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Archived questions from: January, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Not sure what to do when ex-long-term boyfriend comes to visit

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7227 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - A few months ago, i broke up with my long term boyfriend, i may be only 15 but i really need to get some advice on this, i really loved him, never felt towards anybody else like this before, and although we are still good mates, i feel like there is ...

Should I stay and make everyone else happy? Or leave and please myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - I am due to be married in August. I moved in with my fiance and my parents were not pleased as they are strict Catholics, however, I had to get out of their house where I was living as I suffer from depression and there was a major family upheaval ...

Can't decide between current boyfriend or new guy... But sex with both is lacking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7233 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - Help! I have been in a serious relationship for about 6 years now we live together in his house. I have been having doubts about whether I’m doing the right thing for a couple of years. Due to a change in my b/f's circumstances everything...

A very messy end with my boyfriend: Feel like I can't trust anyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7233 days ago

31 January 2005 (?) - Please help. I have recently split up from my boyfriend after splitting up with him he started ringing all my friends and colleges in work telling lies. I now have just found out that one so called friend spent nearly 2 hours on the phone to him ...

My new man nips out to visit "friend" and takes all his belongings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7235 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - Help I don't no what to do, I met a man I completely fell in love with. Everything has been going fantastic making plans for future, he came to my house on wednesday. Everything was normal I was quiet due to being tired, next thing I know he ...

Did ex-boyfriend lie about reasons for our break-up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 January 2005 (?) - A month ago my boyfriend for three and a half months who loved me and I loved him broke up with me because he doesn't want a proper girlfriend right now. He still wanted to be friends which was fine with me, because we do the same course at college ...

Should I call him or call it an end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

27 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm a little sad/depressed at the moment. My boyfriend and I finished just a few weeks ago. We have been going out with one another on and off for around 2 and half years. I'm absolutley gutted tht he hasn't contacted me and feel that ...

Should I trust my boyfriend... Who has "commitment issues"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

26 January 2005 (?) - Hi, I need your advice. I am 19, been with my boyfriend (23) for two years. He has a 4 year old boy from a previous relationship. He has big committment issues. I think it is because his ex was so horrible to him and wouldn't let him see his boy at ...

Why is my ex-boyfriend going around telling lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7239 days ago

25 January 2005 (?) - I need help working out why my boyfriend after splitting up with him then started ringing all my friends and colleges in work telling lies, then texting me with what he has done and then started ringing my parent telling more lies. I can’t stop w...

I want him desperately but he does not want me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7238 days ago

24 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid My husband (of four years) and I have been separated for just over a year. It was his decision to leave, and he has never given me any reason for ending it, other than to say he was sick of the arguments. He has always refused my reque...

I went to the US, tried a relationship which didn't work. Can I pretend nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7241 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I am 28 and foolish. I was in a four year relationship when I went away (hols) and met a guy who I knew for a week. I quit my relationship. I didn't tell my friends why I was leaving but i moved to the US to live with the new guy, after ...

I took the cowards way out and said I couldn't end my marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7241 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - I would really appreciate some advice. Last year on a Guy's trip to Dublin from the UK I met a fantastic Girl, we swopped Numbers and were in contact most days and would meet up at least once a month for over a year, The relationship was the most...

Should I take my mum's advice and not do all the chasing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7236 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - my boyfriend came round last week and very suddenly he started acting very strange, very off with me and refused to tell me what was wrong. In fact, he claimed that there wasnt anyhting wrong. When he went home and rang me later that night he ...

Help needed trying to fix a broken heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7241 days ago

23 January 2005 (?) - am trying to fix my broken heart. the man that i thought was my man did a 360 on me, he doesnt respects me at all,he stays gone for days at a time. i am so hurt i just need some advice i love him but i know i need to let go,because he has could me ...

Should I finish with my lying, cheating, no good partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7006 days ago

22 January 2005 (?) - Should i finish with my partner he lies all the time and i cant trust him we have been together 10 months and i just dont trust him he goes to womans houses when we split goes out and says oh look here shes nice but not as good as you please help i ...

Can't bear to be without her, what can I say to make her change her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7242 days ago

21 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I were going out for a year when she and her family moved from Scotland, to Wales. At first she did'nt want to leave, but i told her she had to go with her family. Everything went well for the next three months with us both ...

My girlfriend refuses sex so I can't help feeling frustrated and resentful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and have a 1 year old daughter together. However, we are starting to drift apart and I'm worried our family will break up. It's been like this for about 5 months now, since my girlfriend ...

I wish my girlfriend showed a little more upset at our breakup!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7243 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - Hi, My ex-girlfriend and I finally decided to call it quits after I accidentally read her chat logs with one of her friends (I swear I bumped into it but I dont think she believes me) about how she has a crush on one of my close mates. We've ...

Split up with my partner but we still keep ending up in bed! I can't go on like this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - PLEASE HELP! I was with my partner for 9 1/2 years when last july he decided he wanted to split up and he moved out. We had problems but as always he did not talk to me about his feelings and decisions and it came as a shock. I found the break up...

My husband spends ALL our money on cars... I've finally said enough is enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7237 days ago

20 January 2005 (?) - My husband is mad about cars. Since we have been married (nearly thirteen years)he has changed his car about twelve times. This may seem ok but everytime he upgrades the car and gets a larger loan so in essence the car we have at present is costing ...

I'm older than he is and his parents forced us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7222 days ago

19 January 2005 (?) - I was going out with a guy for nine months. We had huge problems with his parents because they said I was too old for him (he's 19 an im 22) We didnt know what the big deal was. After four months of us being together my dad booked us a holiday to ...

I have no control over wanting to call and text my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

19 January 2005 (?) - i have recently split up with a guy of a year who i thought was mr right nine weeks ago am really hurt and want him back but he wont cooperate, i find myself wanting to call him or text him every day and feel like i have no self control over this ...

My sister has been kicked out of her home... I don't know how to help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7191 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - I am writing this on my sisters behalf. My sister had been with her partner for a year, they seemed happy to me they have a 6 month old son and were a happy little family, but all of a sudden he has dumped her and chucked her out of the flat tha...

My constant badgering and insecurities have our relationship on the edge of disaster!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

18 January 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. I'm 23 and he's 24. We moved into our own house together in August. I love him to bits and I never had any doubts about our relationship until 2 weeks ago. I was feeling pretty down and he was work...

Scared I'll get lonely and go back to my no-good ex-husband... Again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have just split up with the father of my youngest son, after a seven year relationship that has had many problems. He's very possesive and gets a little upset when i go out with friends. I don't feel the love for him, as he has changed into a m...

My giflfriend cheated on me with a friend, now I don't know how to tell people we have split

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7244 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - My girlfried recently cheated on me after we had a row. We had been arguing a lot and have been on and off for four years but this time were trying to give things a proper go. The problem is she has only moved back to the area recently so only...

I broke up with my girl and she slept with my friend that very night

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7206 days ago

17 January 2005 (?) - I have recently got back together with an ex girlfried. We were together on and off for four years. She moved away when we split up 8 months ago and moved back to where I live to be with me. I kind of always thought in the back of my mind thing...

I bought a VW camper van for us... But now my soul-mate girlfriend has just told me it's over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7221 days ago

16 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, During a placement year at university in 2000, I moved away from home (about 100 miles) and although I had no intentions of becoming involved with anyone, I ended up meeting the most wonderful girl I have ever known. At the time, I ...

Can't let go of my ex-alcoholic boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

16 January 2005 (?) - I have dated my ex-b/f for 8 years. I recently broke up with him 6 months ago for maybe the 10th time. I know that this man is not right for me yet I still think of him and have a hard time letting go. He is 61 and I am 48. He is a recovered ...

My boyfriend prefers love with himself, not with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7250 days ago

14 January 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 2 half years, the relationship has been fairly good, although, there has always been issues with sex. My partner is very sexualy inexperienced, having only been in 2 relationships be...

My guy lashes out, he has turned me into a wreck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7250 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - Opionions and advice are realy needed. I've been with my guy for 5 years (since I was 14) and for the past 4 of those years he has managed to turn me into a wreck. I have a good job and I live with him and his parents, but for the past 8 months i ...

My great new girlfriend dropped a bombshell: She used to be a prostitute!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7251 days ago

13 January 2005 (?) - I've met this girl 4 months ago and things are starting to get serious with her. We started living together and naturaly spending all of our time with each other. She is really a nice girl and I love her deeply. Just the other day she told me her d...

Should I give up dysfunctional relationship with father of my child for new man at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6901 days ago

12 January 2005 (?) - Hi At present I am in a relationship which I am not happy with and he is the father of my child (we have lived together for 12 yrs). I recently started a job and met a guy who is in the same situation as me. When we first met he told me he was n...

Ex came back but says she is in love with another guy too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6904 days ago

12 January 2005 (?) - My partner of three years went back with her previous boyfriend last July since then she never stops thinking about me. We are now back together again. But she says she is in love with both of us and she does not know what to do. She is 52 and ...

Should I keep trying with my on-off ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

12 January 2005 (?) - Six months ago my girlfriend broke up with me for the second time in our 3 and half year relationship. We were very good friends for about a year before we got together, but neither of us ever thought about each other in any other way apart from "...

Should you turn your back on someone who loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - I've fallen for a man 30 years older than me. We did start something up about 2 months ago after I found out that he liked me too and that he had done since he first laid eyes on me. I've never had a lot of attention from lads my age and because ...

I had an abortion and want to break up with my boyfriend but am scared of consequences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Last year, I got pregnant and subsequently had an abortion. During this upsetting period, my family and I learned that my sister was having her first baby. It was so hard to cope, although I was so happy for her. Since then, I have wanted to break ...

I have to choose between my troubled soldier boyfriend or new man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

10 January 2005 (?) - Im a 31 year old mother of 2 children (8and 10) and i met my current boyfriend 3 years ago,we got on well upto FEB,2003 when he got his call up to Iraq with the army. We were apart for 5 months,but spoke nearly every day and wrote letters and emai...

Should I give up my great relationship for the girl that came back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7140 days ago

9 January 2005 (?) - I am a 32 year old man. Nearly four years ago, I met a girl through a mutual friend. My friend knew that this girl was being cheated on and generally being treating badly by her boyfriend, but wanted her to meet a "nice guy", and thought we would be ...

How can I tell someone I used to love that I don't love them anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

9 January 2005 (?) - How can i tell someone i was in love with but not in love with him anymore without hurting him?...

I got a hickey and my girl went nuts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7258 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I need some help, I have been with this girl for about two years, and I screwed it up. I got drunk one night at a college bar and this girl gave me a hicky and my girlfriend saw it. She has always had trust issues with me and that was the last ...

My girl is too emotional, how do I ask her to move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am a 35 year old man dating a younger woman who moved in with me when she and her sister had an argument this was only supposed to be temporary. She has had a problem finding a job and it has been a year now. We have had arguments and she went to h...

Why is this girl messing me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7257 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - Well, where do I start ? I met a girl about 7 months ago. We moved in together as friends. We were friends for about a month and then started dating. We were together for 6 months. She has a 6 year old son who looks at me like his dad and hugs me, ...

My online dating experience

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7231 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I recently met a woman through e-harmony and I have to admit that after a year of dating and a year of phone conversations I finally came across a woman whom I cherish. After years of looking I finally met a woman I knew the first time I saw her I ...

Should I keep calling him until he forgives me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7258 days ago

6 January 2005 (?) - I am 25 years old and I have a boyfriend. The only problem is that I am unsure whether he holds me to an importance as much as I do him. I sometimes like I'm not important enough just to recieve a phone call. I wrote a letter telling him about my...

Does my girlfriend just have another guy lined up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6898 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - my girlfriend of 7 months just out of the blue dropped the I want a break line. while I am still mad over her, I live two hours away and work fulltime, and she is still in grad school for a couple of years. this month she has had off from school and ...

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7258 days ago

4 January 2005 (?) - How do i break up with my boyfriend. we've been going out for one month. i dont like him anymore and i dont wanna keep going out with him and lead him on. what should i do?...

My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I don't believe

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - Hi I have been dating this girl for 5 months now and last night she told me that we have to break up because i'm a non-believer of her faith. Both of us are 18 years. Is it worth a break-up now? Is that really a problem? Can there be other issues a...

I'm leaving my boyfriend for a year... What should happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7157 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I dated my boyfriend for 8 months and we were very much in love. I have wanted to go study abroad for a long time. A couple of months before I met him I found a way to go. After falling in love with him we both knew that I was leaving for a ye...

Married for 11 years to my "soul-mate" but I had an affair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6900 days ago

3 January 2005 (?) - I've been married for 11 years (together for 13 years) to the man I thought was my soul mate, but I recently had an affair with a man I met at work, we no longer work together but the attraction is this there. He says he loves me and wants us to be ...