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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He needs time to think about it? What can I do? I am left wondering and waiting if he's planning to break up with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I am hoping that my boyfriend and i eventually make-up. At the moment he is really angry with me because of something i should have not said to him in the heat of an argument. I have sent him 3 apologies, via texting. After i asked him if he wante...

How do I break up with him? I love him with all of my heart

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Well I've been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last 4 years and I used to think he was the one. In fact I still do in some ways. However the last year or so has been very rocky because I've started to want more from the ...

Not all fathers are good fathers, but what do you do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - This isn't a question as such, more to see what other people's opinion on this is. I am all for a dad to have his rights and responsibilities towards his children. But what do people think a mother should do when there was domestic abuse in th...

After 5 years he tells me he never loved me and was just using me for sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - after 5yrs the guy i was seeing told me he had meet someone else. Now discover that he never loved me and he only kept seeing me for sex. I feel so used and cheap. Im finding it hard to deal with as i loved this guy. how do i move on? jo ...

My boyfriend's adult son is driving me to despair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is in his 45 and we have been very hapoy for 12 months. We had plans to rent our places and to buy a place together. Then his 20 year son moved back in with him. Everything has changed. My 24 year old son has moved out and is very happy ...

I've become extremely needy and emotional, since I'm used to have her around my finger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

31 October 2013 (M) - Hey, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years. I did it because I haven't lived my life and I was feeling that I wanted to meet other people. My girlfriend was wonderful but we wasn't on the same level, she was very responsible and ...

The last convo we had he said I was acting like a psycho and wants me to leave him alone. How do I fix all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I've been dating this guy for aboyt 2 months. He has his own business and works crazy hours and gets stressed about it. In the beginning we spent a lot of time together. We went out and did enjoyable things together. Then he started a really huge ...

I want to tell him to stop contacting me because I feel like he is playing with my heart, does he miss me or is he just saying hi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - A guy I met broke up with me and said he doesn't know what he wants. he said he is lost. I asked to help him and he said no. I decided to accept it and now after almost two week no contact he texted me out of the blue and said "hope everything good ...

How do I stop thinking about a lying cheating ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I started seeing a guy about six month ago, a few months into 'seeing him' he tells me he has a girlfriend. Gave me the whole as soon as he met me he planned to end it with her but couldn't bring himself to do it but he couldn't lie to me any ...

Are we headed for a future break-up? I don't want to lose him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I'm needing some serious advice/help with my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends/any times we can find in our work schedules together. Over the last few months things have gotten really rocky. We've ...

I don't want to let go of my ex ... what do his recent actions mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I fell for a guy just over a year ago and we got together, we were together for a couple of months and everyday he would message me 24/7 and I would message him back, we'd talk until all hours of the morning until one of us fell asleep. It was ...

I can't stop blaming myself for causing him breaking up with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4041 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - My bf of 8 months dumped me almost 3 months ago, because "we are comfortable but it doesn't mean it's going anywhere." He's been "thinking abt it for a few weeks" and "I am getting obsessed with the relationship." He's my first bf and I really loved ...

No closure because of the way things ended, and my mother making it worse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - Hi all, any advice given will be appreciated greatly. I had been with my boyfriend for nearly four years, (four years in December). Most of those years were happy, loving years. However around 10 months ago MY feelings started to change. I ju...

Is he afraid to commit because of his past... or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I dated a man for 3 months. He was very good to me and chased me. I had no doubt that he was really into me. Things were going well and progressing. However, Towards the end he was pulling away from me and very distant. We broke up and went no ...

Having trouble adjusting after moving back home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - When I spent a year working in Australia, I met the man of my dreams. He trained at a gym which had a coffee shop nearby, so as I worked there I saw him daily. After a few weeks of flirting, he asked me out and started dating. When my year was up we ...

Should I be alone for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

26 October 2013 (M) - Hi, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years and now I'm single. Directly after I dumped her I met a girl that I knew a little from before. She was also about to dump her boyfriend since he was a douchebag. However, we talked and texted and t...

I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of ...

Does being civil with an ex for the children's sake ever work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - do you think following a break up, a nasty break up, with someone you have children with, that you can eventually be civil to one another or even be friends? Or will that anger and hate stay?...

Feeling so low after the break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4044 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - Dear friends, I wrote here first when my boyfriend ditched me without stating any specific reason. What I know is that he just wanted to marry a girl of his mother's choice in their hometown and he was making me fool by showing love just to tak...

Broke up... feeling sad. Thoughts? Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend, of 3 years, and I broke up Sunday night. We're both the same age and don't live together, but spent weekends together and any days during the week if we found time. We were a serious couple and had talked about children and settling ...

Ex is telling embarrassing personal details!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - My ex from 5 years started telling people about 2 years ago some very personal information of mine. Why he is doing this I don't know but I am horrified to the point where I can't stop thinking about it. We have had no contact now for years and I ...

I know I should just break up with my girlfriend but I can't stand to break her heart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

23 October 2013 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and its been pretty rocky for the last year. we fight alot and dont really seem to have much in common. its one of the situations where we cant stand each other but both truly love each other. i had caught ...

Contact -- yes or no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

22 October 2013 (M) - I liked this girl a lot. This was my first relationship (or pseudo). During our time together (4 months), I was the one who more often initiated the conversations, was completely honest about everything. She seemed to me an honest girl hers...

It's a terrible mess, can't stay, can't leave my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - Please help. I'm a 39 year old woman, been with my husband for 11 years, one of them married. We have two beautiful children. My relationship with my husband began breaking down about three years ago. Too many details as always but essentally...

He has lost all faith in me after I snooped, how can I put things right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I have been in a lovely relationship with a guy in his 40s. His wife left 3 years ago after they mutually separated after 20 years due to growing apart. She came home pregnant and moved out shortly after with her new partner. My boyfriend has a ...

Is this something that can be salvaged or should I throw in the towel now and save myself time and heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I'm really unsure if me and my boyfriend have a future together. After nearly a year together I discovered texts on my boyfriends phone begging his ex to get back with him from around the time we got together. I snooped on his phone, don't ask...

My friendships are fading and I can't stop it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - I have trouble making and keeping friends. I used to not care but lately it has been on my mind a lot. My only best friends are my girlfriend and her best friend. I have hung out with co workers and I have a great time. It's more of a group thing...

I'm so broken-hearted, he moved his camper, took his dog, he took everything from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - i meet my boyfriend 3 years ago. i have many children that r older but do have a16 year older and aa grandson thats 10. i have spent a lot of time with i call him sam. i couldnt understand him very well, thought maybe his ex wife he couldnt get ...

My ex told me she still loves me.... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - Hey Everyone! So this morning I was totally blown away. I wrote on here a few days ago about how I just couldn't get over my ex. She is everything to me. I've tried everything to get over her. I've kept myself busy, gym, work, even dated othe...

Would a guy ever leave a woman if he really loved her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me and said.. "I'll always love you..You were an amazing girlfriend" What does this mean?? Would a guy ever leave a woman if he really loved her?...

Why did he meet me then if he was going to break up by text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy three weeks ago. he came to my table and asked for my number. he decided to give me his number and after that I texted him and started talking. after that we liked echother verymuch and started talking as much as we can. he was leaving ...

She has recently broken up with her BF. She is a co-worker. Should I ask her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4049 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - Kind of a weird one here. I work with this girl who I have liked for a while, 5 months ago we got drunk and kissed at a party and it didn't go so well in terms of trying to develop a relationship. I came across too serious and dramatic. So we didn't...

Our connection was so amazing that I can't get her out of my mind

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - Don't really know how to start this? I'm almost 34. I've had a few relationships. Some good, some not so good. Then awhile back I met this girl. We come from different worlds. She's had a really good upbringing. I haven't. Not that ...

My husband just left me for a younger woman

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - i am feeling like a total fool. i was informed last night that my husband of 23 years wants a divorce, he has a baby by a girl that is 24 years old and she is expecting another one by him again... yes you read this right the baby she just had is 4 ...

We broke up but still spending time together even though she's hurting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - me and my ex have been in a relationship for 2 years before we broke up. the break up was a very very bad one. however, we talk and still take trips together. she still buy me things. she say she cant forgive me for the past and want to move on.she ...

I got out of an abusive relationship. But now with my new guy my mother and brother hate him. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - I got out of a toxic relationship not too long ago - we had been together for 5 years with two kids and he used to bash me up and threaten to kill me. Everyone knew the extent of how severe the abuse was. I have recently started seeing a guy who...

Keep getting hurt in relationships. Are relationships really worth all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - Do you think some people are better off not in relationships and instead dedicating their life to other things? The reason that I ask this question is because of men. I am beginning to think that my life may be better if I don't have relationshi...

My son is asking questions about his absent father, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - My son, who is 5 years old, has started asking about his dad, and wants to see him. Thing is when the relationship ended, it ended really really badly. He hasn't seen his son for a long time, when he left he made the decision to walk out on me A...

He ended it, he text again.. Can anyone tell me what is happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - I met this guy 6 weeks ago while I was on a hen. Im from Ireland hes from London. We totally clicked!! Anyway, long story short we spoke everyday for 4 weeks and then he came to stay with me for a weekend. It was amazing, until the Saturday night I ...

I've changed after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

18 October 2013 (M) - first of all im sorry this may be long.. okay so i broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 months ago and we was together for 18 months she was my first for everything and since the break up i have been saying to girls i like them and meeting up with ...

I´d like to have an oppinion on this guilt manipulation that I am sure about.Thanks.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - 10 years of marriage and I always though my husband was the most amazing,wonderful, caring, and fair person on the face of this planet. I see know how blind I was,but in a way I was happy. For 4 years now I am dealing with depression because I lost ...

My ex wouldn't interact with my friends but now he is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Hello all I recently broke up with my bf. One of the reasons was because he never wanted to interact with my friends or introduce me to his family. Personally I feel that if a couple got together, there shouldn't be anything to hide. Furthermore, we ...

Should I mention to the counselor in front of him about this other man or should I keep it quiet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

15 October 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts. Three years ago, my now husband were dating and my visa was running out so we decided after a year of dating that we'd get married. We didn't want to be apart, and you know the immigration laws in the US aren't exactly happy-la-la-land...

I'm devastated over this breakup and over being used!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

15 October 2013 (M) - I’m so heartbroken right now…I need advice on how to get over this woman. I wound up being in a love triangle which has driven me into therapy but I need some additional advice, criticism, feedback…whatever it is…I just need to hear it. I met this ...

How can I recover from this love-sickness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago. Since then, my life has started to be absolutely nonsense, I spent my days watching the time passing by, and fell into a deep depression. I have started university almost a month ago, still I don't ...

My partner is reluctant to start a family, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - I recently posted about moving countries. I've moved countries and been with my partner for over a year and a half. He seems reluctant to start a family but i really want too! we've been arguing and mostly he's been silent. What should I do? I've ...

We broke up but I miss his kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Please help me :( I hate the way I feel. I finished with my ex a few months ago because he took me for granted too much. (Money , never spending time with him, being left on my own all the time) with him and he had kids from a previous relatio...

LDR talking only 1 hour a week on the phone isn't enough for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Things were great and I've fallen deeply in love with him. We met on holiday and decided to have a long distance relationship where we would see each other every 1-2 weeks for about a week. ...

He treated me badly so why do I feel guilty for letting him go?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 5 months now. The last two months have been especially stressful. He has subjected me to the "silent treatment" for over a month and just recently started cursing towards me. On Thursday I was trying to text h...

He thinks it's not healthy for us to be together because we are arguing, what should I do?3

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy on the 22nd of September 2013. We been talking every single day and been texting each other and said he wanted to be with me but nobody else. he is 24 and I am 26 . he told me he smokes weed and told him to stop smoking and had an ...