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writes: i`ve been dating this guy for about a year until he cheated on me,when i called to confronthim about it he said i should believe what i want,and so i left him.try to get over him i had a fling with my ex(the one befor him).we then made-up and thats when i found out that i was pregnant with my ex` child.i told my boyfriend the whole story and thats when the confussing part came in,he said he was okay with the fact that i`m caring somebody else`s child and not his.my question is does he really love me or is he trying to retaliate and hurt me bad like i hurt him???and his boys are forever telling shit every they see us together and i don`t think that his really going to ignore them at all(i mean come on)....
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Dearie,When i read though your posting i realised that u must be a very honest person yourself for confiding in your boyfriend and telling him you are pregnant for your ex. Maybe this is an attribute he likes about u honesty.
Dont feel guilty about what happened i guess that is why u cant understand why he is still with u.Learn from what happened so that u can prevent future mistakes.
i guess he must love u alot more than u think. i dont see how he is trying to hurt by staying with u, if he wants to hurt u at all he will leave. You are at the stage now where u requires his support and he is there for u.
All the best dear and happy hoilday.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Angel,
If he is willing to accept the fact that you are carrying another mans child then that must tell you that he loves you more than you think.
He didn't have to take you back after finding out about the pregnancy but he did, and as for his friends, do you not think if he was going to to be influenced by them he would have left you already, he is ignoring what they saying because he loves you and sweety that is very hard to find in a man.
Stop looking for excuses and accept the fact that he loves you and that the commitment between the 2 of you is very strong, you have a catch hold on to him.
If he leaves you it's because you doubting his love for you, nothing else.
The girl he cheated on you with can't mean anything to him if he is still with you.
HE IS WITH YOU AND NO-ONE ELSE.
ENJOY IT!
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