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anonymous
writes: Man! i keep thinking about this guy...i cant get over him..we went out for nine months and then he started changing..he was treating me like crap and putting no effort into the relationship...we eventually broke upim ajunior in high school n we go to the same school...the day after we broke up i was a wreck n tried not to show it..he on the otherhand was fine ABSOLUTLY FINE..HE WAS GOING ABOUT HIS DAY AS IF HE WAS NEVER IN LOVE...it bothers the heck outta me..n people keep talkin gto him about me n he gets annoyed..if they ask him if he was in love he says its personal and doesnt answer...homecoming was about 2 weeks after we broke up..i danced with lie 3 guys infront of him..i saw him looking but he acted as if he didnt care..we didnt even say hi at homecoming..i wasnted to remain freinds...but guess not!..i hope he realizes what he had...why do guys do that! make you fall in love with them...break your heart then act as if they never cared?...
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (29 October 2007):
hi.
thank you for your reply i am happy that i was able to help, keep your head up high, keep smiling, now go out and get yourself a great life.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot for the advice..i really appreciate it..and your right..the way he treated our relationship wasnt worth my tears..i will eventually get over him with time..thanks =)
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (28 October 2007):
hi Anon.
I am sorry to hear that you have broken up with your BF, these things just happen in life especially at your age, do not be too concerned, if he was treating you the way, you said he was then that is his problem, and no way to be in a relationship, you deserve more from a relationship. you will need to calm down a bit you seem very angry in your letter, come on babe chill out.
I am sure there are load of Guy in your school who want to go out with you, and if they do, because of your anger they will think you are still in love with him, then they wont bother with you, then you will loose out.
Its over babe do not wreck your life over this person who does not respect you, settle your self down, be calmer, and when you see him act relaxed show him you do not care and your glad its over, then he may feel the same way you feel now, he deserves all he gets, and you deserve a lot better, after all he is the looser , because he has lost you.
be safe, keep well, good luck.
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