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41-50,
*mile1234
writes:my husband and me where in phase of separation to live with my inlaws as i never wanted to live but we were living ith them since 6 months, so no tuning with them and so even me and my husband's life also started getting miserable.initially he started giving all comforts to be out of their range untill we get a house and all of a sudden his aunts and uncle including parents did what i cant understand...as i was out on job and his job is nearby house.he left me saying that he will comeback after few days as he need break and time to think that wht all he was doing with his parents was wrong...he wanted me to aplogize and i did on phone.he says he has gone to out station but he returns home when i leave for my job....now when he came back i asked him these question and he gets uncomfortable but loves me immensely i can see that.i decided to stay with him and hi parents and take good care off all of them even if thy misbehaved with me.though now thy are not misbehaving .my problem is i am not able to cope up that why my husband who cnt even live without talkin to me for an hour left me ..there ws no body to take care of me all this while the way he took care of me....i need strength to cope up and be confident in life again....m shattered that why he did it to me in this love marriage which wasa mutual consent of each other he could have talked to me about how he was feeling...running was no solution. Reply to this Question
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reader, Evans  +, writes (29 January 2010):
It's hard to be in a period of separation. It often coupled with a ripping sensation but at the end of the day you might find that it was the best thing for both of you. I can see you are still young and can make a new start. I would suggest to move out of the place which often brings memories of him. Sooner or later, you will be ok.
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