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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Lot's to say

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22 October 2007 (F) - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing ...

I've recently gone through a brea-up. We are still friends, but now I like somebody else. Should I tell him, or just wait it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I have just recently gone through a breakup but now I have feelings for another guy. We are good friends and this poses a problem. He may like me but I think he may be afraid of what he is feeling also because he's my friend. Do you h...

Do I leave him? If not, how do I get over the fact that he was a member of a sex chat site??

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22 October 2007 (F) - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of the responses on her...

How do you let go of someone you truely love? How can I get him out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - this is my story....i have just split up with by boyfriend of just over 2 years (we also where engaged only to cement the relationship). he got violent and was arrested for assalt because he was drunk and insecure accusing me of sleeping around and ...

He says he loves me but I can't reciprocate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6250 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone. I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the ...

If I leave him alone, will he miss me and come back, or will it cause more damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I would love opinions from everyone but especially want a male point of view. My partner of 2 years left me a few weeks ago to sort through some issues he has. If i leave him alone will he miss me and come back? Will contacting him really cause more ...

She wasn't sure our relation was going to work so we met unofficially! Since her mum introduced her to someone else, she's put me aside. What shall I do?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Hi I met someone and after 8-9months we were going to get married - but shortly after she decided to cancel saying that she had issues with me and would like to sort through them - then 2weeks after she said she just wanted out and it wasnt going to...

I want out because I'm not loyal and I'm bored. But she loves me - and sometimes I think I love her - so I could just come back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - Okay, well I have been going out with this girl for about six months. I look at myself and I think "why would someone want to go out with me?" I think this because I like my freedom - I'm unloyal - and to be honest I get bored. Well, now I'm thin...

We are fantastic together, but he always leaves to solve his marriage issues and ends up returning! Will he come back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I have had a wonderful relationship with a man for nearly 3 years. We are best friends as well as having so much passion and chemistry. We miss each other terribly if we ever have to be apart. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to spend ...

How can I get out of this vicious circle?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Hello, Mine is an odd one but I'll try to keep it all as short as possible. I had been living with my (now ex-)fiance for 18 months between September 2005 and March 2007. I'm now 28 and he's 24, and has always been a bit immature but I could hand...

Is there hope for us?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Hi all. Could really use a bit of advice from anyone who may be able to help. My ex and I recently split after 2 1/2 years together. Everything has been amicable and we are both still good friends. The only problem is that I want to be more than ...

When he isn't with someone else we get on well - how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6252 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I was seeing someone he told me things were not going to work out because the feelings was just not there,however we were still sleeping with each other i got pregnant he didnt want the baby i did he got a new girl friend, we didnt talk for months. ...

How can I avoid making waves?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and I recently split after 15 months with the strain of our long distance relationship (different universities). She had mentioned about a month prior that she thought we wouldn’t have much free time with increased workload...

I treat her like a princess but she keeps breaking my heart. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - Hey Cupids, Really need your help right now. To cut a long and complicated story short. Met a girl at uni, had a relationship, she broke up with me over the summer. She returned a few months later wanting a casual thing. I could'nt do that, but we...

I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...

A silly comment has blown all out of proportion - Am I a bad friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - One of my best friends has recently starting going with a boy at school, and although he irritates me sometimes, he's a mate of mine too. I jokingly called him a tw@t the other day in front of him and my friend, because we were chatting and joking ...

It was on and off at the time, but I just cant get over him. Advice please

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22 October 2007 (F) - The relationship was intense, more flight than fight, lasted 1 year... with many breakups. It is now a year The best times and some very bad times.It is now a year ago and I have met a few guys since then just to see if it was possible to enter ...

I fell in love with another guy and I'm married.

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22 October 2007 (F) - hi, please help me get off to this situation.. im married, i have fallen to onother guy, yes i made mistake but i really wanted to get off to this other guy, although i loved him already.. i know its wrong to be with him coz im married.. i do love ...

The thought of her leaving again makes me physically sick.

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22 October 2007 (M) - I am madly in love with my gf...after five years, am more in love with her than ever. We will marry, but not until we are out of school and have jobs, etc. She spent half of last school year in a program in Europe. She asked for my input and I ...

What does she mean by this?

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22 October 2007 (M) - "sorry just have alot on my mind.. haven't really wanted to talk to anyone lately i guess. tryin to clear my head and concentrate on my test also" "no i don't want you out of my life, i guess i just need a lil space right now" and the night b...

My ex sent me a friend request on myspace.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6253 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - My ex-boyfriend sent me a friend request on myspace. He was on there before when we were dating but he'd decided to delete his profile (not because we broke up). I don't really want him in my list, or as a friend because he was too intense of a ...