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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How much time do I need to get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My ex of three years dumped me. I'm trying to move on. I know I shouldn't miss him but sometimes I just can't help thinking about him.How much time do I need to get rid of him?...

Do you think we could ever be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4192 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - I left my boyfriend on Monday. It wasn't a good relationship and I couldn't handle his temper anymore, but I did love the times with him when he wasn't mad. He has a great sense of humor and I'd like to still be on pleasant terms, be able to catch ...

All seemed OK, so why did she say: "'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' "

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - Say you're seeing a woman for two months and everything is clicking, sex chemistry, views etc and suddenly she says 'I want to be alone and have no feelings for you.' And the time we spend together is amazing and fun. And she feels the same. I...

My ex is stalking my Facebook, does he miss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for six months. we bicker a lot and this is the 4th time we have split up. I am 4 months pregnant. when we broke up three weeks ago we were still talking, but when he told me he doesn't want to reconcile I changed ...

Ex with benefits, is there more into this than I am realising or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - I am confused. My ex boyfriend who dumped me 3 months ago has phoned me once a week why? no idea. Anyway he invited me around to his place for lunch and he cooked me up a lovely roast and we had a chat etc then ended up having sex. We did have a ...

Why do I have to be this game he wants to play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Ok 5 years ago I fell in love with aman 12 yr older than me I am 27 and over the years he took my love as a game I feel he has no care at all. Till I get his total attention him in love or at least acting to be when we are alone. We broke up I liv...

I know I've done wrong, but will he give me another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hoping someone can help me.. Year and a half live in boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was scarred from how mean I had been in the relationship We had so many good times but when we argued I was just very cruel and he was very se...

I'm open to more suggestions in getting over him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I know the answer is yes, but I'm just hurting right now. I guess I'm just wanting to get this out. I left him on Monday, he got cranky too often over things that didn't matter, couldn't accept responsibility for it, and in all honesty, showed ...

I think I am interested in women, how do I tell my boyfriend I want a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I think I like women. I masturbate to them. I find them attractive. I feel like I understand them better. How do I tell my boyfriend that in the nicest way possible?...

Why is this man making me mental? After my miscarriage, now his new girlfriend, I feel awful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I had been starting to feel so much better about this, but today was hit with a ton of bricks and I'm not even sure why it bothers me. I started "seeing" a guy I had met on vacation to a new school I was going to the next year. "Seeing" is in q...

Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2

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28 June 2013 (M) - Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2 Separation does not automatically lead to divorce unless you let it. It is up to you and your partner to put in the work so that it does not happen. In the event you are the only one trying to work on yourself and ...

Would it be better if I broke things off and concentrate on myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I'm constantly paranoid about my new relationship and don't know if I should stay in it. Last December I broke up with a guy I'd been with for four years. He left me, to be precise. At first he said he didn't love me any more but later I found ou...

My ex dumped me. why did he say he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me and walked out of my life without any reasons two months. Recently he found out that I have a new boyfriend and contacted me. He told me he still loves me,but he can't stand to see me with someone else. He then unfriended me on ...

Fat Issues and lots of Tissues: Question is, why would I stay in a relationship where I have to change to suit his ideals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Fat issues and tissues So my SO keeps calling me a fatso. Mmm that's abusive. I need to loose, for myself, 20 lbs Also in menopause and also 52 years old. But I'm very active, trying now to boost my metabolism I have put my relationship...

Do you think he misses me and is starting to think he made a mistake or is he just being insensitive and doesn't realize that I need more time to get over him before we can be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. He said he cared about me and loved me but he wasn't in love with me. I had already told him that I love him. It's been 2 weeks and in that time he has sent me text messages acting like we're best ...

Is it wrong to send my ex bf's stuff back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - My ex and I broke up three months ago. I initiated the breakup because we were in LDR and he drifted apart. I told him a hundred times if he had no love for me, please just feel free to tell me, I would understand since it's so difficult to be ...

I can talk to her and try to establish a friendship, which I imagine would make me happier, OR continue living my life imagining different ways this could turn out. Which?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - It's been a year and three months since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, ending a two year relationship. It was a complete shock to me at the time(unexpected), especially since she started seeing another guy within the same week. When she ended...

He said he is not ready, should I wait or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, It all started a few weeks ago. I started talking to this boy i knew back in school. I'm 26 now, he is 27. We went out for coffee on the first date, then a week later for coffee and lunch. He started getting extra attentive and we w...

This feels like a part-time relationship, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (?) - Okay, haven't been on here in a while, but I need help. It's the same guy- he has a drinking problem and in the past had a drug issue that we've finally hurdled over two years ago (been together going on four). Basically, we break up ALL THE TIME. ...

Why did my ex send me a photo of him and his new girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1146 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So my ex boyfriend and I haven't talked since we broke up. He has nerve to send me a picture of him and his new girl. I'm not going to lie, it did break me. I was getting over him and I'm happy for him but why would he do that? ... I need help:-(...

Should I be there for him now while he is weak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, Over a year now with my biyfriends, most of the advices i took her about out issues was to dump him for leaning towards cheating and for being controlling. To do so i needed to change, and i built more self confidence and thought poss...

Why wasn't I enough? Why is this girl already in his heart the way I once was?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I used to jump from relationship to relationship, until I learned that you need time to breathe and be alone in between. After an especially drawn out break up, I decided to spend one year single. Although it was difficult, it was also the most ...

My cheating ex is making me feel bad because I had a one night stand after we broke up. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up around about 3 weeks ago due to him cheating on me. He's cheated on me multiple times, and now I've had enough, we broke up and ended and the break up has been challenging to say the least. ...

She left me because I don't want kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I've been with the same girl for 12 years. She would like to have a baby. I really don't want kids. She has left me now to carry on with her life. It was a really painfull breakup. And I feel really guilty about my choises. She chose me to have a ...

Think the best thing I can do at this point is to just stay silent for "a couple weeks" like she originally said, and then maybe try to call her and see what's up... what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for two years recently she's been being a bit distant, she tells me she's spending time with family/working on career/etc. which is all totally fine, because everyone needs time for themselves, but she's been seein...

Why is this being taken out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - i'm really hurting a lot right now and i don't know what to do. please help. my ex and i have been off and on so many times in the last couple of months. it's been killing me. when we were on, we were amazing. i could see how much she loved me just ...

Doubting myself after an encounter with an ex-friend, am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I ran into my ex-friend "Karen" at a mutual friend's party. All my ex-friend did was brag and make snide remarks. She was also smug because she brought a date and I came with my sister. (My sis was invited though and received a separate invite.) I ...

Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...

Should I just ignore my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 4 years two months ago. We were long distance for 2 years and were very serious about our relationship because we've been through so many difficulties together. We had a huge fight because of his female friends before the ...

How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who h...

How do I put it and keep it in my head and have it locked up in there, that its really over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I get that he doesn't want me back now. I know it. I keep telling myself that. I know for a fact that its over. I don't understand why I still keeep coming back to him. Its annoying cause I send him this text brigade, text after text after text ...

I went through a bad break up. When will I be me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I just need some words of wisdom I guess... I'm a bit embarrassed that I need to come online and ask people who don't know me, but just because I'm pretty sure my friends are sick listening to me. Maybe I just need to vent? I don't know.. I always ...

How long will it take me to heal after the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - i was involved with a married woman to make a long story short she was a few years older and ive come to relise she used me in the 6 months we were together we broke up in april and i was a wreck shatterd you could say but me being me wanting her in ...

Did I do the right thing here? Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi aunt and uncles :) It's been a while since I have had to post as I have been really happy up until now. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 and a half years and we were really happy. He lost his job in November and was sent to prison. I st...

Should I break up with my girlfriend? We don't seem to have that spark.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - My and my girlfriend have been together for nearly three months. She is 18 and im 22. My problem is that we dont seem to talk very much. I am naturally quite quiet and she is too I suppose, but I just wonder if this is normal. I see my friends ...

Take a Break or Break Up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months next week. From the start of the realationship, he really through himself in: I became apart of the family fast, he told me he loved me into a few weeks of being together. We had some really great times, he ...

Is this normal to feel like this? My ex would not speak to me at a friend's wedding and it made me feel horrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Yesterday I attended a friend's birthday party and ran into my long-term ex girlfriend and her new(ish) partner. We were together for many years and hadn't seen each other in quite a while. We knew each other would be attending but her partner ...

Deep friendship or electric spark - Should I settle for either one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for more than 9 years.It was a safe sweet comfortable relationship - too comfortable. But as usual career ambitions and growing up got in the way. Both of us were unhappy for the last 2 years ...

Am I missing my ex or the end of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I was wondering if anybody could help. I broke up with my little girls dad, due to constant arguments and the fact I feel like he isn't mature enough. He's really lazy works 2.5 hours a morning, and was procrastinating looking for anything els...

Has our relationship really ended?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Pls help me ... Me and my guy statrted dating a year back.we work at the same office.everything was fine and good betweeen us.I fell for him .but he told he doesnot have marriage ideas with me as for that time. i did not take it to m...

He texted me five weeks after the break-up -- why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - So I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 5 weeks ago. We were together for 4 years and he texted me for the first time after 5 weeks of not talking and said "someone made me think of you today. Hope you're doing well, I'm doing great:)" what am I ...

How can I get closure and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Good afternoon. I went to get my alimony from my ex the other day. had to drive one hour and fifteen mins. to get it, way too long. I told him that it was too far to drive, he than said I can mail it, mailing it was not an option earlier for him. ...

Separation and Dating Part 1 of 2

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22 June 2013 (M) - Separation and Dating Part 1 of 2 One of the most damaging actions an individual can take is to start dating someone new when going through a separation with their serious long term partner (spouse, common-law partner or a defacto-union). When I use ...

Fiance wanted a break, he's talking to another woman about but isn't trying to fix things. What does he want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help - five weeks ago my fiance and partner of three years, who I lived with along with his little girl, told me that he was unsure of his feelings for me and we should have a break. I was devastated - we only got eng...

Why couldn't he show me some respect instead of leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - I don't mean to be angry/bitter but I was dating this guy for four months, the first two months we were not doing anything physical we would just hang out, go to the movies, have fun then after the second month we slept together, after we slept t...

Should I give this jerk who dumped me a piece of my mind or not give him the satisfaction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - I would love your opinion about this. I was dumped today by a low life, cheating prick. He came to my house to tell me. I am really upset by not only the fact he did it but by how he did it and how unfeeling and cold he was about it. He came t...

He confessed he was married then deleted his email account! How do I get over the shock and heartbreak?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - How do I forget this guy?! He emailed me yesterday confessing that he was married and hadn't been fair with me the past 6 mos. He then deleted his email acct so I can't reply to him. I have his cell number but don't want to appear desperate so ...

How long does it take for your friend to come back to you after ditching everyone for their girlfiend? Does it ever calm down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - Will I ever get my best mate back!!?? Hes been going out with someone, his first serious relationship since his actual first one was long distance and didn't last very long and hes never had much luck with girls. When this first started we all u...

I've been seeing a man who was a friend before we began dating and I'm devastated that he just ended it after 7 weeks of dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - Hi people. Just need some straight forward advice,ill give you some background,I am a single mother out of a messy relationship about 2 years ago. Ive come to the time now,where I feel I can move on. Ive been seeing a man who was my friend before we ...

I feel like I threw away a good thing and now don't know how to contact her, after 8 months. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - a while back i dated a girl who had been a friend for a good six months before we got together. we only dated about four months. the relationship was rocky (she had just broken up with her ex) and both of us were extremely insecure. we jumped into ...