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writes:I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and move on and i feel really out of order on my boyfriend. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): I know how you feel i am in the same situation! I am with a guy whos incredible and i couldn't be without him. He's perfect. My previous relationship ended suddenly and i got no closure and it broke my heart. i love my boyfriend but i have thoughts of my ex lots and i feel really guilty for having these feelings because my boyfriend is the sweetest guy i have ever met =/
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reader, rcn  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 You sound like you're out of order. We associate what's common to us with how we spent it. You're associating activities with your ex, because that's someone you enjoyed them with.
It's very important to complete the healing process, before beginning a new relationship. It's not fair to him to judge your relationship with him on the ones in the past. He's an individual and this relationship should be treated as he is one.
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reader, lisa21 +, writes (28 September 2007):
it sounds as if you have picked your current boyfriend because he is like your ex and that's really not fair on him, it's also no good for you, you should not be with anyone until your feelings for your ex have gone, how do you expect to get over your past if your boyfriend is like your ex? no wonder you aint getting over him.
also i think you need to think about how you would feel if the boot was on the other foot, i would'nt like it. x x x
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