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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ...

Should I send my daughtersto stay with my ex's sister? Teenage daughters need a woman to look after them and I'm physically disabled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - i asked something here a couple of days ago and got some good advice so i thought i'd ask again, following something my collegues said to me... my fiancee left me for her boyfriend like 2 days ago now and she's basically told me to take the kids and ...

Has anyone had a rebound, realized their ex was who they want, and got back with them and it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Anybody went into a rebound relationship and realized their ex was who they really wanted and gone back to them and had it work??...

I regret splitting with him. He isn't into me anymore. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago; and at the time i was fine and really was glad to be out of the relationship. I was being bullied at school at the time and was in the middle of my exams - 'we're both 17'. he was mean to me a...

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

I loved him, but he's moved on. How can I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I am heartbroken at the moment, the boy that i loved has moved on and found someone else i dont know how to deal with it. We broke up a while ago but i always believed deep down that we'd find our way back to each other.I think its my ...

I used to be very aggresive and made many mistakes to my ex. Now I want her back, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid....I'm dyin'...i still love my ex-girlfriend...but unfortunately she doesn't love me anymore...i made a lot of mistakes to her,i used to be very agressive..but now without her...i want to be with her...i miss her..What should i do?...

We broke up! He said he got another girl pregnant but I think he's lying..advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - ok you kno what happend? okay im really angry! He broke up with me..I WANT 2 get over him!!!! ASAP!! he told me that he got another girl pregnate! but i thnk he is lying to make me feel bad..i kno that there is other guys in the world who will love ...

I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...

It kills me that I might lose her to another guy..how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I was dating a girl for 3 years, from my sophomore to senior year in highschool. She was my first "real" girlfriend, and i was her frist everything pretty much. There were a lot of times through our relationship that I didn't feel like it was ...

Will it hurt my boys not to have a male influence in their lives?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Curiosity question here. I am currently separated from my husband and seriously considering divorce. Of course at this time in my life I feel like I don't ever want another man in for life for as long as I live. Every experience I've EVER had ...

Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling ...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

He didn't explain what was going on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 21, female and I met a guy a few months ago at work. I asked him to go out and we went out a few times. We went for drinks at the bar. But he always waited for me to ask him to do things. After a while he seemed more interested and started ...

I've only ever had one relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Very trivial, but I hate how long it's been since I last had sex. It's been.. Almost 5 months. I've only ever had one relationship, and it lasted about a year and a half. I still have a lot of feelings for my ex (and PLEASE don't just assume that...

What could he want after all this time???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I have this ex-boyfriend who is bothering me at the moment. We parted company 4 years ago after dating for a couple of months. I thought we got on great but he just disappeared unexpectedly without indicating that he wanted to split up and after ...

My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up ...

We're on break, but he's still excited to go apartment searching for US! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So i tried to talk to my boyfriend last night, to have that neutral conversation. So that way he can tell me how he feels annd how i feel. IT backfired! He can never tell me hows hes feeling really. This is what i got from hhim: "I feel rushed with ...

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

I told my FWB that I'm being tested for cancer and he left! Just how shallow is a FWB situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Here's one for you women in friends with benefits situations - Guys just how shallow is a FWB situation? I recently told my "good friend" of 9 months that I had to be tested for cancer and he emailed me that it was a good time for him to disappear...

I was pushed into dating her and want to break up! How can I do that - I'm shy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Well I have been dating this girl who i think is cool for a few days now but i like her friends but i like her to but not like that i was kind of pushed into answering and i dont really know how to break up with her as im shy....

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't ...

I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship. We got on quite well, but now he's ignoring me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Guys feel free to give me your opinion..please! I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship, we really liked eachother and met up a few times. He text me all the time, called late at night, always wanted to hug me/ see me and ...

Is "living together for the kids" possible... ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i have been going through a really difficult time with my husband and have tried everything to sort it out and have come to the conclusion that there is no point on trying anymore.the dilema is neither of us can afford to move out does anyone think ...

In a new relationship, but still horribly in love with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and ...

Still have feelings for my ex... Was it best that we remained friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him ...

I'm worried she wont want me back, because she has many male friends! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have split up we have been together 2 years and 8 months i have been very jealous in the past because she met this guy on the internet who has told her he loves her, she insists she doesnt feel the same and is just a friend i am ...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has ...

I told her to move out, but now I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Never been on a site like this but here goes: My girl and I had been dating for almost three years. We now have a 14-month old child together and up until a few months ago the relationship seemed perfect. Then the cracks started to show and she got ...

It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves th...

My fiance visits sites like this and says she wants to leave me for her lover! I'm disabled, but do what I can - what else can I do to be a better partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - through it being a shared comupter and my fiancee not deleting her history as she usually does. ive found shes visited a lot of sites like this one and talked about leaving me for her lover. i dont want to lose her. im disabled- i can walk slightly ...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is ...

I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what shou...

He wasn't always a horrible boyfriend, so how can I forget the good times?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - hi, i just split up with my boyfriend because i have had enough. he cheats on me, he spits at me, he punches me, he tells me im the ugliest person he's ever seen and if i made him really mad he would rape me. the relationship is completely 150% ...

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our r...

I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some ...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...

I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got...

I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returnin...

I feel I have to choose between my daughters happiness or my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello... I have been with my partner for almost 4 years...we have a 2 year old daughter together. In August 2006 my partner, his friend Paul and I went out for the night clubbing in Bournemouth. The drinks were flowing and by the end of the night...

She said the love has faded and she wanted more space...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi I'm 20 and I have just came out of a 7 month relationship. my gf is going to uni this sept is on a gap year. she said that she doestnt love me anymore and that the love has faded. she said problems in the relationship came to a head when we ...

He turned 40, became obsessed with going to the gym then left me for another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i was with my partner of 15 years,for ten years of the relationship we spent most of our time together and went everywhere together.then when he hit 40 he changed and started looking in the mirror all the time going to the gym and it all became a ...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

I was thinking of explaining why we need to separate in a letter - is that a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm the original poster of the question about my emotional boyfriend going too fast and that I need to end it. Many seemed confused or to read between the lines and I just wanted to make a few things clear. He isn't a psycho, but perhaps a little n...

Is he in love with the idea of not being alone or really wants to get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I need help desperately. I am incredibly confused and in dyer need of some input/opinions. I have asked a grand total of two questions before. First one concerning my boyfriends habits and me being a mother, and the second being once again about his ...

Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Is it emotional abuse? My fiance and I always argue, and last night I just had enough. The problem is I live with him, and where Im from is far away. Anyways, I was just wondering if breaking up with him is the right thing to do. It feels like ...