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writes: A month ago my boyfriend for three and a half months who loved me and I loved him broke up with me because he doesn't want a proper girlfriend right now. He still wanted to be friends which was fine with me, because we do the same course at college i was seeing him every day all day. And he ignored me he wouldn't even look at me, apart from one day which was two weeks after we broke up he started acting in such a way that people thought we were going back out again but next time he saw me he was ignoring me and wouldn't speak to me. And now he's thinking about going after this other girl and asking her out, and he's still ignoring me, i don't know what to do whether he lied to me as to why he broke up with me or what? I hate it because he avoids me and won't speak to me and when i do speak to him over the internet ti'll take him forever to reply and then the conversation just fades away after i ask him how he is. I'm just really confused and upset because i'm not sure if he lied to me or what, and i want to talk to him because I want to find out why he did break up with me as it doesn't seem like he broke up with me because he doesn't want a girlfriend. Do you think that was why he broke up with me or for another reason?
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reader, lulugirl  +, writes (25 November 2008):
this just happened to me too. i have been tossing and turning in my sleep wondering the same thing. I thought everything was perfect until one monday he started acting really weird. then i asked him what was wrong and he told me that he couldnt have a girlfriend now because of sports and work and he wouldnt have time and wouldnt be able to commit so i said okay. he ignored me (even at the halloween party the next day) saturday he said he couldnt not talk to me and i was still devestated from the break up and was like okay i want you but what about work and everything and he was like well we can work it out then sunday he ended it again. for weeks he wouldnt talk to me then one day he acted like we were really good friends again and i though okay maybe he worked something out. then my best friend showed me his myspace page and said he was going after someone (that was two weeks ago) and this morning i found out he is really serious about this girl.
why are guys like that not honest. it would have been easier if he would have just said i dont like you anymore. we need to move on. instead he just left me thinking and stringing me along until after the season.
honestly from my expierence i think he broke up with you for other reasons. why else would he be so quick to jump at some other girl.
it sucks i know and sorry...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005):
Ok, first off you two are not in love. You will get that one day.
Secondly, even if he lied.... it doesnt matter because you two are broken up. If he snubs you? If he doesnt respond to your IM's? Doesnt matter, you are broken up.
You are sifting through the shards of this thing trying to find a silver bullet that just isnt there.
Start dating someone new.
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