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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some issues from the past but I'm since going to counselling to help. I miss him so much, I'm trying not to contact him so I can sort myself out but I wish he would give me a chance, I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 there is no way to solve for that. the key to solve ur problem u must smoothly talk again and show him that u change the bad things attitude that make him up set tell him that give u a chance to prove that u realized how much u need him and love him. i just hope that he has soft heart and let u in again to his life. Goddluck!!!
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reader, penta  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 Does he know you're in counseling? If not, you should tell him. Let him know what you're learning there. Then ask him if his "had enough" means for now, or for ever. He did say that he wishes things were different, and you are working on them.
If he responds that he means "for now" then you have a chance. Ask if you and he can check in periodically, maybe date occasionally, so that you can see.
If he says "for ever" then you have to respect it. Work with your counselor on moving on. That way when you meet the new guy you won't have the same issues.
Good luck.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 he obviously doesn't want to be with you and you need to move on because the longer you believe you will get back together, the worse it'll be.
he has not given you false hope by telling you it's all going to be okay and you'll be toghether forever, he has been honest and told you that although he loves you, you're not going to work.
i'm sorry it's so difficult to accept but in time you will get used to it and it is for the best.
take care.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (26 September 2007):
Contact him regularly unless he tells you not to. You did this so you must risk the consequences.
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