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writes:Im about 2 months pregnant. My boyfriend n i were going through some hard times. He would disappear at random hours of the day, he didnt wanna hold my hand when we were out n public,So i started getting a lil suspicious. I questioned him to see where his heart really is but he would always say that he loves me but he jus needs to hang out wit his friends more. Things started getting worse when i went through his phone n seen he had been making recent calls to alot of girls. To make a long story short, we had a big fight n he ended up breaking up wit me, blaming me for everything(displacement of guilt). Now, im pregnant n single. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 You dont say if you are still at school or working. You need to speak to your parents as you are going to need support if you are going to keep the baby.
Forget the bf as he sounds like a real jerk. If you decide to keep the baby, he must be made responsible for his actions and contribute towards the upkeep of the baby.
If you decide that you dont want the baby, please consider adoption rather than abortion.. with adoption you at least make a childless couple very happy!
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reader, studentnurse +, writes (29 January 2010):
Hold your head up hi honey. Your a strong woman, you can do anything. Being pregnant and single is gonna be hard, but you can do it. Make that man realize you don't need him in your life, he was a choice, not a need to you. If he wants something to do with his baby, thats great, if not, then that shows how much of a man he really is. My cousin raised two childern on her own and she did great, so I know you can too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): I am sorry for what is happening to you. He does not deserve you! You are really better off without him...But now that you are pregnant, you will have to make some very hard decisions about your future. To keep the baby or not. I see that you are very young. Can you really take care of the baby by yourself? Can he as the father be there for you and baby? Are you studying or do you have a job etc? Its a huge responsibility, so don't take it lightly. This decision will change your life forever.Well if I were you and had just been dumped by a guy like him, I would immediately go get an abortion. I don't believe in bringing a baby into this world when you are not ready for them emotionally, financially.... being single and young, it can be very hard. But this would be my choice.I know people have all sort of opinionson the subject. But its a woman's choice... Having abortion is not easy, it can be very devastating emotionally. So I would suggest for you to seek help, a counsellor maybe and take action immediately. If you want an abortion you have to do it very soon. Dont delay.take care
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