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writes:Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago; and at the time i was fine and really was glad to be out of the relationship. I was being bullied at school at the time and was in the middle of my exams - 'we're both 17'. he was mean to me and made me upset (he said he couldnt stand me, and that i was a silly girl and he told me on some occasions that i was fat - which certainly isnt true (im only 8 stone and medium height), he told me that i shouldn't wear this dress i liked to a party because apparently my tummy stuck out a tiny bit in it. I really didnt mind splitting up with him because of this. Recently though, we were talking again and he said that he had been really really upset when i split up with him; and he said that he hinted that he still had feelings for me. The problem is that im quite lonely as all my friends have moved away to university and i was feeling a bit down. So i talked to him again, telling him i still liked him and he said 'oh i really don't like you any more, ur ok as a person'. and when i asked he said that there was someone else. I don't understand what his motive is for saying one thing and feeling the other - i felt almost like he led me on saying that he still had feelings for me. I acted like a fool and really embarrassed myself and got all upset talking to him. and whats more, why is this hurting me now? after all this time?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (1 October 2007):
Forget him and move on to a nicer guy.
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reader, GS +, writes (30 September 2007):
sounds to me that your ex boyfriend reli cant make up his mind about what he wants and he keeps changein his mind.
Maybe you got upset cus u might be quite sensitive and u do reli like him.
I think by the sounds of it he didnt treat you like he should of when u wer together and he seems quite immature cus the way he treated you and plus hes sendin you mixed messages its just gunna make you confused and even more lonely if you chase this boy
i think you should just try to forget about him and dont let it get you down cus hes really not worth it. if he does relise he likes you he'l be the one to chase you and try to get you back so dont worry about him and dont show him that it has upset you
good luck X
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