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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Why do I keep getting in relationships where the woman finishes with me then comes back later to start up again?My last three relationships have been like this.It drive me crazy and does my head in.Thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, Sassister  +, writes (30 October 2007):
Sometimes ambivalence is catchy. Are you putting out mixed signals to them too?
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reader, alice pine +, writes (29 October 2007):
ok i do this to my man all the time. and i love him for puttin up wit a crazy bia!! but the reason i do it is cuz i realize watev happened isn't worth it. but thats wit one dude, three diff ladies have done this? think about why they left you. were they reasonable break ups or her over reactin? maybe you're attracted to girls who fall easily. does it make you feel good about yourself when they come back? not bein rude so please don't think that. its either a weird coincidence or summin that attracts you to them being needy. guys do like knowing that their woman needs them, but it's not like you can predict they'll come back. If you're tired of this lifestyle try lookion for more independent women. they're less likely to leave than a needy woman is. someone who's been through rough times and knows how to hold her own. GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): i believe it may be down to you and your insecurities,have you had any contact after your split,have you had sex with them,letting them know in a way your still interested?if you really dont want this happening,stay away,no contact what so ever,you have to be strong if you want change
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