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female
age
41-50,
*aymay
writes:i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to it. for the remaining 7 weeks i never heard from the lady again. and i barred from boyfriend from staying out. he was redundant at the time so where ever he went i went, and i know he definately wasnt communicating with her because we were together all the time and i monitered him. he became extra sweet and rather tolerant of me, i felt and now looking back on it. when i returned to london i talked with him and he was responsive etc. since then he's been rather elusive. then i heard just yesterday and its been confirmed that he's married this exact lady. was i a fool in thinking that he had gotten rid of her? i feel very deceived and a fool. pls what do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): You have been deceived but I think this guy simply didn't know how to be brave enough to tell you the truth. It was pretty easy for him to cheat on you whilst being so far away. You need to move on from this hurt and remember not to distrust your next guy just because that one cheated. Don't let him ruin another potentially good relationship. To be honest it sounds like your guy was always going to cheat - better you found out before any major commitment on your part. Seeing it positively you have a chance for a better relationship with someone new - and certainly deserve it.
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