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writes: My girlfriend of 6 months has been drinking a lot lately. Whenever she gets drunk she calls all her exes. I work in a remote location for 2 weeks at a time and every night I call she's so drunk. I call and she's always talking to an ex. When I was with her in the bar once she was so drunk that she forgot all about me and starting hitting on another guy right in front of me for like an hour, without even talking to me. Now she's in Mexico for a week and said she'd only call me once. She promised she wouldn't cheat on me but always was talking about the "hot guys" in Mexico and how she was going to always dress up which she never does for me. Is she cheating on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006): you know we can nevere judge if she is cheating for sure or not. but it honestly doesnt sound so great. if some one seriously cares for you, its all about you~only you. there should not be any type of hitting on guys.. which is even worse because she did it while u were there. that shows no compassion for u or the relationship. i'd say u deserve a lot better and dont take that kind of treament from girls ne more. candice
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reader, cpg25 +, writes (31 December 2005):
cpg25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have talked about her also saying other guys are so hot. Then I guess she feels bad and says I'm hot too. Whenever I so another attracitve girl around I look away cause I know it bugs her, I never talked about how good looking anyone from the opposite sex is except for her. I guess she just doesn't feel the same for me.
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reader, Joe  +, writes (31 December 2005):
IF you haven't actually talked to her about how you feel i can absolutly understand because sometimes you may be scared of the reaction but don't worry as it seems she may really need you now more then ever as it also sounds like she has a drinking problem which should be sorted now to try save future long term damage to her own health, just like happytochat said if she has one inch of respect for this relationship she will try and sort out her problem and if your willing to stand by her regardless she may then realise how much you love her and how much she loves you.Really do hope i have helped.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (31 December 2005):
Omg, your poor person. This girl just as no sense of loving someone does she? Whether she be cheating on you or not, her behaviour is completely wrong, in appropiate and most of all HURTFUL to you! That is not right.
What she's doing amazes me that someone could ever do. LIke the fact taht shes so open to talk about 'hot guys' and then talk about how shes gonig to dress up for them.
Then she has even hitted on other guys right in front of you. Now i know she was drunk, but that gives her no rgiht to do so. If she cant control her behaviour while drinking then she shoudln't be drinking at all. If she has one inch of respect for this realtionship she would learn how to drink sensibily or better still give it up all together as she is hurting the people who lvoe her!
Now, I am wondering, have you talked to her about this? Have you metnioned to her that it hurts you when she talks about otehr guys like that and acts ilke that?
You could save this relationship, you could try and perhaps she will try too, yet I don't think she deserves you. You deserve someone soo much ebtter!
This girl has treated you so badly, you mustn't be very happy in the relationship. There is no trust and I can see why you are havign difficulties.
She doesn't sound like the best person to be with, you should be with somoene who treats you right and who you love and who you trust and who trusts you.
I hope you do whats right for you! Good luck and take care.
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