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writes: my partner and i have been together five years. 2 years ago we had a seriously bad patch and the time i decided i no longer loved him and we decided to temporarily separate. i knew he had connections with a woman at work, but he only confessed yesterday he slept with her during our break. i still love him more than anything but have no idea what to do?
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reader, Thistle +, writes (8 December 2005):
Well first of all you have to find out how he feels about this other woman. Does he want to be with her now or was it just a spur of the moment thing that meant nothing. What would concern me is if he still has feelings for her and how secure would you feel if you re-establish your relationship and he's working with her every day. Would you be wondering if he was still having a relationship with her? You need to find out as much as you can about what happened and how he feels about her now. He wasn't with you when he slept with her so its not like he cheated but just be careful about what their relationship is now. Find out as much as you can before you get back into this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2005):
I have no sympathy. You decided you no longer loved him and now, magically, you love him more than anything.
As far as what you do about the relationship he had with a co-worker- do nothing, you have no right to be aggrevied. You were on a break. In fact the woman probably felt sorry for him with the way you were jerking the guy around.
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