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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How can one suddenly stop feeling the love overnight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - hi, my girlfriend broke up with me last night. i was devastated. she said she see's me more of a best friend rather than a boyfriend. again, this breaks my heart.i can't bare life without her, i love her so much..i cant even describe how muc...

I caught him cheating and now I found out he married the 'other woman'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to ...

Is a fear of change normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Hey everyone, Ok, I split up with my partner as we simply fell out of love with each other, we argued and we also didn't make an effort to keep our relationship alive. As a result I am moving out of our shared home (rented) to start a new lif...

Should I surprise him by booting him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - is this mean.. my boyfriends at work and i want to move him out..i will rent apartment, put his things in there and leave it at that..tonight i want to take my keys off his key ring, take my car key off his ring and put a note on door when he comes...

How do I break up and survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - hi, I hate to be alone and i hate to hurt peoples feelings to the point i make my life a living hell in relationships. I stay and take all the crap giving to me and when its plain to see that ive took to much, my boyfriend is nice for a while.. ...

Am I paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we hav split up a few times because he lies about the girls he has been with when we have been on a brake, i make sure that im completely honest with him as i no the truth always comes out.We are ...

Is it normal to feel so lost after breaking up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - OK, last night I broke up with my bf of 4.5 yrs, we have'nt really been happy for the last yr or so as we lost our spark and both of us did nothing to help our relationship until it was too late. Last night, I sat him down and told him we are ...

Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My ex and I were together for over a year before he had to move back home for work. We were so in love and very happy. I knew though that him and hie ex were still in contact over the phone but thought nothing of it as I tried to deal with the fact ...

She's really upset, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help...

Should I move on, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im ...

Dating question.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - is it ok for a guy who just turned 16 to date a 13 year old. hes in 10th grade and shes in 8th?...

Does he know his own mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend left me then wanted to change his mind and come back. The question is how can you change your mind, surely thats fixed, and only another person can change it. I say he doesn't know is own mind. Who is right. Thanx...

How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hii, iam sarah, well i just broke up with my fiancie from about 3 months and i still love him and iam trying to get him back but the problem i feel iam not doing well in this, i really need a way to get him back becoz i cant stop thinking about him ...

Do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone I really like because he wasn't sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wonderin...

I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also ha...

I need some tips on how to get over this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6232 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - i met my ex about 2 months before we started dating. we hardly ever talked, and he was with one of my friends anyways. we hooked up over the summer, and dated for about a month. it was a fantastic relationship, and i thought we were doing really ...

Tips on just how to move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

Breaking up, best friends, a teacher that hate me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My boy friend just broke up with me and I don't why. Everybody told me that I still have fellings for him and one person told me that I was smothering him, but I never hang around him! I also have another inquiry about my best guy friend. I just g...

Why do I keep getting in relationships where the woman breaks up and returns later for a new start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Why do I keep getting in relationships where the woman finishes with me then comes back later to start up again? My last three relationships have been like this. It drive me crazy and does my head in. Thanx...

Is it best to stay in touch with an ex or break contact totally??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Do you think it's best to keep in touch with an ex in a recently broken relationship? I wrote a lengthy post a short while ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-are-doomed-to-be-better-if-we.html) Should I be keeping in touch with my ex, send...

I still love her and she still loves me...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Well, as I feared, she broke up with me. She "Could not do this anymore.". She insured that it was nothing I did, she was "having emotional problems and was in a bad place" as she put it. She does not know if we can be together in the future, ...

Why am I tormented by visions of my ex doing things with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - A few months ago, my girlfriend split with me because she was going to university far from me. And now, I keep envisioning her making out and having Sex with other guys. I am the only guy she has ever slept with, as she's never been in a long term ...

My ex wants to come over for Halloween.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I'm in desperate need of advice! My ex, we still talk a little. He's in a class with me, so it's kind of hard to avoid him. While we were dating I told him about how my family likes to do a lot of decorations for Halloween. Well, he wants to come by ...

Help!!! How do I get a second chance at love with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My ex and I broke up at the beginning of the summer. He initiated it, saying he wasn't ready and just couldn't do it. I was heartbroken (and still am). Truthfully, we both made mistakes leading to the break-up. He was emotionally closed off and that ...

Should I give up all together, or take a very long break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - hey people i have been badly hurt from mostly all of my relationships and well now i'm wondering if i should just give up altogether or take a very very long break because i'm just to scared to let another man into my life. plus know i keep getting ...

Caught in a Love Triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i met 2 guys in the same week , didnt mean to , i really liked both , then one wanted to be more serious and become a couple , so i had choose so choose him , just before this , i didnt tell the other guy about him , i just kept him sweet , but we ...

How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I was 17 when I fell in love for the first time. I know people will read this and think that 17 is too young to be in love but I'm 23 now and I know without a doubt that there was love between us and I've never been able to recreate those feelings. ...

I still love my "sort of" current boyfriend, but I'm not sure if our time is over... I'm so ashamed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have a question I feel very ashamed about. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted over a couple years. We've been through a lot together, including almost breaking up several times, and breaking up once that lasted a week - overall ...

I hid my son from him, and when he found out he treated me badly and was uncompassionate towards me. How could he??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi I was seeing this guy for over 2 a months.He was saying how I was the girl for him and how much he realy liked me.There was something I kept from him and that was that I had a son. I was quiet lonely before I met him and I wanted the feeling ...

Does he love me, or does he just have separation anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone a...

How can they make you fall in love, break up and pretend they never cared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Man! i keep thinking about this guy...i cant get over him..we went out for nine months and then he started changing..he was treating me like crap and putting no effort into the relationship...we eventually broke up im ajunior in high school n we go ...

How do I get over my high school boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Well im in high school..and i am well aware that high school relationships dont last but you see this guy was different..we dated 4 nine months and at first he reallly showed me he loved me..then he just stopped. he was always chossing his freinds ...

I'm pregnant but he thinks I'm kidding!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a month. we got on really well at first and i practically moved in. after a while he saw and contacted me less and we broke up. but i missed my perod, took a test and it was positive.i tried to get in contact with ...

My girl is acting weird. Does she want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - My girl is acting funny. Last night on the phone I tried to fix our relationship problem, but she said she was "too tired" to keep talking. I called her back shortly after words, because my mom unplugged the phone because we went over the hour time ...

I desperately want her back - what do I need to do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hi, my gf decided to end our 4 yr relationship about 5 weeks ago. it was a complete shock for me. things were not going that well for past month or so. but then she was acting normal before the break up. i wanted to spend weekend with her to get t...

He's left me in the lurch - what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend friends convinced him that i've been cheating on him he has been suspicious ever since and accused me of many things that I wasn't doing at all. i never cheated on my boyfriend but he doesn't belive me. i'm now 7 weeks pregnant he left ...

Suggestions: What would you do with your ex’s stuff? (in order to let go)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - After asking for answer and help on a few websites. I reach the conclusion that I have to ditch all my ex’s stuff in order to let go. Also, not to mention my father is coming to London to stay with me. I don’t want my dad seeing all the men stuf...

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...

Sometimes it seems she likes me, other times she says we're friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6234 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - I have been in love with this girl for 8 years. I didnt do anything for the first 4 years becoz we are friends. I told her i like her 4 years ago. she wanted to 'give it a try'. Before we could go on a date she 'broke up' with me. She then had ...

How to stop missing him so much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I went up to visit my Mom and a guy I liked this summer, we ended up getting extremly close and going out. He asked me to marry him, I said yes. We are quite young but we have also known each other our entire lives and I couldn't be happier with ...

I'm confused and very angry.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (M) - Hello I don't know if you can help but this is driving me mad. I was married and wife had affair so i divorced her. I'm 38 and met a woman online over two years ago. We chatted for around 4 month. Being totally upfront and honest about our pas...

Me and him have something going and my friend wants him back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...

Do I need to stop this affair, how can I when I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - How can I stop this affair. Im so confused I've been having on off fling with a lad who is also my best friend, I'm in love with him. This would be great and would work perfectualy except he has a gorlfriend who I persuaded him to ask out around 2 ...

Is nsa sex ok with my friend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...

Can I cope with being a single parent in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I am about to leave a relationship that I have been in for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son. After years of trying I have realised that I am 100% not happy and really just want to move on. Of course I want to also ensure my son is happy too and ...

How do I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do...

My daughter's father came back, I don't agree with him signing back for parental rights - which he voluntarily gave up and now blames me for - so he doesn't want to talk anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I don't know what to say but I still love my daughter's dad despite the horrible things he's done and said to me. I left him because of his lies, cheating...but I still love him. I moved on with my life and then he decides he wants to come ba...

Is he giving me space or ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago now. It's his 21st birthday in 2 days and I feel like I have to acknowledge him in some way, but don't want to look desparate. We'd been going out for 2 years, and were friends before that. He'd ...

When can I expect the pain to subside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6234 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My ex is an alcoholic and on steroids. His behaviour and attitude have changed dramatically in the past two months, and as such (through self preservation) I've had to leave him. Has anyone else had problems with the love of their life being...

Fear Of The Unknown

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - "You never realize what you have until its gone" Such a powerful quote, for people who have experienced this type of loss. Think about it, having something so good that you cant even appreciate it until its no longer there. Dont you think that is ...