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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2844 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

What should I do? He told me that he "fell out of love" with me like a month ago and now it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Me and my fight friend have been friends for almost 2 years, 10 months ago he told me he wanted to date. When he first told me he liked me I was really nervous and not ready. I was young, immature, I had a lot of things going on in my life such as ...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

His family want us to marry, mine don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I 'was' dating this guy for a little over two years. We have both met each other's families and all was well until last December when his family started asking him to get married. Now the problem is I am in my early 20s ...

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

He's a handsome foreigner, twice-divorced, aged 60. But all is not well in the relationship. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - Hello, I´m a single working mother of two. One is 13yo and the second 5yo. Six months ago I met a handsome foreigner twice-divorced aged 60. After 2 months, he came to live with us. He´s the first man to ever enter my household because I´ve alw...

I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things l...

She's still sharing a bed with her partner of 6 years! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

23 February 2017 (M) - Hi I'm seeing a girl and have been for over 6 months but she's still living with her partner of 6 years ... I did know her before and was common knoledge they were not close ... she promised me she would leave once she got the finance to move out ...

If he wants to remain friends, I'm going to need a sincere apology!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I recently broke it off with a guy I was dating because he wasn't ready for commitment. It hurt a lot but I'm mostly over it now. There was a deep connection and we could potentially be really good friends if the bad feelings can be resolved....

I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited int...

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing ...

We were on a break for 2 weeks and he got a woman pregnant. I dont't know how I feel about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - Hi my question is that I have been seeing a guy casually for about 8 months now. We had quite a big argument about 6 weeks ago and there were was no contact for 2 weeks, then he got in touch, so we started talking again. Whilst we were havin...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Should I completely cut him off and just mend my broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months in a sort-of FWB situaton. We never specifically defined it as FWB, but I did say I wasn't looking for anything serious...Unfortunately I have started to catch feelings for him and it was eating me up ...

I'm scared my girlfriend is going to break up with me because of the distance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

18 February 2017 (M) - Dear friends Well I'm quite scared my girlfriend will break up with me. I have had three relationships and the previous two both progressed the same way. It was perfect for a while, then they started to criticise me, act a bit cold. Then one day...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

Should I explain to my ex? Or just let him think what he wants?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - Well, It all started when the guy I was seeing for a 1 1/2 years dumped me out of the blue... I moved on and met someone else who was going out of town for 2 months.. (New dating by this time) This new guy is nothing like my ex.. he's sucessful, ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Our LDR is stalling after 3 years. Do I stay with him, or look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I`ve been in relationship with someone for 3 years. I want to settle down and enjoy life together but he's happy the way it is We don't live together. We live 50 miles away from each other. I'm 50 now i want someone to grow old with and share ...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

I was an idiot to break up with her, now I see her all the time and she turns away ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 February 2017 (M) - Hi I was with a woman who I fell madly in love with we were together a year I idolised her and could see myself spending the rest of my life with her and she also felt the same I finished with her after she had a miscarriage I was a idiot I know I ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Should I break up or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - I met a guy almost 2 years ago. He is very kind, generous, thoughtful, loving etc. I had just finished with a guy who I was with briefly who had none of these qualities. The problem is, I'm not physically attracted to him, he's average looking ...

He doesn't have the same feelings as I have for him from the beginning until the end

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - My aunt introduced me to her husband's nephew 9mos.ago,he is a 4yr divorced man with 2kids,I also have a 13yr old son that's why get along so well. We were talking,messaging online for 8 mos until we decided to meet in Barcelona last week,he flew ...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...

It shouldn't be this difficult only 6 weeks into a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

10 February 2017 (F) - recently started a new relationship we've been together now around 6 weeks. he's 40 I'm 32 and we both work together. we've known each other for around 6 years now but we were always both in different relationships until recently. so at the ...

How can I get away from him this time, without getting attached to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over a 1 1/2 on an off. There have been times where things were good. Then there were times where he did not want me and I wanted him and vice a versa. Long story short this guy i am dating ...

He's verbally abusive. Consequences of leaving him concern me. Why do I seem to have the worst luck with men ? ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - what am I meant to do? how am I meant to feel? what do I do? I ask these questions and I'm not even sure If they are the right questions to ask!! I have no one in my life that I can talk to about any of this. I'm feel alone and need to feel lik...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

Now the grief about our broken relationship is starting to hurt me. what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - 3 months ago my ex boyfriend left me after my miscarriage. He said he don't want to be in a long distance relationship and because my career is not stable so he don't see any future with me . He don't know how to give me any emotional suppor...

I discovered that my 16 year old has had sex. Should I punish her by cancelling her "sweet sixteen" birthday celebrations?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - i recently found out by going through my 15 year old daughters phone that she has recently lost her virginity to an 18 year old guy whom is now dating another girl in the same area as us. When i first confronted her she denied it but eventual...

Is he trying to keep me on the back burner? Or am I misreading the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - Dear cupid. I was seeing a guy last year for a couple of months. I fell for him. Was completely head over hills. We spoke all day every day and saw each other as much as possible. He was over here temporarily for work. We both knew it would be...

Should I say something? Or cut ties with them? My friend uninvited me to their wedding

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - I have been good friends with the groom for over 4 years. He and the bride said I was invited to the wedding ceremony. I was surprised as a registry office is usually small so was please to be asked. The bride asked if I had my invitation w...

If I was happy, I wouldn't have had cybersex with the guy online. Anyone got advice? Should I tell my bf about what I did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - I became friends with this guy online. The conversations started off as topics about forums (met on a forum so) memes, YouTube, just general Internet stuff really. However, it slowly got a little flirtatious, and last night, I was drinking and we ...

We're on a break so he can deal with his issues and I need advice on how to manage this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has been depressed for a month now. At first, he didn't know as he'd never experienced it but as I have, I started noticing it and told him. His relationship with his father is strained and his father has been putting immense ...

Slept with my best friend, My boyfriend is hurt, help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My best friend Michael and I always hang out on his bed and play video games, watch movies, listen to music, do work, or just talk. Last night we were just watching tv and taking about past senerios and we hit some that are sensitive to me and I ...