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writes: I made the mistake of snooping through my bf's phone. Ever since, I can't get it out of my head he's cheating, and it's making both our lives miserable! We've been dating about 8 months, and there were texts to his ex saying "whats up babe" and "come over i want to see you". I know these were made when he was completely drunk and he has been broken up with her for about 11 months- they're still friends. He is very secretive about his phone, I am never allowed to see it, he says I should just trust him. Could he be cheating or is this just drunken stupidness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): He wouldn't be so secrerive about his phone if he had nothing to hide and it sounds like he is probably see here as more then a friend. I wouldn't put up with that. If you guys are exclusive, then he shouldn't mind you seeing his phone, and you shouldn't have to feel like you need to check it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): He shouldnt be texting "come on over" and you definitly should not be snooping. Confront him if you want but I would definitely dump you for snooping. Cant stand that.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (7 December 2005):
 There's not reason to be texting his ex with those sayings while he is drunk. Where are you at? Why can't he want you to come over while he's drunk so at least if there is temptation for him he'll have you to give it into. It's nice that they're still friends, but I wouldn't put up with this guy if he's thinking about his ex instead of you. No one should have to put up with anyone like this. Let him know how you feel and that this isn't right. He shouldn't be so secretive about his phone if he has nothing to hide either. True, the phone is his, but if you're insecure he should prove to you that there's nothing for him to hide. I'm not quite sure if he's cheating on you, but it seems like he may and you shouldn't have to be around waiting for that to happen. You can always find someone better.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): It could be both. Confront him. And don't expect to get an answer you will like. If he is cheating, by seeing this old flame, he will either continue to lie, or refuse to say anything. If you don't trust the guy, then leave him. Life is too short to put up with that nonsense. NO?
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reader, Mirabell +, writes (7 December 2005):
 I'm sorry, but I would be happier if he sent those texts sober. Then he it could be friendship. A drunk text??
When your boyfriend was lying around bored and drunk he wanted to see his ex-girlfriend.
If he is not messing around with her he has thought about it. Not only that, he has acted upon it. What faithful minded boyfriend alluringly invites over temptation when he's drunk and you're not there?
He is at least a step away from cheating.
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