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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why do I feel so upset about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

29 February 2012 (?) - Me and this guy friend (at least i thought he was) were FWB for a while, which ended badly for me. I really did like him and i've never been into the whole FWB thing but i just went along with it. After a while i realised who he really was, which ...

He has issues with my past and we are apart, but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My ex and i have been having a rough situation. We was together for five months. We broke up n then get back together. We had an amazin relationship. But he has anger inside because of my past. I really do love him even though we bearly broke up ...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, ...

I was trying to be friends with my ex, then he started yelling at me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - So i was dating this guy and we dated for about 3 months then we broke up and we agreed to be "friends" as almost every couple do and then about 2 weeks ago he text-ed me saying shut up because i said hey sup then we went on and he just kept ...

I want to move on from the first man I was with, but I feel like I have no desire for anyone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - hii all i am gay and i was kinda relationship with a man but he was just sex freak.so, i just stopped srring him.and now the situation is that i am unable to forget him,i want him badly he was the first man of my life with whom i was having p...

Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence...

My friend and love interest is in an abusive relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - im a black 40 year old woman whose in love with my 41 year old best friend whose white we get alone great our time together is so deep she say she have feelins for me and she knows how i feel about her we been friends for about 5 months and i love ...

Still grieving over a failed relationship, how do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi! Any words of wisdom appreciated. I broke up with someone about 3 months ago. He was a friend and former housemate. We always seemed to be more than 'friends' but things were awkward as we lived with another guy who was his friend and who liked ...

I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...

We were having a normal conversation and I had a massive urge to tell him I wanted to break up! Has anyone else experienced this? Is this some kind of sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I am 3 years into a relationship with a guy that was, as I thought at first, the "one" but after the rosy glow of new love wore off there were disappointments and at this stage I love him dearly as a person but I don't think I can handle all the ...

I don't want sex anymore because we are not trying for a baby and I simply don't feel like it anymore, so should I end the relationship because this is not fair on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I met each other having both come out of long term relationships 3 years ago, him a marriage with 2 kids and me long term partner no children. We are both 40 years old now. We discussed having children about 1 year into the ...

My Girlfriend is a total nag! help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - My 55 year old girlfriend,who I live with, is a total bitch. She only wants sex 1 time every ten days where I want it every day. Next for 9 months she continuously nags me follows me and tells me to clean this clean that. It's annoying and it ...

What is wrong with my ex boyfriend? Does he have a split personality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I broke up with my exbf September last year because he said he just wanted to have fun with me and he didn't need serious relationship with me because he has too many girlfriends. Afterward, I dated a new guy, and now I have a new bf who really ...

How do I mend my broken heart? I've been having an affair with a married man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - how do i mend my broken heart? Im a married woman and i have been involved with a married man for the past 5 years, i fell deeply in love with him he said he loved me too. I helped him pay off bills and have been there as much as i could. He is a ...

Could fate bring us back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Do you honestly believe if two people are meant to be together that they will meet again? Because I made a stupid, stupid mistake! I'm not going to go into what happened. It was down to miscommunication and things being twisted and misconstrued. ...

I think I may be pregnant with my married FWB's baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone this isn't a relationship question but didn't know where else to ask I have recently three weeks ago finished with my fwb as I found out he was married with three kids now I think I am pregnant I keep on feeling sick and I'm really tired ...

My boyfriend wants a 10 month break....how do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first 4 years were long-distance. It was very hard, but we all got through it. We have been together when we were 19 years old and 18 years old. We are each other first love. We saved money du...

I really like this guy but he is a player. Should I walk away now before I get hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for around 4 months now. I know he is a player and just sees the whole thing as fun but i have fallen for him and i dont know whether i should talk to him about it or just leave and walk away? i really care for him but im ...

Would someone really hold back and push you away if they really did have feelings for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Would someone really hold back and push you away and say they don't want you if they really did have feelings for you? Like for example if they weren't ready for the relationship or whatever, even though they can have a relationship with others ...

How can I help my friend after her divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - My friend was married and now she has devorced her husband because the husband was cheating with her friend he got pregnant ,how should i help my friend to go through the devorce anger ,loss and loneliness ?...

He stood me up for no reason

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) - Me and this guy friend arranged to meet up this weekend; his idea actually. We do have a bit of a history. We've never dated but we did have a bit of casual "fun" when we were both single. I ended up developing feelings for him but I think that was ...

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myse...

How do I get over this breakup when I have such strong doubts that he has been flirting with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - it hurts me a lot that i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, because i ve loved him so much.. but i can't also live with a doubt because I think he flirts ...

My ex and I split 2 years ago. I've always loved her. Should I contact her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I split with my ex just over two years ago. I still think of her and I sent her a message just before xmas a couple of months back and she replied the same day telling me she wasn't so good and that she started a new job and didn't feel herself ...

He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my gran...

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...

I'm so angry after breakup with boyfriend and I'm worried about how its making me act/feel

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - My now ex boyfriend and I broke up because he was a compulsive liar.he had lots of warnings but inm the end he just couldn't change so I ended it. The problem I now have is my anger, I am furious with him for everything he put me through! For not ...

Broke it off with my LDR , but I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some help guys. I'm in a long distance relationship of 2 years. I live in Thailand but my bf lives in the US. We had a fight a couple days ago and he called me a bitch. my response was: your such a bad liar! I told him we shoul...

Torn between boyfriend and home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

My boyfriend is ignoring me, lately and I have no idea why! Any advice is appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Recently my boyfriend put me on ignore I have no real idea why, he then about a week later reached out via instant message and tried to talk to me by sharing a concern about his father's health and wanting to continue supporting my business ...

She is so confusing! What is she doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - Thanks to everyone who reads this. Basically, I was seeing a girl for a little bit and she ended up breaking contact with me after she said that she didn't want to see me again after not speaking to her on a night out with friends (she went with h...

Why did she break up with me? Was it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - Im a 16 and Febuary has been terrible. My team lost the superbowl, I got a ticket, I am jobless, my grades are dropping, drinking is becoming a part of my life, and on top of all that my girlfriend just dumped me. Her name's Caitlyn. Ive always ...

Should I take my ex back if she ever wants to come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - So me and my ex were together for 8 wonderful years. We started dating at 14 and ended at 22. We are also eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners. I always had my group of friends but she only ever wanted to be with me. She would ...

I knew he was a jerk before I met him but why does it hurt so much that he has moved on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I feel so insecure like never b4. Please help. Before I met this guy I was confident. I met him 2 years ago on a chatline. We instantly connected. It took us a while to finally meet n person because he was emotionally and verbal abusive to me. So I ...

Girlfriend has jealousy/insecurity issues as well as personal issues. I want out but am afraid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - I want to break up with my girlfriend of nearly three years. We live together with her parents, and we are supposed to move into a new place on Thursday. I am not happy in our relationship because she is jealous and spiteful of me. Whenever I ...

He's sleeping on my couch and wants me back, but I want him to leave because I cant take it anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I was 15 when I had my first child and 25 when I had my second and last. Shockingly enough (and I say 'shockingly' because I know how people are), they are both by the same father. However, we did not stay together throughout that ten year gap. We ...

Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything ...

Ex-boyfriend or ex-friend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend from two years ago used to be my best friend. All through my last relationship with someone else he was always there for me, we were inseperable and he was my best friend. After me and my last ex boyfriend broke up, me and the ...

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told ...

Should I tell him that I slept with someone else while we were broken up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hey so my boyfriend and I had been together for not even a month when he broke up with me. He had broken up with me in the spur of the moment because my friend had gotten mad at him for not giving me the attention a long distance relationship ...

Whatever happened to amicably breaking up??!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi guys. I have posted on here before recently. I have had a horrible time recently. Me and my bf broke up in December after I had a miscarriage in November. Basically he wasn’t really there for me and I was really going through it and I pretty much ...

He ended it because he couldnt cope with other men looking at me, and then in the 7 days we were apart he got a new girlfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Thanks in advance for any advice given! I am in a sad place right now and really could do with some opinions from a mans point of view and also a womans if you have been in the same situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago I was dating a guy...

Fiance called off our wedding and there was no warning! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Yesterday, my fiance called off our wedding. I never before believed the people who say 'It came totally out of the blue'. 'Surely', I used to think 'there must have been signs. Arguments, tensions, disagreements, pressure. Things that led ...

My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...

Should I break up with him on his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? A little background on me: I'm 16. I dated a really sweet guy for a year, then we broke up, I started dating my current boyfriend, who is also a very sweet guy. We've been dating for 10 months now. The...

He took his ex gf girlfriend back and will not speak to me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I'm so hurt right now. Im new here and was looking for some advice and someone to make me feel a little better too. Well ok so I was ''talking'' to this guy for about 3 months we wasn't serious but I like him so much. Well today I learned he took an ...

After 20 years, I am tired and leaning towards just getting the hell out of this relationship! Need advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hello People! I am having a small dilemma that I cannot talk to friends or family about due to the nature of this situation...so I am relying on unbiased strangers opinions. Here we go... I have been with my significant other for 20 years. ...

Should I ask my ex out on a date? I don't want to do it too early but don't want to wait till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - Ive been broken up with my ex gf for about a month and a half and i miss her so much. she was the one who ended it because she had a guy she met and i guess you can say she got a crush on him. this happened to me as well a few years ago but i never ...

Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...