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writes: ive been with my fiance 4 1/2 yrs for the last 3 months he has been working away during the week.the last few weeks he hasnt been ringing me when he says and he is always stressing at me for no reason. ive checked his phoneand found messages from someone there saying give her time it will be ok not that weve got much of it. ive asked him about it and he says it nothing and gets in a stress with me about asking him. is he seeing someone else down there
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reader, Sami +, writes (8 December 2005):
Leave for a day or so and see how upset he gets. Sounds like he's got a new interest. He needs to decide how serious he is about persuing her. Where there's smoke, there's fire.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (7 December 2005):
 Oh dear, it really does sound like he is seeing someone else and he hasnt got an answer for you because he is guilty.You have found the messages on his phone, it is there in black and white... you have caught him red handed and he resents having being found out by you.Bad news... he has become unreliable, not keeping his word, and is looking for excuses to fight with you for no reason?? classic case of the unfaithful fiance, better you sort out things with him now, before you marry and end up in the divorce courts later. Hope all turns out for the best,take care of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): Hun, no one can say if he is seeing anyone however the phone messages sure sound suspicious as well as not being available to contact you, while he's away at work. Something is going on but it may not necessarily be cheating with another woman. You have to compare his behaviours in the present to what he's done in the past with you. At this point, his words mean nothing. After all you know him the best. However, I do think that it is important that you discuss honesty with him. Tell him you've always been honest in this relationship with him at all times, and now, you expect honesty from him. You have developed a long term relationship with this man and now you are planning a future with him. You have a right to know...as a successful marriage is trust, honesty, negotiation good communication. Keep tabs on him and if the trust is broken by him cheating...then you have nothing to keep you there...you leave, grieve and move on.
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