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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Ten years with a man only to be cheated on then left for her, so why cant I move on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Well, I am 26 years of age and about 1 year ago I got out of a 10 year relationship. He left me for another woman! He had also been sleeping with her for a month or who knows how much longer before we actually broke up. I spent my life loving this ...

I can't get over my ex that passed away over a year ago

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I don't know where to start but a year and 2 months ago I lost the love of my life. We broke up a few months before he passed away and saw each other once after we broke up. I never stopped loving him, I would be obsessed with reading his facebook, ...

What's the point in telling a guy you've fallen for him when you have no intention of taking things further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - Hi people, i'd just like to ask opinions on this matter. Basically I'm a 29 year old single male whose not going out of his way to look for a relationship, but open to one if the opportunity presents itself with a worthy candidate. A bit about my...

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend and I wish I wasn't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I need help or someone to talk to... I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend and I wish I wasn't. We've been broken up for 2 months but he is moving halfway across the country in a month, so we've been spending time with each other, acting li...

I'm worried that my Bf is getting tired of me. He's even said he does not feel he "needs" to see me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been really worried about my relationship lately, and really need some advice. I'm worried my boyfriend is getting tired of me, or if this is just normal for a relationship as it goes along? I don't know what to do. help please! I'll try...

Is her behavior normal? I feel like I'm being insensitive but at the same time I think she needs to help herself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - I guess I want to get people’s views on my breakup. I met this girl two weeks after a painful breakup. We connected and it just felt right, maybe all a bit too good. We dated for a while, and she told me she loved me after two weeks. She seem...

He dumped me at the club over the weekend after 5 months. Now he wants to be friends. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend, 27, dumped me outside a club at 4am at the weekend. He said although he really liked me, after 5 months dating had realised he did not love me. To begin with though he said ' I was such an idiot earlier... before saying this. He w...

What is the time frame in moving on from a broken heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - How long it takes to move on from a broken heart in a relationship when you plan to stay single for some time (atleast a year or more) . A relationship which wasn't always perfect but it had its good sides! and how to make it easy to move on?...

Why is it an ex always looks better after a break up than when you were together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - Why is it when you've broken up with a girl, when you next see them they always look better than they did before? It's strange, the girl I used to go out with she has always been beautiful, but I ran into yesterday for the first time in a while ...

Do you think she is avoiding me? It seems like a lot if effort and very silly in my opinion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - I ended things with a girl ages ago, it wasn't the best break up and I will be honest I didn't go about it the right way at all, I was kind of a coward and a careless asshole. But it has been well over a month since i have seen her, it's sad i ...

If I do well in my exams, will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My cousin proposed to me and i accepted. We didnt go for outings although we wanted because we cant make it. After 2 months he said that he wants me to concentrate in my exams. Its been a year that we had break up but i still cant forget him. He ...

My ex is going to marry my friend soon, and I always will wonder what if?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - Hey everybody! I'm a rookie on this site, and this will be my first time talking about this I don't want to waste anybody's time so I'm sorry for the long post and if you take the time to read it all the way through I greatly appreciate it! I'm ...

Did I over-react? I thought we had a connection. Maybe not? I feel he's messing with my mind!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hello I just wanted some views on my situation. I met a guy on holiday and we kept in touch. I went back to visit him and we spent lots of time together. I met his family and his friends again. When we were apart we always have arguments ov...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

Never violent, nor unfaithful. But we did horrible things to each other. Yet I love her still. How can I get over her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I was with the most amazing woman in the world! The time we spent together was the most amazing time I have spent with anyone. We got each other on every level. Mentally and physically! When things were good they were the best they have ever bee...

How do I let a friend know I don't want to date him without disclosing my relationship status which is changing soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my lovely boyfriend for a year and a half. We have had a great relationship but recently have seen him more like a best friend than boyfriend... I just don't fancy him any more, much as I care about him, and it's getting really ...

Advice needed regarding catching my girlfriend sexting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am a 36 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a lady whom I met online 6 months ago. We have become very close but last weekend I found text messages on her phone to at least 3 other men that were explicit in nature ( in both words and ...

Is my friend really okay with that she's not dating the guy she was with anymore, her actions speak far louder than the words she's telling all of us!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Is my friend really okay with that she's not dating the guy she was with anymore, her actions speak far louder than the words she's telling all of us!! She was seeing this guy for a few months, but he ended things with them so suddenly and in ...

My ex is threatening me by saying that unless I get back with him, he will assassinate my character and ruin me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - i am from India..i am in a major trouble. i broke up with my boyfriend because he was so manipulative and controlling. he made my life like hell.In the initial days of our relationship i gave him my gmail and facebook password.Not even in my dr...

Escape from this narcissistic lover

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - My lover is a Narcissist but perhaps this is it.. First off all I am going to post a link so you can see what has been happening http://www.dearcupid.org/question/jeky...

Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone? BACKGROUND: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for three years in university then broke up. Before we split up we never fought. We are both down-to-earth and had only dated one...

Any tips to help me get over this and move on? I am about to break up with him. He's happy I'm leaving. His teenage children rule the house. He refuses to back me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I won't make this too long but would really appreciate some of your views. My partner has asked me to move out of his house. We have been together 5 years and i moved in 3 1/2 years ago away from all my family and friends. He has 2 kids tha...

Married four years and she does not want to work. I'm ready to walk. What would you advise?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hi I have a question we been Married four years. Before that she was working. Now she feels she doesn't have to work. I talk to her about getting a job. She won’t do it, and I'm tired of doing it all. He is no help. Instead she wants me to do a lot...

What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything. When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends. He has been abusive to me an...

Got dumped by BBM and then he deleted me as a contact as soon as I read it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - If you are familiar with BBM you will know that someone knows when their message has been delivered and then eventually read. Today I got dumped by BBM and then as soon as he saw that I had read the message, he deleted me! What a coward!! Duh... I ...

I feel lost without my boyfriend and just want to contact him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (?) - My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, over the phone. It was a somewhat mutual breakup once I found out who he was. Our morals and lifestyles are far too different to make a serious relationship work (he is a serious partier, smoker and ...

Does she have the right to ignore me like we were strangers even though I pushed her away and ignored her because I was scared of a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - There was this girl who I had been seeing for quite a while, but I felt it was getting too serious for my liking, we were growing a lot closer far too quick and I knew it wasn't what I wanted. Because I'm not a relationship person, i'd be a terrible ...

This ex is stuck in my head and I'm afraid it's going to ruin my new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I am in such a mess. I was with a guy for a year and we had a great relationship then things came to an abrupt end, he was moving away with work and we mutually agreed it wouldn't work because of the distance. We agreed to remain friends but he said ...

Do I follow my dreams or swallow my pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I have a problem concerning my education and ex-girlfriend. A few months ago we broke up - knowing that we would see each other at our new school for a half-year semester. 3 weeks have passed at the school and it has been very problematic for...

I love him to no end, I would do or give anything for him, I can't move on but it's tearing me apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - 1 year and 9 months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he refused to speak to me afterward even though he said we could still be friends. although we never spoke i could never get over him and a year and 2 months after we broke up he started ...

Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do? I've been with my girlfriend for just over one year, and it's my first serious relationship that I've been in however I now need some advice. We're both from ...

Should I give up at the last hurdle of 5 year long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I have no idea what to do with myself. We live in different countries in Europe. When we first met nearly 6 years ago, he promised me [m24] he would be there with me after we finished university/college. At one point I just wanted to dump it all a...

He was excited about the pregnancy at first but now he has asked me to move out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi i am in a very hard situation at the minute, i was with a man i liked for years and he liked me. i think i may now be pregnant and i have told him this, he was really pleased at first as he has wanted a child. i have a 3 year old daughter who he ...

Sloppy seconds? Or does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Right here is a tricky situation, Me and my boyfriend split up due to me resenting him for something that he did at the start of our relationship. It led to me being resentful. I dumped him. Then this girl from work came on the scene, he had ta...

Boyfriend wants me to sell my house and move with him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my bf for nearly 4 years. Before i met him, i started building a house and after a few delays it was finished 2 years ago. I have lived there since but he has remained living at home. We are on the verge of breaking up beca...

My boyfriend has been nothing but a model b/f but I want to breakup with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I have been in a sort of long distance relationship with a someone for over 2 years now. (It's sort of long distance because we're near each other in the holidays but we go to different unis). Anyway he's this great guy, and my best friend, and ...

Why did he break up with me? I don't understand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Im in love with a guy who has all the character of being a flirty one. He always wanted to go out with me but it wouldnt work out. He ask about my likes and dislikes to my friend. After 3 months he said that lets break up. I asked him why he said ...

On off ex boyfriend won't stop contacting me even when I've told him to stop. There's another woman in the picture. What's he playing at?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - i was in a relationship with this guy. at first things were okay.. then we started having fights because of various reasons. i had also been talking to my ex - just talking btw... could that have also messed the situation up? ( because he kinda ...

We both broke up with our partners but I don't know where I stand with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hi please tell me what I should do I met this guy K recently and we had great chemistry. Unfortunately he is moving out of the country and we were both attached! We had a great few days together (no sex) but we felt the connection and talked a lot...

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer inte...

He didn't tell me I was his stop gap live in lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - We lived together for about 7 months. He had an old friend. He slept with her once, if he's not lying, and she got pregnant. Then she left to her country which is Russia. He's divorced 33 year old guy and he always wanted a baby but didnt grt one in ...

What can our recurring dreams mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and both us have been having reacquiring nightmares. His is that i leave him for someone else and mine is that i fall in a hole and he sees me fall and says he is going ot help me get out but ...

Caught fiancee cheating whilst I was pregnant now I am sleeping with his boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Me and my now EX fiance where dating for 1 and a half years and i became pregnant and we were excited but 6 months into my pregnancy i came home early from my part time job as i wasn't feeling to good so i come home and i hear him shouting out my ...

Move on, but how? Lingering in the past... Guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - hi I need help regarding my relationship. Just be fair and honest.. I had been in a relationship with a girl for over 3 years which ended recently but I still think of her. she was my first girlfriend n spending long time really made m...

Should I break up with him or find a way to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Hi!! My bf and I have had a lot of problems in the course of our relationship. He is 22 and I´m 20. We´ve been together for two years, and he has become overly controlling, he tries to control every second of my time, gets angry when I wear somethin...

I feel completely heartbroken, I'd accepted that we had broken up but to be lied to repeatedly just for sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - This all happened within the space of three weeks. So, basically I was in a relationship with this guy for just over two years, we both loved each other but obviously argued occasionally, as people do. One day, he calls me to have a chat, everythi...

I think my girlfriend is on the verge of breaking up with me. Help! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - help!!!!! My girlfriend and I are on the edge of a breakup... We’ve been dating a little over 2 years I think something happened in her life because her entire personality seems to have changed in the past month She went home for h...

Now my girlfriend wants to breakup, all because I looked at a girl's cleavage. Is she being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I glanced at a girl's cleavage. There was nothing sexual about it and I wasn't looking for anything. I don't know how to convince her that this isn't a big deal. Advice?...

My bf has big money issues and I wonder if I should just leave him in this mess he created

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. My bf is currently having big money issues and he's much to be blamed. He had taken an order for which he did not have sufficient capital to do the work. So he took a loan from the bank and borrowed money from family and friends. ...

First boyfriend. But it's not working. What's the best way to break up with a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 16, I've had a boyfriend for 3 months but I just feel like its not right anymore. How do I break up with him? Do I need to lead up to it- be offhand/busy if he wants to see me, not reply to texts properly etc so he knows...