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What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends

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Question - (29 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2013)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything.

When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends.

He has been abusive to me and then he talks about it to his friends.

He thinks I'm cheating on him. He has even been abusive to me in front of his new friends.

All this happened after we moved in together.

I've lost myself confidence in myself, when it comes to him because his friends know everything about our life and when I try to leave him he tells me that I'm destroying his life and he won't let me because he still loves me.

I just don't know what to do anymore, Please help!

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (30 January 2013):

Every time I touch the hot stove, it burns me. I tried yesterday and I got burned, and I tried again today and I got burned again! Each day, I awake and hope the stove will be different, but I just dont know what to do anymore!

Please help!

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A male reader, Hnk  United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2013):

Hnk  agony auntHi

Sorry to hear about your situation.

Well, first he is completely wrong to treat the way he does.

As a man, he doesn't thinkcyou are wise or maybe thinks he is the man n can make better decision. it might feel hard as he is Using you n giving no importance and not caring is enough to leave him.

he doesn't let you go maybe then you both have to sell house and split money or some other reasons??? think of them.

or maybe he doesn't know how to be a good boyfriend and is least bothered as he takes you for granted!

I hope the best for you

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