great at first but got amazing. it was over the summer and i went away to camp and he ended up cheating on me. he would always tell me he wouldnt and i gave him all of my trust. i ...

Married for 12 years, no sex, sleep in seperate beds... I want to leave for my lover but what about the kids?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - We've been married for 12 years and have 2 children but have slept in separate rooms for about 5 yrs (since kid no 2)and sex is just a 3 letter word. Thru work I've met a woman of similar age, with partner but no kids, who I've fallen madly in love ...

Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat ...

I had a sexless marriage until my sexy scrabble playing webcam girl turned up... But now she's found someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid-I've been married 23 yrs to a good woman.however we are mostly :"freinds" now.About totally sexless. @ yrs ago I was playing games on the net when a woamn asked me to paly w/ her & freind.it was "dirty scrabble".had a blast. I was ...

I met another guy..how do I split up with my current bf peacefully, with no hassles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi everyone. i dont really know what to do. i am 22 and i am in a relationship of 5 years and have cheated on my boyfriend. i have never done this before. a new guy started at work and we both knew we had chemistry straight away. so there was ...

He was seeing someone while I was sleeping with him. I'm devastated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I hope you are able to help. During this year i lost my virginity to my best friend. We slept together quite a lot over a period of a few months and although we weren't in an official 'relationship' we had mutually crossed over from being more tha...

He's in contact with other people off the internet...can I ever fully trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I wonder if you can give me some advice. I feel very confused. I have been with my partner 6 months and love him dearly. About 3 months into the relationship I looked at his phone and found text messages which where pretty sexual from a girl he'd ...

Can I trust and forgive him..even though he has sex with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Oh my God! i need advice on this so much, i hope someone can help. ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months. about 2-3 weeks ago, he said that he wanted to be serious with me. in the begining it was just fun, neither of us wanting anything...

Husband is visiting dating sites just for 'fun and games'...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6947 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - how do i know if my husband is lying? i found out that he has been going to dating web sites and trying to find a girl. when i confronted him he said that him and his friend were just doing it for fun and games. I went to his profile and the ...

Scared by physical intimacy... What if I hyperventilate when I kiss!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - hey, I have a problem with the physical side of a relationship. What I mean is, I'm to scared to kiss a guy who might be my bf or go any further. I am 16 years old and have had 2 bfs, the first one only lasted a week and he dumped me because I ...

I'm messing around with this guy at work but...he already has a gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

10 December 2005 (F) - i recently started messing around with a great guy at work. but there are a few things wrong. he has a girlfriend,but in a few months after shes done with school shes moving out of state. he feels he loves her even though shes awful to him. he likes ...

My boyfriend had a one night stand and the baby is due next month!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

10 December 2005 (F) - my boyfriend of three years told me in june of this year he cheated on me he told me it was a one night stand and the girl is preganant and keeping i decied to stay with him but now I am mad because the baby is due next month jan 2006 and she calls ...

It hurts me a lot because he kisses other girls..what can I do about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - i like my boyfriend and he says he likes me 2 but we keep having fights bacause he kisses other girls and if i kissed other boys id be dumped so i dont know what to do about him. i dont know if he really does like me he hurts me a lot...

She's unaware I know about her cheating...how do I bring it up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6951 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Hi, i dont like to bring other people into my problems, but i need some other suggestions and opinions. Im 21 and have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years and we have been living together for 4 months now. But, she went away for...

She is with someone else but I love her...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I can’t cope anymore – need some help! Last year I got moved to a small office with only four people. One was around my age, a really attractive girl called Lana. I knew from the start she had a boyfriend and I myself was in a new relationship. A...

I had phone sex with one of my bf's friends..trying to understand why would I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I had my contraceptive implant removed a month ago. Since then my feelings have been up and down all the time (don't know if it because of this??) My partner works away from home Mon - Fri and during the week I had phone sex with one of my partne...

We separated temporarily...and he slept with another woman. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - my partner and i have been together five years. 2 years ago we had a seriously bad patch and the time i decided i no longer loved him and we decided to temporarily separate. i knew he had connections with a woman at work, but he only confessed ...

I got drunk and cheated with my bf's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months. I had broken up with my previous boyfriend for him, and he(the new boyfriend) wanted me to take some time off and think about if I had made the correct decision. I did not want to do that I had already ...

He wants a break so should I assume that he still wants to get back with me later on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I recently broke up w/ my bf of 6 years because he got drunk one night and cheated on me with my friend..When I found out what happened, he told me that he knew he messed up everything, he truly regret it and that he realizes how much I mean to him. ...

He cheated on me and I'm hurt...so why do I want him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hello im 16 and im in love with a boy he was 22 he now 23 but i neva saw he at the age of 23. i met him in the end of march and he took my v in arpril we had a great relationship we never really had fites. the only think was my family didnt like him ...

He admits to cheating on all his gf's...but wants to change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend has told me he doesn't love me as much as I love him, but feels we have a future together and he wants to be with me. We've only been together 4 months. At the beginning he nursed me after an operation and I have become dependent on ...

I love him but he texts other woman..I can't trust him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6953 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - really need some advice. I have been in two serious relationships in my past - one for 7 years (he cheated on me and left me for someone else) and one for 2 years (he was very controlling and mentally abusive). I have started seeing somone (who i ...

I love my cybersex guy..should I leave my partner of 10 years for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - hi this is part two to my chatroom love affair,i love the guy for many reasons but the most is sex,our cyber is the best ever,well i do feel good after the sex.anyway this is an interracial affair,the thing is i got a guy, but this cyber lover has ...

Is he cheating on me or is this drunken stupidnees on his part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I made the mistake of snooping through my bf's phone. Ever since, I can't get it out of my head he's cheating, and it's making both our lives miserable! We've been dating about 8 months, and there were texts to his ex saying "whats up babe" and ...

Why do bright attractive women fall in love with married men? Help me understand

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

7 December 2005 (F) - I am a 38 yr old attractive, intelligent woman. My problem is that I am in love with a married man. His marriage is loveless there is no physical contact and has not been for 3 years. He has 2 children 11yrs 4 yrs owns his own business and ...

The signs are there that he could be seeing someone else...but he says it's nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - ive been with my fiance 4 1/2 yrs for the last 3 months he has been working away during the week.the last few weeks he hasnt been ringing me when he says and he is always stressing at me for no reason. ive checked his phoneand found messages...