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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

His anger problems are tearing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3 years collectively now. I've broken up with him before because of his uncontrolled anger problem. He gets angry at the smallest things and then I have to try and calm him down. Usually when he gets angry it ...

Your advice is needed. I don't know what to do for the best... for me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi, Thank you for reading my email. I hope it makes sense and you can help me. Ok so i have been in a relationship for around 3 years now, we were due to get a house but broke up last Monday. It was my own fault i suppose, my girlfriend had d...

How do I stay strong and have faith???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Well I've been going out with this guy for about a year, and we've just decided to split up because we both go to different schools and have hobbies and commitments inbetween and it's made it hard for us to be together and to be a proper couple as ...

I'm really angry right now. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm a bit angry right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend. Reason being that he had trust issues with me and my past, for the record in the past I wasn't a slut (although he thinks I was) and well, I gave oral sex to a guy we both know (I stopped ...

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and ...

Is she afraid, I'll move away when I'm done college? advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - I am totally lost with this at the moment. I'm 22 and talking to a girl that is 18. She is a senior in high school and I am in college. We have been on quite a few dates and things are going really well between us. She just got out of a bad ...

Broke up with my ex and he says he still loves me, but how can he if he isnt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex slpit 5 months ago. he admitted he had feelings for someone else so we broke up. We had been together a year. Shortly after that he got together with this girl and they're still together now. Thing is, we've pretty much spoken every day ...

I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and ...

How do I cope when I see history repeating itself ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Oh my god, this is so petty, but I'm reliving memories I just don't want to relive at all!!!! A few years ago, my boyfriend and I partially broke up because he met this girl who got to a part of his soul. It wasn't the only reason, but she ...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

I want her but she has a bf! Any advice on how to make her mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Never really knew what I wanted in a Girl, but now i do. The only thing is she already has a boyfriend. Another thing to add is she already knows i like her. Im in desperate need of help and any advice on how to make her mine. Any tips?...

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...

He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he ...

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of ...

Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and ...

Is there any way to keep out best friend relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ohkay,(this is long) well ive liked this guy alooooot since 4th grade(now in 7th). He like use to hate me but over the summer we texted and on my space my mood was "ilikehim" like most girls do, he messaged me and was all like please tell me, i wont ...

Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, ...

Telling my bf I am not in love with him anymore will devastate him...how do I break the news?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - i am realli confused! i have been dating the same man for four and a half years now. i love him to bits and do not like hurting him i feel that i am not in love with him anymore, because there is a difference between loving someone and bein...

What option do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he ...

Bf wants a break, because I can't stay at his house overnight. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, my mother really doesnt like him and never really has so, he doesn't stay nights at my house and because she's so controlling I can't stay out of her house all nite. He's been asking me to stay alot lately ...

I'm embarrased that I got drunk and texted my ex to tell him I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - so i drank alittle more than im used to and i just decided on the spot to send a text to my ex. I know very dumb especially since the message started off saying i love uu lol. I really felt like saying it to him randomly and i know right now he's ...

Does he regret dumping me now Ihave a modelling contract, or does he really hate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I've just been dumped by a Pakistani boy who I've been with on and off for about a year. He's tried to dump me a few times before, but he'd always come back to me. Anyway he told me he'd met someone else and he wanted to be with her, so he dum...

My sister sent a naked picture to my boyfriend! Yet I am made to feel the bad guy for finding out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up over 3 months ago. It all started when he lied to me about being out. After that when I had the gut feeling to check up on him I did. First, I found a message to another girl that asked if he could see her before I got to his ...

I'm in serious need of purging my 'issues' and pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I'm in serious need of purging my 'issues' and pain right now, and I need to work them out somehow. But I'm afraid to see a counselor again because I sometimes think if I've waited too long to deal with something directly (in this case a very bad ...

I love this girl with my whole heart how can I rekindle those flames of love with in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok here is the deal. I got into an online relationship with this most WONDERFUL girl in my life. I went and saw her for about 3 weeks, but I had issues with giving her the right attention. So I decided to make a change. Months later she came to see ...

My ex just wont take a hint!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Well, i broke up with this guy because i didnt like him as much any more(actually he got boring lol) but he still thinks i like him and like stares, flirts, and talks about these weird subjects with me. its so annoying! at my school dance he came up ...

We were dating, he was a sweetheart, we slept together and he went cold!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was dating a guy for a little while, things were going great then all of a sudden he went really cold - the day after the first time we slept together. I questioned what was up and he said he didn't feel ready for a relationship...His ex of 9 ...

We had a casual fling, he wanted more, I didn't. Now I want more but he has someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I had a casual relationship with someone but he said he wanted a girlfriend which i wasnt ready for i hoped he would wait for me.He then started seeing other women and we argued.We havnt seen each other since, but i cant stop thinking about him,i ...

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I sai...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

Can you please tell whether or not I should go back to ex-boyfriend? or should I get married and be together with my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - what can i do to forget my ex-boyfriend? we had been together about 5 years,i still love him so much, i'm sure that he loves me too, but it's just that i can't live together with him becuase he is a hot-temper person to deal with sometime. i asked ...

Please help me get my girlfriend/solemate back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I am a 30 year old guy living in Manchester, UK who as recently split up with he’s 25 year old girlfriend (she left me on dec 18th 2009 and its now jan 29th 2010) after our lives were shattered by the lack of money due to our dependence on cannabis ...

Do you think he was just trying to hurt me because I hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys.. I really need your help. Me and my ex recently started seeing each other again, his idea, and we met a couple of times and had a really nice time and we kissed and he told me he loved me etc. But over the past week, he hasn't really ...

Preganant and single. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im about 2 months pregnant. My boyfriend n i were going through some hard times. He would disappear at random hours of the day, he didnt wanna hold my hand when we were out n public, So i started getting a lil suspicious. I questioned him to see w...

Why is he saying these things when we split up 2 months ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - my ex woke me up with an early morning text, and i was totally taken back since i thought he decided to disappear and forget me. his message was asking me whats this all about? the silence . i replied back that i was confused, one minute we talk ...

How do I find the courage to dump someone I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - How do I find the courage to dump someone I love. I am weak, I cannot find the words nor the ability to end it. My girlfriend is emotionally abusive, and I was raised by a father who was too. I am stuck, caring about her, I have tried to break up ...

How do I cope with my husband leaving me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - my husband and me where in phase of separation to live with my inlaws as i never wanted to live but we were living ith them since 6 months, so no tuning with them and so even me and my husband's life also started getting miserable. initia...

What is the best way to revenge on an ex that has treated you so badly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - What is the best revenge I could give my ex. For 3 years, he has treated me badly, dumped me, cheated and come back, I forgive him, still treat him so nice and he turns around, humilate me and treat me bad. What could be the best revenge I could do ...

Seeing him so content with his wife and kids hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do and really need advice.. my life is a mess. I have grown up as an only child and never had a perfect relationship with my parents. When i was 16 i coincidently began speaking to someone id seen around my area, because he used ...

My ex bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he didn't love me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, and sees our kids maybe every 4 to 8 wks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - What if 3 kids are involved? And the ex has cut them off financially and emotionally as well? That's what my ex did, bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he loved me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, sees our kids...

Should I let things settle and just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've dated bf for 7 years now. I've always had hope in him because after 4 months of dating, I wanted him to be my future husband. After 4 years of solid dating, I started to change my mind/heart. I started to feel that the grass might be greener on ...

How do I fix my self esteem after dumping a narcissist partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - i have broken free of a narcissist after 4yrs. i know i must stay positive, use my exercise equipment, spend time with my grandchild,do some voluntary work, take up a hobby , go for a swim,but my self esteem is in the gutter, i have no motivation ...

Why do some people in our lives persistently show up in dreams, while others do not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Why do some people in our lives persistently show up in dreams, while others do not? For instance, there is an ex boyfriend who I haven't seen or talked to in almost six years and I haven't thought much about him or dreamt about him really at al...

I'm scared of being on my own. Any Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I think my relationships coming to an end, ive been with her 2 years,and before that was with a girl for 3 years, ive not really been single since i was a teenager and im pretty scared of being on my own now due to this. any advice? ...

Will he leave me when he looses weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Ive a bf who is overweight. He is planning to have a surgery but Iam little bit worried because he may cheat on me after surgery. Cause Iam thinking that oh nowhe is overweight and he thinks no girl looks at her thats why he is really into me and ...

He says he feels trapped, should I give him an untimatum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - six years ago i caught my fella with another woman this wasnt the first time and i threw him out. i took him back on the understanding that we went out as a couple and he could go to the local occasionaly. recently hes been going nightclubbing with ...

Can dreams predict the future? Am I freaking out over nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if this post has anything to do with a relationship, but I really could use some help. I had a really weird dream last night, and I'm not sure what it meant. I'd like to hear from anyone who knows about dream analysis. I...

Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I just CANNOT forget my ex, we broke up a few days ago. Even though we fought a lot, when we didn't it was perfect! Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex. I love him to pieces, I sometimes wish I could just call him like old ...

Help! In love and confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I have broken up about 5 months ago. But during the beginning that time, we've been flirting and said I miss you, sweetie and stuff, but never seemed to have gotten back together. We talk constantly nonstop nowadays! Well ...

She's replying to my texts a day later... is there still a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I need help...and I hope you can help me! It is a bit long winded but I'll try and keep it short. In early Nov 2009 me and my then girlfriend of 3 years split up, well I guess you could say I left her! The reason for the split is as follows - ea...