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writes: Hey, I like this guy who already has a girlfriend but the thing is he's on a break with his girlfriend. We spend a lot of time hangin out with eachother and we kissed after a long while. I don't know what to do, cuz i really like him and i know that the whole situation is jus wrong. I don't know if to jus go along with it or end things with him. We were great friends before the kiss but that was then and now i'm really fallin for him....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006): Follow your instincts
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
If he's on a break from his girlfriend, then things are not going right with her. All is fair in love and war. If you like him - get him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2005): I think you answered your own question. If you "know" it's just wrong, then you need to honor that. If you don't, you will regret it. Give it some time. The right thing will happen in the right time.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (21 December 2005):
 Friendship turning to love. Tough question kinda. Think of this did the friendship end because of the kiss. NO! so where do you go from here. I think talking to him about it and telling him that you really desire to go to the next level with him is very flattering to him. But, in no uncertain terms should you want him to take advantage of your feelings for him. This would lead to distrust later in your relationship. I think he needs to completely break it off with his current space apart girlfriend and find out if the real you is what he may want. You definately don't want to be a rebound girl. Maybe in your conversation with him you will discover that he doesn't feel the same way about you and that you two might just be better friends than to persue a relationship. Open and honest discussion is the only way to go. Good Luck. Ed
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